Perhaps you cam, and your partner does too or is even in the adult biz in some way.
How do you maintain balance and work through obstacles?
Slow months, financials, ect?
Do you fight? What are the most sensitive topics?
Can you work with other models? Can he/she? Do you have an open relationship?
Boundaries? Do you set any?
Can you contact your custies offline? Are there certain sex acts or scenarios you have agreed not to do?
What at to do when you can't come to an understanding?
Sensitive topics that don't find resolutions right awat. Ones you will have to agree to disagree on.
Can't lie. My relationship was easier before I started camming. There were just scenarios I never had to talk about with my partner. Such as "what goes on when you c2c?" "Are you going to do anal?"
i noticed more models having crushes on other models and it's only inevitable people will date and maybe even who knows? Get married one day. But, the dynamic of the adult industry certainly (for me anyways) changes a relationship and I (although don't like admitting it) have a difficult time with my partner and reaching an understanding about a lot of things work related.
if there's anyone in a relationship, marriage, share your experiences here. Your partner doesn't have to be in the adult world, but would love your input if they are. If you're thinking of dating someone in this biz it's a cool way to ask questions and gain insight.
I met my partner when we were both not in the adult biz. Now we are in different avenues. I work purely solo, she is not a model but works with other models. I personally struggle with it, I don't like it when she works with other models. I'm always being told I'm insecure - but in my opinion, I feel strong, open, and honest that im able to admit what bothers me in the first place. Very recently, we were working on a new project together, and I get the vibe she's purposely backing out of it and putting me down so she can start her own project with new models. Her project will likely make great money, and I'm happy for her. But I think the way she's going about it is hurtful and boastful towards me after having 3 very bad months on SM. I've been told I'm past my prime recently, and it was probably one of the biggest blows to me. My partner was really speaking to me as if I'm a porn chick in Spieglers office. I haven't felt right about it since its been said. It's hard to take the "realities of porn" out of a relationship where both people are somehow in it.
How do you deal with the obstacles the adult industry puts on relationships? How do you overcome?



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