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    My BF is asking me to model myself at a strip club. I am not looking for any monetary benefits. Can I do this with hiding my identity and or wearing a masquerade? Any recommendations on doing this in NYC or surrounding areas? Any advices?

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    so.. you want to work at a strip club.. but just for fun/free? uhh, i guess technically you don't HAVE to make money but you're going to have to dance on stage and actually work- they'll make you audition and fill out paperwork. you'll have to adhere to the same rules as the other girls who work there. you can't just walk in and stand there "modeling" in some crazy ass costume for your boyfriend. most clubs don't even allow boyfriends in. perhaps there's some other place you can act out your fantasies? like a "lifestyle" club or whatever they call them.

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    Just do your little stripping adventure out of town and save yourself the disguise hassle.

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    So you wanna go to a strip club and let customers paw at you for free & do basically what we do for free for your boyfriend??? First most strip clubs don't allow boyfriends, 2nd the club will still want their house fee (expect $100 fee & up not including tip out), and 3rd other dancers will more than likely be pissed since you are pretty much offering up the same services but for free. This is our job, not our hobby. We already have enough people that make this a harder job with out people like this wanting to come in and do it for free!!!!

    Do yourself and the club a favor & take your butt to a swingers club -that is what they're for not a strip club
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    There are house fees & tipping out every night. Doing this so your boyfriend can get his kicks is bananas. Management isn't going to allow that unless they get paid. Doubt if they will allow the mask either. Everyone has a phone, everyone can secretly record you. A mask only makes you think you are hiding your identity.

    If you have a career or family that would be upset about this then the fantasy isn't worth it for a boyfriend. Especially if you have career goals & ambition. A bit of roleplay should not be able to haunt you in the future.

    Look at it from the strip clubs point of view, why would they let you 'model' in their club? Everyone who works there has to submit an ID & fill out paper work for alcohol license purpose plus a few other regulations. They don't care about ya'll kicks or fantasy. This is a business, maybe a swinger's club would be more appropriate for such adventures.

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    Not to mention the other performers there will be pissed off of you doing it all for free & cutting into their hustle to do it just for kicks. You don't know viscous until you deal with pissed off strippers up close & personal.

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    Go to an amateur night or better yet buy yourself an Xpole so you can get your jollies off. Good grief.
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    Yeah for real, tell your boyfriend to kick rocks. You would look ridiculous wearing a mask on stage, they probably wouldn't allow it anyway.

    This is even assuming you could get HIRED at an NYC club. They are notoriously picky.
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    Yea, lifestyle clubs, also there's a big fancy sc near me, they do hold occasional event nights, they had one re ently w art stuff in it maybe some pl by you wd have similar?
    Ive done nude art modeling, everyone was very nice & respectful, I could've brought along someone (I didn't) I was there to be sketched by artists, I also did a clothed costume session


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    Thanks for all the feedback. Can someone please point me to lifestyles events or masquerade parties near New York city or within 400 miles radius.

    Simlarly can I get pointer to nude modeling in the area? Also, how can I find smaller strip clubs maybe in suburbs where I might have better luck and anonymity as well.

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    Um... Google? FetLife? One of the kink forums?

    Nude modeling, you can try ModelMayhem but just be careful. Check references from at least 2 models for each photographer. Don't expect to get paid for the first several shoots. There's a big thread about this in the Other Work forum.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    Um... Google? FetLife? One of the kink forums?

    Nude modeling, you can try ModelMayhem but just be careful. Check references from at least 2 models for each photographer. Don't expect to get paid for the first several shoots. There's a big thread about this in the Other Work forum.
    LOL Was about to say "Google" We can't do the research for you. In fact, make the boyfriend do all the research since it is HIS IDEA... why are you doing all the research on it & then asking us to do it. Cause in reality if this was truly what you both wanted. Ya'll would have already hit the strip clubs together to feel it all out.

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    dance for free? that's a first.
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    Anybody smell a troll?
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    OP, nowhere in NYC will they let you wear a mask
    And why would you? Floant that face girl! And tell your bf to piss off while you're at it. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. Also like others have said, you'll still have to pay house fee, DJ, house mom, hair and make up and in NYC its expensive.

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    My bf is providing me trip to Europe (Zurich / Geneva / Paris / Berlin). How much see through dress or low rise jeans (with a little lower) can I wear without getting into trouble? Any suggestions to safely flaunt my body in major tourist places in these cities? Any dedicated sites that someone can suggest to get more information in these topics? I was trying to get this info on google but was ending up on creepy sites. Greatly appreciate your feedback or pointers if any -- Julie

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    Lmaooo please come to my club with a mask on!

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    I'm wondering if the small penis trolls and the Mumbai escorts are trying something new.
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    Seriously?

    Troll.
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