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    Was doing really well and being disciplined until... Last week I had a bereavement and basically didn't can all week. Now I have a cold and basically I'm finding every excuse to not log on. I'm on now and have made about £5 in an hour because my attitude is all wrong.
    Any tips for getting back on it? Or a big virtual slap!

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    Default Re: Lost my mojo!

    Just get on and overtime of being on camera it will eventually sink in, I find I'll get extremely nervous to the point where I won't get on sitting around.

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    I've sat all morning for about £7 unheard of SM is dead and AW is full of arseholes just got to force myself back into it and sit and do my hours again just could have done without my worst day ever lol

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    It gets better as you continue with traffic picking up at different times, I've had those moments in the beginning where I've been like "Fuck this.." after 4 hours online and maybe $15 at the end of the day. The slow peaks are miserable making it very easy to slip back into that relaxed, frowning face without knowing it. You can sometimes take a small break letting things settle and then cam in another 30 minutes to see if anything is better. Hope things turn out awesome this week! There is also the trick of letting customers know you are thinking of logging off, I tend to notice last minute pvt/Excl come through.

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    Sorry to hear about your bereavement.
    The best advice I can give is take some time getting ready, relax, put on a favourite outfit, get yourself so you're feeling really good about yourself (maybe doing a few extra things you don't normally do, curling your hair or whatever, new lip gloss) and then start afresh on a new session or new day, good luck. If you're feeling ill it's no wonder you're finding it tough but hopefully as you get better it will get easier.

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    If I were you I would make some fetish clips for now....sneezing, coughing, snotty nose..all that stuff sells big on c4s. If I could I'd send this guy over to you who keeps asking me for cold related fetishes on cam & I'm like...dude I'm not sick though...I can't make snot just appear..lol smh. Any who I hope you get better soon! *hugs*

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    If you're sick, it's okay to rest until you're better so you can give it your all. However, I find this to be a common thing with a lot of camgirls. Their mood and attitude are always up and down, up and down like playing yo-yo.
    Having excuses to not work will always be there but logging on is a decision. You have to decide ahead how you're going to start your day.

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    Sweetie, you don't need a slap, you need a hug. I'm sorry for your loss. Sadness and stress tire us out, and you become more susseptible to illness.

    This time of year can feel like a cruel joke on cam. If your room is full of assholes, get your domme face on and think about the most fun ways of putting them down. It'll keep you entertained and keep your face lively.

    And if you're too sick and sad for live cam, at least record some clips, or even voice clips. Just make sure you work when it's work time, and reward yourself for doing your hours, whether or not the hours were profitable. You logged on and stayed on? Yay for you!


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    Thanks all I'm the queen of excuses when I've had a break. When I'm in a schedule I'm fine. I stuck it out but it was crap mainly my attitude and it being dead didn't help either. Did some text chatting so the days not a total loss. Start again tomorrow sadly I can't afford anymore excuse days so let's hope it's a bit better in the morning!

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    You can write in your topic that you are not feeling well and apologize for not being your usual bright self then go on and do your best. Take lots of breaks and drink lots of nourishing fluids that have a lots of electrolytes eg. coconut water, orange juice. Ban fuckers for even breathing wrong.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CocoaBunni View Post
    If I were you I would make some fetish clips for now....sneezing, coughing, snotty nose..all that stuff sells big on c4s. If I could I'd send this guy over to you who keeps asking me for cold related fetishes on cam & I'm like...dude I'm not sick though...I can't make snot just appear..lol smh. Any who I hope you get better soon! *hugs*
    This! A stuffed up nose is an open wallet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hyori View Post
    Ban fuckers for even breathing wrong.
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    When I'm having a hard time getting online, I set up a show with no goals, no special outfits, and no plan other than to hang out, chat, and sip some booze (disguised in a coffee mug). I've muted the room and turned on Netflix a couple times. Eventually I get in the mood and work out a plan after a tip or two comes in.
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    I'll turn my audio off and only do it in private and then put on my favorite music. It makes the shift go by

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    It's back I forced myself on this morning and had a really good hour went quiet after but made my goal. Feeling the buzz of the money is what motivates me hopefully back on the right track a bit now thanks all! I like the mute and music tip going to try that!

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