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    I went out this weekend to a strip club this weekend . I usually go once in awhile to burn time . This stripper comes up to me and does the usual introduction. We end up talking for a good 30 minutes and the conversation gets deeper . Through the night she throws me these signs of interest and I am wondering how to gauge them. I will list then all below . Sign #1 after we talked she told me is very interested in me and she doesn't see me as a customer . She even went as far as to offer to buy me a shot with her. Sign # 2 she took my phone and programmed he number inside . Sign # 3 During our conversation on the phone it was nothing pertaining to a going to strip club. She even told me if we started dating she rather me not go to strip club anymore and she said she plan on quitting soon Sign 4 I surprised the next day and showed up at club . She was very happy to see me . She got nervous dancing on stage and ended her dance early. She told me not to stare at her because it made her nervous. She said I gave her Butterflies. Sign 5 In between her dances she would give me free lap dances and she told me not to tip her .she also told me not to get dances from anyone else because she the jealous type . That was a weird one . At one point she rejected two dudes who offered to pay for a lap dance to talk to me for free. The third time another guy came by and she asked my permission to dance with him . I told her to not be distracted by me . Sign 6 I offered to take her out to a restaurant but she told me she rather go to a coffee house and she told me she has her own money and she wants to just get to know me and build . I read forums and stuff and I know stripper run game on people . She either really good at running game or she is interested. Sorry I wrote this on my IPhone

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    I went out this weekend to a strip club this weekend . I usually go once in awhile to burn time . This stripper comes up to me and does the usual introduction. We end up talking for a good 30 minutes and the conversation gets deeper . Through the night she throws me these signs of interest and I am wondering how to gauge them. I will list then all below . Sign #1 after we talked she told me is very interested in me and she doesn't see me as a customer . She even went as far as to offer to buy me a shot with her. Sign # 2 she took my phone and programmed he number inside . Sign # 3 During our conversation on the phone it was nothing pertaining to a going to strip club. She even told me if we started dating she rather me not go to strip club anymore and she said she plan on quitting soon Sign 4 I surprised the next day and showed up at club . She was very happy to see me . She got nervous dancing on stage and ended her dance early. She told me not to stare at her because it made her nervous. She said I gave her Butterflies. Sign 5 In between her dances she would give me free lap dances and she told me not to tip her .she also told me not to get dances from anyone else because she the jealous type . That was a weird one . At one point she rejected two dudes who offered to pay for a lap dance to talk to me for free. The third time another guy came by and she asked my permission to dance with him . I told her to not be distracted by me . Sign 6 I offered to take her out to a restaurant but she told me she rather go to a coffee house and she told me she has her own money and she wants to just get to know me and build . I read forums and stuff and I know stripper run game on people . She either really good at running game or she is interested. Sorry I wrote this on my IPhone
    . I like to add I have a date with her on Wednesday

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    If that's a hustle, that's either a really wonky one, or she's playing the long game. One night is really fast for her to be that comfortable with you. This job is dangerous -- dancers go missing all the time. If they're found, the odds are good it's well after they're dead. "Love at first meeting" is a luxury for customers, not dancers. Even if there is chemistry (which is RARE... *almost* to the point of myth) it takes time to build trust. This whole thing feels really, really off.

    Assuming you're telling the truth (there's pretty much no point in replying otherwise) she sounds like potential red flag city. She's probably either fairly mentally unstable (deciding she really likes you and you're more than a customer after 30 minutes... not charging you for lap dances/getting shy when you see her on stage/not wanting you to get attention from other girls by the next day...) or a scam artist who's picked you as her target. Neither option is a good one to invite into your personal life, imo. I'd personally steer clear of the whole situation entirely, in your place.

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    .she also told me not to get dances from anyone else because she the jealous type That was a weird one .
    That should be a warning.

