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    How do you ladies feel about ungrateful trollish customers?

    I have to be honest: I do the type of shows I want. I create content that I enjoy. And, I don't just do things "for money" or because "another model did it". I find the beauty in different women loving different things and having different clients.

    However, I'm always met with really trollish customers who are always telling me, pushing me, making sly remarks at my content as if they don't get enough. I'm mainly a fetish model and state that in my live show and website, but I always *ALWAYS* have messages in my inbox such as "more hardcore bb. more b/g bb. when are u doing g/g?" When that's never been my hustle. Maybe they feel it will sway my opinion or pressure me to do it if they just act like what I'm doing isn't enough.

    I think the thing that irks me is that all these suggestions are made but guys don't look at what they're paying for. It's like, "Okay. You guys want full scale professional indie porn with actors? Are you willing to double your membership price to cover my extra cost for talent and full production?" You're already complaining about $20 membership for a vid and photoset a month. And when I get into shooting clips, will you then complain I'm not online enough? It's like a never ending whine fest.

    If customers like the model but not the content she enjoys to create, find another model. It's that simple. I hate when guys try and make dommes masturbate, or try and DP when you clearly say NO ANAL.

    How do you deal with the "Is that all I get bb?" type of customers?

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    Is simple: This is what I offer, this is what you get.
    You don't go at asian restaurant and ask for pizza.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cutie101 View Post
    Is simple: This is what I offer, this is what you get.
    You don't go at asian restaurant and ask for pizza.
    This is the down right funniest and truthiest truth to have ever truthed.

    Fuck 'em. You do what you want. They're still paying/buying, right? Then keep doing what you want.

    The problem comes when/if you don't have anyone buying anymore.

    If you are really concerned or want to look at it, double-check/look at your marketing and make sure you're genuinely advertising what you're selling? This way there's no reason for them to NOT know what they're getting? But it sounds like you already do that so ... I'm stumped. *shrugs*
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    As soon as I read this, I started to imagine a particular Streamate model who would tell guys "I'm sorry, I don't think this is the right room for you. You have a wonderful day" right before she'd kick or ban them. Haha. I thought it was awesome. Lol.

    And don't even get me started on the men who complain to cam girls about how they're "not online enough." Haha. I guess, in their minds, cam girls are supposed to be chillin' on free chat sites 8 hours a day...5 days a week. Fuck that. You could be finishing up your usual 3 or 4 hours on MFC or wherever, and getting ready to log out, and there will be that one guy who comes in talking about "Aw, you leaving? But I just got here." Well? Get here sooner. Lmao.

    They kill me with that shit. These are the same guys who say to cam girls "Where have you been lately??? I missed you. You're never on here." Bullshit. And then a minute later their ADD ass leaves the room (to go check out other models online) and keeps popping in and out all night. Like dude, really? After you just made a big production about how I'm "never on here" and you "missed me." Yeah, okay. Like the song says...don't it always seem to go...that you don't know what you've got 'til it's gone. And then when it's time for you to call it a night, they act like you committed a damn crime. "Whaaat? You're leaving??? No, bb...you're supposed to plan your camming times around MY schedule and MY availability!" Haha.
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    You don't because it's never enough.

    I just banned one on skype today after having to explain to him I'm a built-in fetish, I'm hot enough without having to fuck my ass but he kept on insisting so he's gone.
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    LOL I'm a humiliatrix so trolls are my food. I love to chew on them, roll them around on my acid tongue then spit them out and watch them die a slow, agonizing death before they get banned to oblivion. Guys with money love it so much. When I run out of trolls, I let basics, greys and *shudder* guests talk too! Face them head on and kick them in the balls!
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    I just ban. It keeps my room running how I like it. Plus since I'm on sm I ban bc we have the lovely ratings to worry about. If it wasn't for that I's make sm alot more money and just let them run their bs all day.

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    I'm glad I'm not alone in feeling this way.

    I think my biggest pet peeve right now is how many guys buy a 1 year subscription for my Website and then try to bail a few months in and get their $$$ back. But they wanted to see all the content for the cheapest price.

    I've easily shot over 100 photo sets and videos on top of camming in the last year and recently took 2 weeks off and was greeted by a ton of stupid messages. I also used to do gold shows for my model Centro site until one of my members stole the video and put it on a tube site.

    Thanks fans.

    Yet they wonder why I won't shoot a double anal bang bang for $20 a month.

    I must be a real Debbie downer. Loll

    Fuckers. Since when have customers been so entitled? Honestly this is the reason I could personally never put my content for sale or break deals. It doesn't make customers treat you with more respect I think it only brings on worse behavior.

    On SM I've also had to ban tons of regs - probably 20+ this week. Guys who haven't been in my room for 4 months come back and have everything to say about my hair, my schedule, my rates. Asking for Skype and panties on my freechat. Honestly, disrespecting the place of a customer and trying to produce my show in freechat.

