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    Hi Girls,

    Can I ask how you all get yourself in the mood for being sexy and naughty on cam when you really aren't feeling it?
    TIA x

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    Just fake it. Eventually you'll forget you're not in the mood and you'll actually BE in the mood.
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    I think of being broke and homeless. That gets me sexy and naughty real quick. #determinedhoe
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    I think of being broke and homeless. That gets me sexy and naughty real quick. #determinedhoe
    WORD! ^^ what she said^^ money is the motivation for me, not having money isn't sexy at all....I know from experience lol

    that and personaly, I drink. I've always been the "few beers after work" kinda gal, so I get home after work and have my first beer while I get ready and think about rolling around on a bed full of money pourin champagne on myself lmao seriously or of sitting in a hot tub out in my own back yard someday. All my little "if I was a rich girl" fantasies.....and then I think about camming helping me get where I'd rather be.

    so yeah...fake it til you make it!
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    I was a stripper in my 20s, putting on makeup, styling my hair, picking out a sexy out fit is the mental preparation that I need. Once you hit the stage or now turn on the cam, it is "Lights, Camera, Action".

    You are now a performer. It is your job to entertain, you don't have to be sexy, you can be silly, fun, sassy.

    Have an inspirational playlist to get you in the mood while getting ready.

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    I NEVER feel sexy/naughty before getting on cam. However, I never ever go on cam if I'm feeling anything less than *meh*. Sexy/Norty comes AFTER I've logged on/in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    I think of being broke and homeless. That gets me sexy and naughty real quick. #determinedhoe
    This. It's just going to work. I do it because I need money and there's no physical response at all.I just view it as any other job in that I couldn't very well call off anytime I didn't feel like going.

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    I´m NEVER in the mood. I say to myself that I´ll just log on for an hour and that´s it, usually in that hour I fully wake up and after a session or 2 I feel more energetic and fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scorp_gal View Post
    Hi Girls,

    Can I ask how you all get yourself in the mood for being sexy and naughty on cam when you really aren't feeling it?
    TIA x
    Remind myself that I got stuff to pay for, and a birthday coming up next month. Lol.
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    Don't think you need to act like some vixen, screen siren, or porn star. Just be yourself! The guys will think you're hot anyway.



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    #legit! Camming IS a job! The best part of being the 'Head Hoe' is you have no one to answer to but with that freedom comes great accountability.

    Can't call your job and ask 'How do I get motivated to come to work?' They'll say don't come!
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    This. It's just going to work. I do it because I need money and there's no physical response at all.I just view it as any other job in that I couldn't very well call off anytime I didn't feel like going.
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    Cam modeling and phone acting is all an act. Fake it. Become a character. You gotta fake it till you make it. Cliche but true. I log on my PSO line at 5 AM! Not even a people person. I fake the hell out of it. I am told by my SO that they can tell my fake ass voixe from my "me" voice and are like yep, she's working.

    With phone if you have a good manager they help you. We have workshops and I can always get advice. That's something the cam world lacks.

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    Master the art of manipulation. Read people. If you want something from them, tell them what they want to hear. Remember, YOU are trying to pull money from them. They want you to pretend you like them. Just fake it. This isn't your personal life, it's a job. Do you want the money? Pull their strings and it will just fall out.

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    What if you are telling them what they wanna hear and they still demand freebies? I've noticed a trend in that in free chat. Ugh I gotta find a way around it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxGothBarbie View Post
    What if you are telling them what they wanna hear and they still demand freebies? I've noticed a trend in that in free chat. Ugh I gotta find a way around it.
    I wouldn't tell them what they want to hear unless they are paying...if they ask about what i provide, I tell them in a very factual way. My free chat convo is fun and about other things other than sexual stuff. That all happens in pvt. The more freebies they ask for, the quicker they get banned.

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    ^^Yes!

    @GothBarbie I don't really understand what you mean when you say that you're telling them what they want to hear...?

    Demanding is inappropriate. Freebies are inappropriate. Lines like "I'll take you private if you do ___ for me now" are a scam, period. Whining and begging are for small children and poorly trained dogs, and do not deserve the type of attention that you would give a grown man. You are always welcome to say no to anything and everything.

    When anybody asks you for anything (aside from questions about basic facts or what you offer), your possible answers boil down to: "Sorry, I don't offer that," "Sure, I'll do that for a $__ tip," or "I'd love to do that with you in private/exclusive!" If they want to argue with you about your answer, kick or ban. I know we're taught that "the customer is always right," but it's the exact opposite in this industry - it's your way or the highway. On top of that, the guys that are demanding freebies aren't customers and will likely never be customers, so there's no need to please them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Magical_Hoohah View Post
    ^^Yes!

    @GothBarbie I don't really understand what you mean when you say that you're telling them what they want to hear...?

    Demanding is inappropriate. Freebies are inappropriate. Lines like "I'll take you private if you do ___ for me now" are a scam, period. Whining and begging are for small children and poorly trained dogs, and do not deserve the type of attention that you would give a grown man. You are always welcome to say no to anything and everything.

    When anybody asks you for anything (aside from questions about basic facts or what you offer), your possible answers boil down to: "Sorry, I don't offer that," "Sure, I'll do that for a $__ tip," or "I'd love to do that with you in private/exclusive!" If they want to argue with you about your answer, kick or ban. I know we're taught that "the customer is always right," but it's the exact opposite in this industry - it's your way or the highway. On top of that, the guys that are demanding freebies aren't customers and will likely never be customers, so there's no need to please them.
    Yes^ that is generally what I say to them. I always ask for a tip if they ask to see my ass bb or stand please if they throw me a measly $1-5 i still sit there & just giggle. When they ask me if I do blah blah in pvt, i always say in exclusive i do so I can upsell that show. I'm a total newbie but am still using this site as research I have already spotted the scammers mostly & know how to say No or just ignore them.
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    I have no ritual on getting ready and sexy. Like most camgirls, I fake my happy flirty outgoing self all the time. I'm a straight up fantasy. I have to play the part even when I don't want to.


    Or I watch porn to get me actually horny so I'm in the mood to touch myself.





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    Im a big girl and i never feel sexy getting ready , just havent nor do but i think this way of life is paying for me to live overseas, with a guy i adore.Its paying for me to go to thailand for a month , its paying my lifestyle so you get on cam and fake it and think of all the good shit you can do with their money! xo

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    I think of all the men with money and how they want to spoil me. That always gets me wet.
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    I go on cam every day tired as fuck, and not into it.. after an hour or 2 .. things start clicking.. EVERYDAY!.. for 14 yrs haha

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    Fake confidence and attitude. We are all in it for the $$, and guys know it, but they also want us to be horny persons that enjoy it, so playing the role is the solution. Otherwise we are material for trolling, company for chatting, soul mates and other stuff I really don't want to be when I'm online. So, being pretty, listening to Weeknd or gangsta rap about husling, thinking about my love and our sexy times usually does the trick )


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