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    Dizzy Talking to guys at the tip rail while a girl is dancing

    I've been working at a club I really like (not in NYC), but there is some strange drama going on.

    A guy tipped me some money on stage, he was sitting at a table near the stage with a friend, not right at the tip rail. So I go to talk to him. I'm not sure if he was going to move to the rail while the next girl was up or if he was going to remain with his friend at the table and go up to tip at will. He didn't get a dance with me.

    So the girl who went up after me goes "oh that was really rude of you. You went and talked to him while I was on stage" mind you, she said this after she muttered something under her breath and I asked her what she said. So I say, "well he tipped me and I'm allowed to talk to anyone I want to" and she was like "well we don't do that at this club blahblahblah" I feel like people have been trying to intimidate me because I'm new at THIS club. I'm not new to dancing and I'm no push over.

    Ladies, was I in the wrong? It was slow...and for w.e reason girls at this place are bloodthirsty over a few dollar bills even though it's a good club. Maybe there was a misunderstanding... Or I was wrong...but in my opinion he is a grown man and could tip her if he wanted to even though I was sitting there.

    Its weird..on other nights girls will be in the DR at the end of the night basically screaming about how they didn't make money and "the girls who make money are doing XYZ!!11!!!" I haven't even seen outright cattiness like this even in nyc

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    Default Re: Talking to guys at the tip rail while a girl is dancing

    No, you weren't wrong.

    Etiquette IMO: I don't approach anyone at the railing regardless of how much money they've tipped me on stage. If they agree to a dance while I'm on stage, I will tell them to meet me at a table, so it doesn't appear that I've come and pulled them away from the next girl's stage. You're right in that he could have tipped her if he'd really wanted to, or sent you to do it (at my club the latter is very common).

    Girls get weird in the summer. They're just being catty because it's July and it's slow and they probably didn't save any money for the bad months. I have seen them resort to everything from undercutting dance prices to trying to intimidate other girls to relinquish money for whatever stupid reason they invented. Stand your ground!
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    Default Re: Talking to guys at the tip rail while a girl is dancing

    Yeah maybe I should have asked him if he wanted to take a seat with me, since it would have saved me the wasted time and she wouldn't have gotten bent out of shape. He wasn't even quite at the rail..just a table nearby. I'm not convinced he was on his way to move to the rail for her as opposed to the table with his buddy.

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    to trying to intimidate other girls to relinquish money for whatever stupid reason they invented. Stand your ground!
    Funny you say that..this club puts two girls on stage on busy wknds. A girl I was on stage with accused me of stealing her tips, meanwhile I got them directly from a party I was hustling from on stage while she was hustling another group, ideally making money too. I told her this and she walked away. At the end of the night in the DR she said it AGAIN and I just gave her $5 cause number one I'm not here for drama number 2 I had a great night anyway. She said something corny like "I wasn't going to get fired over it." Like okay...are you saying you were going to fight e over some measily stage tips?! She wasn't even greatful. I didn't even need to give her that. This place gets absolutely packed on the weekends too

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    Default Re: Talking to guys at the tip rail while a girl is dancing

    ^ Ahahahaha, I had something extremely similar happen last week. The customer came to me on the floor and chatted, then tipped me, and this girl comes over saying that was HER money that he'd taken out of her thong (allegedly he paid her by sticking the $20 in the front while running his hand down the back and pulling out this money). It was literally $2 she was trying to intimidate me into giving her.

    Yep, slow months bring out the real winners in girls

    Don't give anyone money ever though, that is YOURS and it sets a precedent for this bizarre begging/pushing around hybrid... next time she'll want $10.
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    Default Re: Talking to guys at the tip rail while a girl is dancing

    ^^ now you just knooowww that's b.s!!! It doesn't even sound like it would work/happen and in the end it was only $2. ...

    I probably shouldn't have given in but I'm new there and I don't want problems. If she tries it again I'll be like no...I'm from NY we don't play I get that it gets slow and we all have bad nights but if you're playing games over a couple bucks you're not even trying.

    Good to know I wasn't in the wrong with the girl on stage. I did consider it. I'll ask a guy if he wants to take a seat alone with me next time and save us all annoyance.

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    Default Re: Talking to guys at the tip rail while a girl is dancing

    No. That's rude of HER. To assume every man in the club is supposed to tip her and to come up to you with nonsense. Dude wasn't even at the stage to tip he was sitting at a table.

    It's not like he had dollars in his hand and said I would like to tip sparkle now but you threw your body across his to keep him from getting up (I've seen thirst bucket dancers do this).

    She needs to kick rocks and learn how to hustle instead of arguing over chump change.

    The club here - dudes sitting right at the stage or tip rail as y'all call it are off limits (unless it's slow and the only dudes in the club happen to be sitting stage side). If it's slow every man is fair game. But even if one must hustle a dude at the stage it's best to encourage him to toss a few dollars on the girls dancing on stage before leaving for vip with you.
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    Default Re: Talking to guys at the tip rail while a girl is dancing

    Totally depends on club etiquette. My last club it was against the rules and the girls would eat you alive for that..but at the club I'm at now it's perfectly acceptable. It was rude of her though , if it was against that club etiquette she could have politely told you since you're new there.
    Edit: if he wasn't at the the tip rail then you did nothing wrong that's ridiculous she can go screw
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