    The level of irritation this leaves me on SM when I can't connect to a show but the trolls can always see and hear me loud and clear is so beyond frustrating.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xCamLovex View Post
    Fuckers. Since when have customers been so entitled? Honestly this is the reason I could personally never put my content for sale or break deals. It doesn't make customers treat you with more respect I think it only brings on worse behavior.

    On SM I've also had to ban tons of regs - probably 20+ this week. Guys who haven't been in my room for 4 months come back and have everything to say about my hair, my schedule, my rates. Asking for Skype and panties on my freechat. Honestly, disrespecting the place of a customer and trying to produce my show in freechat.
    Because we've moved from a 'free market' society for the purpose of making sure prices are 'fair' into Extreme Couponing, discountdiscountdiscount, and, "If you buy this one thing, you get 73 other things for free and $40 in StoreCash/Credit to come spend next week!"

    People, men and women, are used to getting things for free. They're used to bargain hunting, getting anything and everything they can for nearly nothing for, what I think is, two reasons: 1) necessity from recession and the shrinking middle class, and growth of the working poor; and 2) corporate sales techniques trying to entice more people to buy and patronize their stores - they can sell shit cheap if they have the numbers buying from them.

    And I think because you can find so much fucking porn for free these days, they've forgotten that as adult webcam models we are a luxury. Some guys might go to a strip club and just sit and watch and never tip a girl, and basically get a 'free' show - but they paid for the gas to get there, maybe they'll buy themselves a drink ... and do clubs even let freeloaders just fucking sit there? (No idea, really, I've only ever been to a strip club once). More often than not, if they're going out, they bring $$$ - for drinks, food/snacks, even just to fucking TIP the damn girl because they want to see her titties up close (and it's what you fucking DO, she's WORKING, you asshats!), and maybe even some extra because you want a girl for a private dance all your own. WE ARE A LUXURY.

    You want free sex? Use Tinder, OkCupid, go to the fucking bar. Or, hey, here's an idea, why don't you go attempt to seduce your wife? ... oh wait, no? You don't want to? That's cool, that's fine. No judgies here at all. We're here ... but we're a commodity - a HOT damn commodity - and a luxurious one at that. We deserve to be compensated appropriately for that luxury service ... not heckled to rollback our prices and hand out free samples on Saturdays (or any day really).

    I'd say I'm hoping for a massive mindset change, but really ... women have been the 'property' of men one way or another for a ridiculously long time. There are a fuckton of men who actually genuinely appreciate what we do and pay without complaint because they get it. Unfortunately, there are just a fuckton more that think because they have a penis, and that penis is hard, that the Pretty Lady in the Magic Computer Box is required to fix it no matter what.
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    I was JUST thinking about the title of your thread for the past couple of weeks.
    It seems that summer brings out the worst customers, ( in my rooms). It honestly makes me want to quit camming, and puts me in a foul mood.
    When I have to stop Gold Shows many a time because some prick is disrupting my show by barking orders ( all in capital letters mind You), to do things that are not part of my show!
    I blocked one jerk yesterday for screaming at me over and over that I should shove the entire Hitachi up my twat.
    I also got a bad rating when a guy insisted that I do something that I don't do, 6 minutes into a show.
    Now I just ask them just what your thread says, "Why are you never satisfied?"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    I was JUST thinking about the title of your thread for the past couple of weeks.
    It seems that summer brings out the worst customers, ( in my rooms). It honestly makes me want to quit camming, and puts me in a foul mood.
    When I have to stop Gold Shows many a time because some prick is disrupting my show by barking orders ( all in capital letters mind You), to do things that are not part of my show!
    I blocked one jerk yesterday for screaming at me over and over that I should shove the entire Hitachi up my twat.
    I also got a bad rating when a guy insisted that I do something that I don't do, 6 minutes into a show.
    Now I just ask them just what your thread says, "Why are you never satisfied?"
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    Even if you could fit the entire Hitachi up your pussy, are guys like him too stupid to realize how unbelievably uncomfortable that would be (for some women, at least) to have a VIBRATING HITACHI INSIDE OF YOU??? I've never owned one, but I've heard those things are very intense...so I could not imagine taking a toy that intense and shoving it in your pussy. I feel like I'd vibrate my whole body into a seizure or something...having something like that INSIDE me. Haha.
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    I don't have or attract customers like that. If you do your job and do it to the highest of your ability with skill, they'll praise you and keep coming back.




