So I was recently reading a study about men, sex, and shame. Basically the study explains that many men turn to pornography (or strip clubs etc.) because society tells them they must be masculine, initiate sex, and have dominance over women. However, this can be difficult for many men and promotes feelings of inadequacy, shame, and fear of rejection. Basically, men turn to porn or strip clubs because there is no risk of rejection or fear of incompetence.
Of course, this doesn't apply to all customers, but this info can help you get and keep more customers. What some customers want is to feel wanted and competent. If you can fulfill these needs, you will probably get more regulars or people buying more dances.
My question is what are examples of things you can say to make someone feel wanted and good enough without crossing any boundaries between customer relationships.


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