The father of my two toddlers is constantly harassing me and threatening to take our kids away from me whenever he doesn't get what he wants. He's been trying to establish contact because he wants me to give him multiple updates and send pictures and videos of the twins multiple times a day everyday but sends insults, and threatens me saying if I don't do that he'll take away the kids and say I'm committing fraud (complete lies) to put me in jail plus a ton of other terrible threats if I don't agree to his requests. He's a security guard and works almost every single night, and often works over time. I currently don't dance and I'm a stay at home mom and care for our children. He gets them for 3 days out of the week and I get 4, with no overnight stays yet because the girls are still too attached to me and are used to sleeping with me since they were newborns. Now he's requesting that he gets more days than I with them, and it's absolutely ridiculous because he works full time + overtime 6/7 days out of the week, and I'm a stay at home mom. He doesn't support them or give one dime either. Nothing has been done legally yet and I'm really scared that he will take the girls from me out of spite, and I have honestly considering taking this to court, filing for a restraining order, as well as child support, but I've been nervous and scared of him being awarded sole custody or getting more days or unfair bs of that kind, they're all just irrational fears that stem from a really bad anxiety disorder. I'm just so tired of dealing with such an unstable man. There are tons of witnesses that I'm not denying him from seeing his kids, and his own family is witnessing how malicious he's being out of spite. Please help, any advice is appreciated from you ladies. I live in orange, California in case it's relevant to custody laws here, I really don't know much when it comes to those things 😕
Thanks in advance ladies



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