There is one of my best friends that i have known since i was little and there is my boyfriend with which i am in a relationship of 7 years. Me and my boyfriend decided to help my best friend cause she barely had any money to buy herself some new clothes & crashed on friends places very often (she fighted with her parents). I am camming so I told her about what i do and she was open to it. But what she does is not important. They are both stubborn personalities. They had a big argument at the begining at the year but my boyfriend said we should all talk and figure it out cause if she moves out our friendship will kinda ruin. I was angry with her too at that point cause when i sent her a nice message for new year's eve she sent me an awful one so she ruins it for me - cause she was angry with my boyfriend.
And everything was fine cause we talked and figured it out. Untill one night when we went out with my boyfreinds friends. Boys were talking like boys in a corner and us girls were talking girl stuff a meatre away. My best friend went to show my bf something on her phone and he rasied his tone and told her to leave and let him alone. She got angry and told him to shut up or she will smack his head with the phone (in front of his guy friends- guy pride imagine that). Since that moment they gave eachother the silence treatment.
I talked with my boyfriend and defended my best friend telling him he overreacted but he said he didn't raised his tone because of the phone thing. That was the cherry on top only. He said he feels like she acts like a princess, we always buy stuff for the house and she doesn't evan offer to give the money and that she acts rude with one of his guy friends that she does not like ( this guy friend wanted to come and sleep over to our house and she said she lives in the apartment too and she doesnt want him there - in front of all of his other friends).
I get both of their sides. I truely do. But i am in the middle of two persons i love. My boyfriend simply does not talk with her anymore & if before this we took her with us everywhere now he doesn't want her to come with us anywhere. She did not talk with me for a few (she has this tendency if she fights with my boyfriend she feels the needs to not talk with me too, like: if i am not friend with your bf i am not friends with you either), than she talked with me again, now she says good morning and stuff but i am not sure when she talks with me or she is upset.
I am in a weird situation that makes my heart ache and makes me feel so stressed out. Did i wrong for not messing between them two ? I don't take sides. She is a good girl evan tough she has her moments (like i told you before). But i really don't know what to do. I waited to see if i can figure something out but i see no easy way out. That is why i am waiting on your opinions. Maybe i don't think clear because it's two persons i love.
I am also scared because i cam full time and barely have any time to make new friends/have like 2 best friends that i can talk all sorts of shit with (her and another girl). So maybe I am scared because of that too.
Thank you for taking your time to read this freakin drama long novel.



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