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    Well, I decided my financial situation is bad enough that I'm going to go back to stripping. I was a stripper for about 2 years, when I was in college... I've been thinking about returning for the past 6 months, as I broke up with my ex-boyfriend and have been basically living on my parents' handouts ever since.

    I have a vanilla job, but it's barely worth it for the health insurance, and it's kind of a dead-end job that I see myself quitting within the next year, anyway.

    I'm SO SCARED to go back to stripping, though, and I'm worried it won't be the same! For one thing, I'm totally out of shape and have been experiencing health problems, so I'm not quite sure if I can manage dancing and working up a sweat for several hours. BUT I have breast implants now (I got them when I left stripping, haha) so maybe that will make life easier? No idea, lol.

    Also, having a vanilla job now, I am worried about being recognized and potentially fired. It's never really been an issue for me before (by some miracle, not many people know), and I'm planning to wear some serious hair extensions to change my appearance, but... the risk factor scares me, you know?

    Any advice for going back? Things to do, things not to do, what to expect, how to cope? I feel like a noob all over again. :\

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    Default Re: Going Back after 5 Years

    Hi!
    I'm planning to go bk as well, a much longer duration for me tho..
    Charlie61 had a great thread about this..


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    Default Re: Going Back after 5 Years

    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Hi!
    I'm planning to go bk as well, a much longer duration for me tho..
    Charlie61 had a great thread about this..
    Yay! Good luck!! How long has it been for you? What made you decide to go back?

    Also, thanks -- I did a quick search and found Charlie61's (very helpful) thread. If anyone else is curious, here it is:

    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...the-first-time

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    Default Re: Going Back after 5 Years

    I went back after five years. Like the ladies said in Charlie's thread, dancers are doing more for less. Prepare yourself for dealing with that. Charlie's thread has covered all bases. Ease into it, and good luck!
    If customers are still going to be handsy, I'm keeping both layers of thongs securely in place, thankyouverymuch.
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    Default Re: Going Back after 5 Years

    I did my comeback earlier this year. Certainly it is not the same. Some of yout noob-again feelings will go away very quickly (i.e., first time on the stage). Do not let other girls intimidate you and you will be fine. I was rhe oldest dacer there and age was not a burden at all.

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    Default Re: Going Back after 5 Years

    I took only a year off from dancing and when I came back it took a few weeks to get my stripper confidence back but it came back. Also I was more out of shape when I started again and wanted to wear the same stuff I used too but I found a better more mature look that I feel like works better for me so maybe play up your boob job and if you feel out of shape go with a outfit that has a hater belt or something like that maybe. Best of luck to you!

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    Thanks, everyone!! I'm thinking tomorrow or Thursday will be my audition. D: Pretty terrified, but I did buy some new stripper shoes and clothes. Should be interesting. LOL.

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    Default Re: Going Back after 5 Years

    Good luck!The boobs will def help and being financially independent will boost your confidence.

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    Default Re: Going Back after 5 Years

    I went back today and it was AWESOME! A lot of the same people still work there, but the club is actually nicer in many ways. We have a more expensive dance option. And a pole. We didn't have a pole before. Finally, not just floor work on stage!

    And by some odd stroke of luck, I only danced for really sweet dudes who were very respectful.

    And the DJ figured out what kind of music I like. I told him Arctic Monkeys (which he had) and he also gave me Kings of Leon and MGMT. Our old DJ was awful at selecting music for each girl's tastes, so I'm really excited for this one.

    The boobs helped SO MUCH. I had to stop dancing for guys who wanted me to keep going, because they loved the boobs and I was getting too tired. Super out of shape. I had to keep apologizing for shaking during dances. Guess it's time to build up that core strength, lol

    Anyway. Just wanted to share. Going back doesn't have to be awful.

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    Default Re: Going Back after 5 Years

    Yayyyy! Have fun with the soreness though lol!

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