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    Hey all, I used to be a cam model a couple of years ago and I stopped. Now I'm looking into escorting- I've already got an ad up on a couple different sites and have been contacted by a few guys. Two of them got through to the stage where they email me and I sent them my screening questionnaire and never heard back from them.

    So I ask for a photocopy of ID and then here's my questionairre:

    "Full name:
    Date and time desired for appointment:

    Location of appointment*:
    Personal phone:
    Place of employment:
    Work phone:

    At least two references:


    Tell me a bit about what your expectations/desires are for our session. The more detail you can give, the better I can serve you."

    Is this too much? How do you all do screening? Do you do it as an email or do you have like an online survey type thing?

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    I think there's an art to asking these questions without making them uncomfortable and the questions you're asking and the method you're using are a deterrent. To getting clients. No guy is going to send you his ID, work information and tell you what he wants all in the same email babe. That's a recipe for losing his job and possibly his wife.

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    Oh man. Thank you for the reply. So do I ask these questions in a more... like... conversational way? I guess I see people talk about what they ask for in screening but I have no idea how to request that information!

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    What customer in their right mind would give you that kind of information? Do you disclose your real name and personal phone number? If not, how can you expect the customer to do so? I would never give that info to a provider. Can't imagine anybody else doing so.

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    Please email me and I will give you a better idea of how to do it. I don't want to put it on the board publicly.

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    Default Re: Screening questions!

    here is a good example of how to screen maybe make them choose one of the options instead of all three.Screening via references are the best in my opinion

    http://www.datelillylockhart.com/#!s...g-options/c3rw

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    Duh Re: Screening questions!

    Asking age, race and occupation is not screening since you have no way of knowing if any of it is actually true without actually screening. And NEWSFLASH! the guys that want to rob you or do you bodily harm will most always sound nice professional and proper because crimes against sex workers are usually about asserting power over the women in the business not because they are thugs and it's usually the most buttoned up normal looking guys that do it.

    Please feel free to private message me for screening tips.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Luckyguy09 View Post
    Question: So if age/race isn't screening, then why are custys even ask for this information?
    Just their personal preference, yes 'no AA' may be because they have had many AA try to be their pimps, they may also prefer older, more respectful clients... So it may be 'screening out some customers', but it is not thorough screening to verify the client is safe and not LE.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Luckyguy09 View Post
    The basic hoops I have to jump through are:

    Age
    Race
    Occupation

    Only one escort asked for me to send her a picture of myself--which I did. Also, they don't answer blocked numbers or numbers that were changed with any apps. After that any slang or guys who don't sound mature or professional who don't use the English language to the best of their ability are also blocked. Lastly, there is no discussion about s** or any suggestions or expectations. Not surprised you didn't get any calls because that sounds like you're a cop trying to get a custy to incriminate himself.



    Today, escorts are mainly screening heavy through race and age. That said, always trust your gut! No race or age of man is completely safe. Any male regardless of race or age could be a cop or killer.

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    What customer in their right mind would give you that kind of information? Do you disclose your real name and personal phone number? If not, how can you expect the customer to do so? I would never give that info to a provider. Can't imagine anybody else doing so.


    You guys are giving out incorrect and unsafe information. I will respectfully ask that you guys quit giving advice to new Sex Workers that may be damaging and harmful and allow other Ladies that have the experience and insight they need to stay safe and hopefully successful respond. And for the record race and age are not hardly what they need to know or focus on at all

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    Quote Originally Posted by AubreyDabi View Post
    Please email me and I will give you a better idea of how to do it. I don't want to put it on the board publicly.
    I totally sent you a million messages on accident as well lol! It was an accident I swear

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    Quote Originally Posted by CFMNH44 View Post
    Just their personal preference, yes 'no AA' may be because they have had many AA try to be their pimps, they may also prefer older, more respectful clients... So it may be 'screening out some customers', but it is not thorough screening to verify the client is safe and not LE.
    Lol. Essentially, you're asking for race to ensure they're not black without simply stating "No Black Men"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Exxotica View Post
    Lol. Essentially, you're asking for race to ensure they're not black without simply stating "No Black Men"
    Exactly.

    I suppose its better than those crass ads talking about no black men allowed. I see that shyte on Backpage and want to cringe - really hoes we back in the 50's now? wtf?

    Don't they know azzholes come in the form of any race?

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    Default Re: Screening questions!

    Quote Originally Posted by lunalacelove View Post
    Hey all, I used to be a cam model a couple of years ago and I stopped. Now I'm looking into escorting- I've already got an ad up on a couple different sites and have been contacted by a few guys. Two of them got through to the stage where they email me and I sent them my screening questionnaire and never heard back from them.

    So I ask for a photocopy of ID and then here's my questionairre:

    "Full name:
    Date and time desired for appointment:

    Location of appointment*:
    Personal phone:
    Place of employment:
    Work phone:

    At least two references:


    Tell me a bit about what your expectations/desires are for our session. The more detail you can give, the better I can serve you."

    Is this too much? How do you all do screening? Do you do it as an email or do you have like an online survey type thing?
    I don't ask for clients to send a copy of their ID but I do ask for:

    Full name
    age
    city of residence
    occupation
    email
    cell phone number
    Appt date & time
    References (if available)
    Board handles/P411/etc

    I check their I.D. on arrival, but I already know who they are. I have a form for clients on my website. Some clients choose to email the screening info instead. I independently verify ALL of the info they send me, email their references, and also run the info through screening & blacklist sites (and more). I make sure I know exactly who I'm meeting. Simply collecting info isn't screening.

    All of my clients send me all of this info. Some men aren't comfortable with this level of screening. That's ok, there are plenty of women for those men to see who have fewer requirements. There are also plenty of clients who have no problem with my screening.

    Most clients won't want to send a copy of their I.D., so you may want to reconsider that requirement. Don't let anyone tell you clients won't give you the other screening info. Sure, there are some who won't, but many will. Stick with the screening methods that make you comfortable

    I would NOT ask clients to tell you their expectations & desires when they send their booking info. Booking (offer of money) + discussion of sexual activities is the magic formula needed for an arrest. Unless a client has a specific fetish, they all want the same basic things. You don't need to ask. If a client does have a fetish, at least wait until after you've thoroughly screened him before discussing it (in a separate communication not connected to money/booking).
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