Hello all! I've been a flirt at niteflirt on and off for the last two years, and now that I'm doing it as a serious part of my day, I figured I'm in need of some assistance, perhaps from veterans or at least from those who know my crisis well.
First thing I'd like to apologize if I don't exactly make myself clear, if I'm a bother to those who know the business better than I do, or if I did not put this thread in the right place.
Second thing to note is that I'm a BBW, and feel I get relatively decent attention making what I believe to be decent income over the duration that I'm online.
I'm comfortable with almost all fetishes and taboos but there are a few I have little to no experience with and should I get more familiar with them, and get more comfortable, I'm sure I'd have a fair bit more business. This is where I need help. I want to be able to cater to more calls then just a select handful and I'd really appreciate any and all advice.
For starters:
Poppers or Forced Intox:
What kind of conversation do I hold with my caller? What is it I do as a flirt, and say to my caller to make sure they get what they want from the experience?
Being that I have almost no experience with this, my main go to wants to be "take another hit," but that's not up to my standards nor do I feel my caller would be open to ever calling me again.
I understand I can't just jump into a fetish like this and pretend to be an expert and frankly when it comes to customers calling for forced Intox, I just don't know what I'm doing.
What do I even say or talk about to keep them entertained? I want to be able to slowly work myself into catering for these callers as I've had to end calls prematurely given I wasn't the right flirt for them.
Sissies or Panty Wearers:
I'd like to assume they're one in the same, and I'm aware they like to be submissive. This is a bit of a problem, as I'm naturally more submissive but, especially being a BBW, I get a lot of calls from men who are sissies and I'd like to believe I have a fair understanding of the fetish but I personally feel as if I could do better. I want to give the caller a reason to call back.
What are some things a flirt would typically say? What are so go to's I could say or do to appear more dominate then I am at heart? What would I talk about with them? More specifically, what exactly do I say to help them get off?
To my knowledge any guy that has called me regarding this has ended up satisfied but I still feel like I can improve. I want my caller to hang up and say "She just blew my mind!"
Humiliation:
Again, a topic I feel I know a bit about but certainly do not know all the in's and out's especially because different men enjoy different forms of humiliation. Depending on what they're into, how do I keep them intrigued?
Finally;
Any tips to just make phone sex more fun and enjoyable for both me and the caller if it's just generic sex? I can only moan so much and tell the caller how badly I wish I had his dick in my 'x', 'y', 'z.'
My main comfort zone is vanilla sex and role play but I want to expand my horizons for both me and my callers. Also, it seems since I started back up again (last month) I've gotten an increased amount of calls from those who are cucks/sissies/subs or want to be forced intox. I just want to make sure I can cater to as many people and fetishes as I can.
Any and all advice would be great. Thank you!
- Bri


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