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    Was visiting a club recently and had a couple dances from a very nice entertainer. We spent most of the time talking, as opposed to her performing for me. When I paid her for the dances, she asked if I wanted to get together soon to see a movie or have lunch, then proceeded to give me her phone number. My question is, does this sound legitimate, or is this client/performer post sale chit chat?

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    It's not good business for dancers to pick up customers then convert them to free dates. If dancers went in free dates with their customers they'd never have time to actually work and make money. It happens but rarely. Like less than 3% chance it's a genuine civilian date.

    Most dancers are hustlers and if they want to meet up after hours most likely it will involve money, not just paying for the date but her time as well.

    Idk. Just ask her to clarify (although she may not want to get in trouble with the law so phrase carefully). Or consider what are You looking for? If you don't mind paying the dancers for after work entertainment then go ahead. But if you are looking for love and want to go out on "free" dates where you pay for the meal, movie, etc. then you'll need to figure out if she really wants to hang out or if this is an extension of her work outside the club.
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    Default Re: Is she interested in me, or was she just being nice?

    Assume she may have an extra's menu outside the club ( and expect payment ) she wants to run by you . That way you won't be disappointed .

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    It's not good business for dancers to pick up customers then convert them to free dates. If dancers went in free dates with their customers they'd never have time to actually work and make money. It happens but rarely. Like less than 3% chance it's a genuine civilian date.

    Most dancers are hustlers and if they want to meet up after hours most likely it will involve money, not just paying for the date but her time as well.

    Idk. Just ask her to clarify (although she may not want to get in trouble with the law so phrase carefully). Or consider what are You looking for? If you don't mind paying the dancers for after work entertainment then go ahead. But if you are looking for love and want to go out on "free" dates where you pay for the meal, movie, etc. then you'll need to figure out if she really wants to hang out or if this is an extension of her work outside the club.
    I failed to mention the nature of our dialogue. When we were chatting she asked "if I was there just to talk to her, of if I was actually interested in her." I told here that I would be interested in getting to know her outside the club environment, which led to the giving of phone number and comment from her.

    I haven't followed up on it yet. Also, just for context, I did date an entertainer for a time that I met at a club. We are still friends to this day, we just had some fun hanging out having some really great sex.

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    Default Re: Is she interested in me, or was she just being nice?

    She made it quite clear before the dance started that she didn't do extras. I was a gentleman to her, perhaps that struck a chord with her.

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    Default Re: Is she interested in me, or was she just being nice?

    Thank you for the reply.

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    Default Re: Is she interested in me, or was she just being nice?

    Hi ya..
    We 've had a ton of these threads, j/s


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    Default Re: Is she interested in me, or was she just being nice?

    Text or give her a call, sounds like she was interested. You never know until you try.

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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Hi ya..
    We 've had a ton of these threads, j/s
    Management ought to make it one of the topics, or put the answers in a FAQ section.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Text or give her a call, sounds like she was interested. You never know until you try.
    Thank you kindly!

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    Default Re: Is she interested in me, or was she just being nice?

    By the sounds of it she wants to get to know you outside the club environment, go for it! However always be cautious!

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    Default Re: Is she interested in me, or was she just being nice?

    It could be legitimate. Just take it slow.

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