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    Well, have fun on the date and come back and report what happens. Our natural inclination is to believe that it is a hustle and 99.9% of the time we will be right. But it is hard to make a newbie understand that faux emotional connections are what some girls excel at because he often struggles to wrap his head around the notion that something that felt so real could be just an act. And if we are wrong and her interest is genuine, then good for you. I will revisit this thread Thursday morning and hopefully we will know how it went.

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    I am taking it with a grain of salt honestly. I def not fit the old rich white dude with money. I am more like the 29 year old dude with tattoos on his arms and smoking outside with a baseball hat and jeans.I wasn't the asshole who was blowing his life savings away. I told her i am public school so she probably makes more money than me. You def won't hit the lottery dating me.I got my own place and car but far from being a baller . I am also meeting her at a coffee house then a trip to free museum .I did the cheap date on purpose to see her motivates. I have no plans on tricking off money. I not gonna pay anyone rent because they look good. Either way I do not have too much stock in this .If she turns out crazy she doesn't know where i live and I am meeting in a public spot.She also lives a good distance from me. She lives in another state. I am going on the date for a good story to tell my friends about . I def far from a noob who in love . I have taken strippers home before which I will say was risky but it turned out well for me. This one is just unusual to me thats all. It may be a hustle but atleast it wont be a surprise to me. Thanks for the advice guys and will give an update on Thursday.

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    Well, she is a dumb stripper. Time is money, and she declined paying customers?.... wow, a stripper that wastes her own time itc.
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    I am taking it with a grain of salt honestly. I def not fit the old rich white dude with money. I am more like the 29 year old dude with tattoos on his arms and smoking outside with a baseball hat and jeans.I wasn't the asshole who was blowing his life savings away. I told her i am public school so she probably makes more money than me. You def won't hit the lottery dating me.I got my own place and car but far from being a baller . I am also meeting her at a coffee house then a trip to free museum .I did the cheap date on purpose to see her motivates. I have no plans on tricking off money. I not gonna pay anyone rent because they look good. Either way I do not have too much stock in this .If she turns out crazy she doesn't know where i live and I am meeting in a public spot.She also lives a good distance from me. She lives in another state. I am going on the date for a good story to tell my friends about . I def far from a noob who in love . I have taken strippers home before which I will say was risky but it turned out well for me. This one is just unusual to me thats all. It may be a hustle but atleast it wont be a surprise to me. Thanks for the advice guys and will give an update on Thursday.
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    honestly, i think she's probably interested. the question is- does she want to just hook-up or actually date? sounds like she does want to "date", whatever her weird crazy idea of that is.. but just know that any stripper who is that eager to meet a customer outside for free after less than an hour while openly admitting to being jealous, telling you what to do, giving free dances AND rejecting paying customers while they're at work... is probably psycho, or at the very least a crappy stripper and i would bet doesn't have as much of their own money as they claim. good luck and be wary.

    there's also a chance she's hustling you in some way, but if she is then she sucks at it. i've kinda known a few girls who go home with random customers and do might do some shit like this.. but they're all batshit crazy and are alcoholics or drug users with low self-esteem. i'd bet it's the latter

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    It's the "no hustle" hustle.

    By doing the opposite of what every stripper is doing she is supposedly likely to get what she would in a direct hustle and standing out from the other dancers.

    It's way too risky and most likely she is really broke.

    It's the dumbest thing ever to turn down money when there are fees to pay just for being there. She's in the red every night? Would you want a woman who cant run her own business effectively???

    Most unlikely scenario she has money from some other source then what the hell is she doing in the strip club? There are better ways to pick up men.

    Bet you a $1000 she drops you when it comes rent time and you ain't pitched in. Report back August 5th lol!
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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    It's the "no hustle" hustle.

    By doing the opposite of what every stripper is doing she is supposedly likely to get what she would in a direct hustle and standing out from the other dancers.

    It's way too risky and most likely she is really broke.