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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    I don't have or attract customers like that. If you do your job and do it to the highest of your ability with skill, they'll praise you and keep coming back.
    Yes, I am very good at what I do, and I'm sure everyone has their own unique skills and hustles that do very well for them. The more haters you have, the more successful you are. Just because you have haters doesn't mean you are attracting them. Did Christina Grimmie deserve to get shot? Did she attract the murderer? Was she not skilled enough? Wow, your post is offensive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xCamLovex View Post
    However, I'm always met with really trollish customers who are always telling me, pushing me, making sly remarks at my content as if they don't get enough. I'm mainly a fetish model and state that in my live show and website, but I always *ALWAYS* have messages in my inbox such as "more hardcore bb. more b/g bb. when are u doing g/g?" When that's never been my hustle. Maybe they feel it will sway my opinion or pressure me to do it if they just act like what I'm doing isn't enough.
    I used to be set in my ways about what i wanted to do and what I wouldn't do. Its good to have your boundaries set otherwise you end up doing just about anything for very little money. But now fast forward after so many years I realize that its not always a bad idea to take suggestions. I don't really get many trolls who try to boss me around but if I constantly get a request over and over I have to pay attention. You know like if its the same request and not too far off the realm of what I usually provide. I wouldn't exactly consider myself a glamour model but I get those sort of request when making custom clips. At first I was like wtf! Kiss my ass and take what I'm giving. But then someone pointed out that it wouldn't be that difficult to go out and get a few satin robes and a strand of pearls? So I did and as a result my clientele opened up even more. Im only rigid and set in my ways when it comes to collecting the money. On that I won't budge.

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    Have you considered raising your rates? Obviously if you have guys that have bought a year's subscription at $20/month you'll need to honor that but you can phase in new prices for new guys. I've found that the less you charge the more demanding clients you'll get--the guys who spend a lot of money are almost always the most lenient, appreciative, understanding guys and the ones who look for deals are the ones who are constantly trying to get more for their money. This might not be the issue at all but it's just a thought! Also, the longer I cam the more I err away from long-term commitments--when they feel they have you "locked in" that's when they'll start to demand more from you, and (for me at least) that's when I start to feel trapped so I start to really not enjoy what I'm doing. Securing large amounts of money upfront feels great at first but after a while always owing people something starts to really wear on me and take more of a mental toll than it would have to just work an extra day to make that money free and clear.

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    Every business get complaints. We are no exception. If it was a burger joint then why don't you serve steak, why isn't it two for one, can you give me an employee discount, etc.

    You answer them politely once & if they insist block. They simply are not your customer base, there is plenty of b/g & g/g content paid & free. Don't take it personally, more than likely they are messaging tons of girls. They are happy you write them back & give them attention whether it is good or bad.

    Silly to let it upset you or affect you in any manner.

    ALL businesses have demanding clients, theft, chargebacks & such. Do what you do best & keep moving forward.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    I was JUST thinking about the title of your thread for the past couple of weeks.
    It seems that summer brings out the worst customers, ( in my rooms). It honestly makes me want to quit camming, and puts me in a foul mood.
    When I have to stop Gold Shows many a time because some prick is disrupting my show by barking orders ( all in capital letters mind You), to do things that are not part of my show!
    I blocked one jerk yesterday for screaming at me over and over that I should shove the entire Hitachi up my twat.
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    We're always on the same page Glamour! But seriously don't quit because of these cunts. When you're ready to move on, let that me in *your* will not somebody else's!

    I eventually dislike my custies after a while because they always want something of me that that I didn't offer, and don't want to do, ever. "When will you fuck a bbc? When will you do a b/g video?" It's just not up to my fans to decide where I take my sexuality and what I'm willing to share. I feel a lot of shift in clip models more open to suggestions when creating content, and it doesn't translate into live Camming.

    I also can't perform gold shows anymore. Either they don't work and disconnect mid show or at the end of the countdown, or viewers crash it with horrendous comments. I had a trusted custie just blab on and on about raping me in the last show and I blocked him only to receive hate mail on my fan site.

    The treatment of cam models in general puzzles me and has honestly even gotten more vulgar and bizarre Since I started 2 years ago. I have a thick skin but that doesn't mean I can't identify shitty behavior when I see it

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    XCamLoveX,
    You are right about getting more vulgar and bizarre comments now than ever before. However; I would say that raising your rates,changing your look,changing your profile description, instant banning, and changing sites can lessen trolls.


    Quote Originally Posted by xCamLovex View Post
    We're always on the same page Glamour! But seriously don't quit because of these cunts. When you're ready to move on, let that me in *your* will not somebody else's!

    I eventually dislike my custies after a while because they always want something of me that that I didn't offer, and don't want to do, ever. "When will you fuck a bbc? When will you do a b/g video?" It's just not up to my fans to decide where I take my sexuality and what I'm willing to share. I feel a lot of shift in clip models more open to suggestions when creating content, and it doesn't translate into live Camming.

    I also can't perform gold shows anymore. Either they don't work and disconnect mid show or at the end of the countdown, or viewers crash it with horrendous comments. I had a trusted custie just blab on and on about raping me in the last show and I blocked him only to receive hate mail on my fan site.

    The treatment of cam models in general puzzles me and has honestly even gotten more vulgar and bizarre Since I started 2 years ago. I have a thick skin but that doesn't mean I can't identify shitty behavior when I see it

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