So I'm 18 and go to a strip club occasionally with one of my friends (who is also 1. I noticed that all the girls approach him, while most of the time I am ignored. And the strange thing is that outside the strip club I am the one who gets attention from girls, while he gets ignored (thats why he wants me to go with him to strip clubs). And I am 6'3 and he's only like 5'5. Like wtf, he's smaller than the dancers yet they're all over him? And when dancers do approach me they are very mean when I turn them down for a dance. Like they keep asking again and again and yell at me for not spending money! Why does this happen? And I normally try to smile and relax and look approachable, but still I rarely get any attention. And better yet, when my friend and I go up to the front to tip, the dancers always look at him and ignore me. There was only one time when this wasn't the case. We went to some fancy strip club with dancers that were are age. They all came up to me and said they thought I was cute and talked to me.
And the best part is i am yelled at by strippers when I refuse to get a dance from them, but I tip more money than my friend
So my question is, why am I avoided and when I am approached, why the fuck do I get treated poorly by the dancers? And when I talk to them I try to be polite and say "no thank you" or "maybe later" when a stripper actually does come up to me.
PS- don't say its cuz Im young, my friend is the same age and looks the same age, but gets tons of attention



. I noticed that all the girls approach him, while most of the time I am ignored. And the strange thing is that outside the strip club I am the one who gets attention from girls, while he gets ignored (thats why he wants me to go with him to strip clubs). And I am 6'3 and he's only like 5'5. Like wtf, he's smaller than the dancers yet they're all over him? And when dancers do approach me they are very mean when I turn them down for a dance. Like they keep asking again and again and yell at me for not spending money! Why does this happen? And I normally try to smile and relax and look approachable, but still I rarely get any attention. And better yet, when my friend and I go up to the front to tip, the dancers always look at him and ignore me. There was only one time when this wasn't the case. We went to some fancy strip club with dancers that were are age. They all came up to me and said they thought I was cute and talked to me.
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