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    So I was recently reading a study about men, sex, and shame. Basically the study explains that many men turn to pornography (or strip clubs etc.) because society tells them they must be masculine, initiate sex, and have dominance over women. However, this can be difficult for many men and promotes feelings of inadequacy, shame, and fear of rejection. Basically, men turn to porn or strip clubs because there is no risk of rejection or fear of incompetence.

    Of course, this doesn't apply to all customers, but this info can help you get and keep more customers. What some customers want is to feel wanted and competent. If you can fulfill these needs, you will probably get more regulars or people buying more dances.

    My question is what are examples of things you can say to make someone feel wanted and good enough without crossing any boundaries between customer relationships.

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    Default Re: Make him feel wanted

    It's also the only acceptable form of human contact and affection they are "allowed" in this society as "men". I don't think they're any Hornier than women, it's just what society demands you do if you were born with a penis/vagina.

    Anyhooo..compliments (but believable ones, you can always find something good in anybody), I also find light touch to be a huge hit..doesn't even need to be sexual, just light ASMR-Like touch on the neck, arms, shoulders, knees, etc. good eye contact. And being a good listener!!! Being an entertaining conversationalist is good but I find most of the time shutting up and listening to them while asking supporting questions "oh that's horrible, I can understand how you can feel like that, what happened then?" Is even more important. Laughing at heir jokes and acting like they're the funniest guy on earth. Creating a sense of "you're different than these other guys" is what most of them want to feel. Also making them feel respected and masculine in conversation, you'd be surprised the cheesy lines you can get away with lol. Idk what is meant by not crossing the line, you mean sexually?
    I'll think of more later
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    I stroke the shit out of their ego. Example: I have a regular who is married and from what he tells me,she's a total ass. I usually do the opposite of what she says/do. I always tell him how much I appreciate him. Stuff like that. Works damn good too. Lol

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    Something really simple and cool is if they talk about a hobby or their work you can say, "That sounds hard!" They love that

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