    Bet you a $1000 she drops you when it comes rent time and you ain't pitched in.
    Perhaps but I wasn't expecting much anyway ...lol She lives at home with her parents so rents is paid . The minute I get asked for a cash advance I will stop contacting her. I told her I not into strip clubs and I won't be visiting her at the job but we can meet outside if she wants.I know the hustle is to keep me in the club spending lol I made it clear I not a customer. She said that was fine and just wanted to see where this would go. I never put stock and emotion in dating strippers .

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    Sorry to disappoint you but you're a customer as soon as you set foot through those strip club doors - unless you are furniture.

    But As you describe then maybe she does like you. Not the type of dancer id date if I were a dude (adult leeching off their parents) but to each his own. Good luck with that though.
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    lol she "has her own money" but lives at home? yeah that sounds legit.. how old is this girl?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Girl Anachronism View Post
    lol she "has her own money" but lives at home? yeah that sounds legit.. how old is this girl?
    32 lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Girl Anachronism View Post
    honestly, i think she's probably interested. the question is- does she want to just hook-up or actually date? sounds like she does want to "date", whatever her weird crazy idea of that is.. but just know that any stripper who is that eager to meet a customer outside for free after less than an hour while openly admitting to being jealous, telling you what to do, giving free dances AND rejecting paying customers while they're at work... is probably psycho, or at the very least a crappy stripper and i would bet doesn't have as much of their own money as they claim. good luck and be wary.

    there's also a chance she's hustling you in some way, but if she is then she sucks at it. i've kinda known a few girls who go home with random customers and do might do some shit like this.. but they're all batshit crazy and are alcoholics or drug users with low self-esteem. i'd bet it's the latter
    I agree with all your points and that post is very insightful. I not taking this girl too seriously.I completely agree she could be hustling me and thats the name of the game.I can't be mad at it. I just having fun with it. Getting attached to this girl would probably end with me getting my feelings crushed or getting caught up in deep ish.

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    OP, just forget about this chic. Actually, since you don't like to be called a *gasp*
    "strip club customer", then avoid stripclubs with "wacky" strippers and stick to regular bars with college cuties instead?? You're better off, tbh.

    It is annoying and disrespectful to most dancers when guys come in with the privilege mentality of being a paying customer/human furniture/time wasters.

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    I have actually had intense chemistry with a customer (sexy, and the sweetest man ever) and I did wind up dating him...but it took me a good 6 months of getting to know him before I did anything otc with him. And he'd still visit me at the club, still pay for our dances, etc. This girl sounds like a nutjob. Turning down $ at work? Moving really fast with customers she just met? Jealous type? Even if this weren't a hustle, there are red flags. Steer clear.

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    Thats def alot of food for thought and I gonna honestly look at the pros and cons. I not ruling out canceling the date either now that I am thinking about it and just avoid potential drama .

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    ^^ and just to be clear, your gut will tell you if someone is running game. This man knew I was truly in love with him...because I was.

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    Red flags galore in this situation. I actually became very good friends with several dancers and we pulled the plug on dances and spending $$$$. It took months, perhaps years, for us to reach that stage. It's unreality to try to make this happen over time, let alone on the first time you meet her in the club as a customer. For her to want to be your friend, romantic or platonic, on the night you met in the club, is ludicrous.
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    I say go for it if you like her... with the caveat to be both aware and open-minded at the same time. Aware, in that it may be a hustle and open-minded in if she does truly like you don't go searching for what isn't there.

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    you guys sound perfect for each other

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    The bottom line is you can't become "more than a customer" after a single club visit.
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    If you are only dating her so you can have a cool story to tell your friends, you're the one with the issues. She has issues too but that's just plain mean.

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    Update -----I went out on a date and I really like this girl. I had an amazing time and I meet her parents and cousins at her house. She told me she plans on quitting the industry soon.I was a gentleman to her the whole night. She told me she really likes me and wants to try and build something. I never got the slightest hint she was hustling me at all. It was the opposite she seemed independent and about her own money.

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