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    So I'm 18 and go to a strip club occasionally with one of my friends (who is also 1. I noticed that all the girls approach him, while most of the time I am ignored. And the strange thing is that outside the strip club I am the one who gets attention from girls, while he gets ignored (thats why he wants me to go with him to strip clubs). And I am 6'3 and he's only like 5'5. Like wtf, he's smaller than the dancers yet they're all over him? And when dancers do approach me they are very mean when I turn them down for a dance. Like they keep asking again and again and yell at me for not spending money! Why does this happen? And I normally try to smile and relax and look approachable, but still I rarely get any attention. And better yet, when my friend and I go up to the front to tip, the dancers always look at him and ignore me. There was only one time when this wasn't the case. We went to some fancy strip club with dancers that were are age. They all came up to me and said they thought I was cute and talked to me.

    And the best part is i am yelled at by strippers when I refuse to get a dance from them, but I tip more money than my friend

    So my question is, why am I avoided and when I am approached, why the fuck do I get treated poorly by the dancers? And when I talk to them I try to be polite and say "no thank you" or "maybe later" when a stripper actually does come up to me.

    PS- don't say its cuz Im young, my friend is the same age and looks the same age, but gets tons of attention

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    Default Re: Why do I get ignored at strip clubs?

    Its not about looks, age, nothing except ....... money and how respectful you are.

    Dancers appreciate when you spend money with them not just stare and gawk while they work hard and you clutch your wallet. If you don't want dances or don't have money for dances then you are doing the right thing by politely saying no thank you and tipping what you can. Don't sit there and try to have long a$$ conversations with them when you know you can't afford to hold their time. Most dancers know how to accept no and move on but some with bad attitudes will make you feel like sh*t for not spending. But don't say maybe later cause you know good and well you ain't spending later so a no thank you will suffice.

    Don't worry about another dude. You're in the club for women. Quit focusing on your guy friend. They flock to him because he's probably more likely to spend than you are.

    Get an increase in your allowance and take no less than $100 with you and I guarantee your outcome will be different.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bruh627 View Post
    And the best part is i am yelled at by strippers when I refuse to get a dance from them
    How to get all the bitches at the stripclub to pay attention to you! My patented step by step guide.

    1) BUY DANCES
    2) BUY DANCES
    3) BUY DANCES
    4) TIP AFTER YOUR DANCE
    5) DO THIS EVERYTIME YOU GO TO THE CLUB
    6) ENJOY THE BITCHES RUNNING TO YOU WHEN YOU WALK INTO THE CLUB





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    Quote Originally Posted by bruh627 View Post
    So I'm 18 and go to a strip club occasionally with one of my friends (who is also 1. I noticed that all the girls approach him, while most of the time I am ignored. And the strange thing is that outside the strip club I am the one who gets attention from girls, while he gets ignored (thats why he wants me to go with him to strip clubs). And I am 6'3 and he's only like 5'5. Like wtf, he's smaller than the dancers yet they're all over him? And when dancers do approach me they are very mean when I turn them down for a dance. Like they keep asking again and again and yell at me for not spending money! Why does this happen? And I normally try to smile and relax and look approachable, but still I rarely get any attention. And better yet, when my friend and I go up to the front to tip, the dancers always look at him and ignore me. There was only one time when this wasn't the case. We went to some fancy strip club with dancers that were are age. They all came up to me and said they thought I was cute and talked to me.

    And the best part is i am yelled at by strippers when I refuse to get a dance from them, but I tip more money than my friend

    So my question is, why am I avoided and when I am approached, why the fuck do I get treated poorly by the dancers? And when I talk to them I try to be polite and say "no thank you" or "maybe later" when a stripper actually does come up to me.

    PS- don't say its cuz Im young, my friend is the same age and looks the same age, but gets tons of attention
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    Default Re: Why do I get ignored at strip clubs?

    You're not at a regular bar - if your friend doesn't have much luck with women in real life it's going to be obvious to dancers and he'll get more attention because he's obviously going to spend more than you. Stage money is a small part of a dancers income - if he spends more on dances that's why girls will prefer him.
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    Default Re: Why do I get ignored at strip clubs?

    Is he buying dances?

    If one member of a pair is buying dances, and his friend is shooting down every dancer that approaches him... well... who do you expect we'll sit with?
    If I was noticing that, I would assume you didn't want to be there and thus leave you alone. These other girls may be giving you a shot and then attempting (by being 'mean') to get you to not come back if you're not going to buy any dances.

    I sense you have a bit of an ego and an attitude though, which will definitely turn dancers off. We can almost literally smell egos and entitlement from guys.
    We aren't civilian women that like that shit. We don't want to deal with anyone who is going to be rude or waste our time, and if we sense a guy will do that, he isn't going to get much attention. So check the unconscious vibe you're giving off.
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    Because strippers hates young people. They see us young handsome studs and they automatically assume we broke. PROVE EM WRONG by spending money on a chick and making the rest wish they got you first.

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    I think I understand this gentleman's dilemma. I had/have the same issue too. Fortunately what many men in "upscale" clubs consider a 6 (hispanic with slim in proportion waist and big ass; sometimes big tits but big asses turn many white old men off), I consider an 8 or higher. He can't GET dancers because the ones he wants are plainly ignoring him for people like his fugly friend, and the fugly dancers (in his opinion mind you) are coming to him. He may not be a stage tipping type of guy. I know I seldom am. Different strokes for different folks. What should he do in that case? He probably has paper (gotz to have lotz after always going to the club and spending very little) but not the right chick to spend it on.

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    ^^^young people --- that don't spend, waste time, and act rude. But those qualities aren't exclusive to young people. Statistically speaking young people are less likely to have funds but never know who's got mommy and daddy's credit card or those rare ones who get high paying jobs at a young age (ex pro athletes, entrepreneurs, actors, and street entrepreneurs for example)
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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    ^^^young people --- that don't spend, waste time, and act rude. But those qualities aren't exclusive to young people. Statistically speaking young people are less likely to have funds but never know who's got mommy and daddy's credit card or those rare ones who get high paying jobs at a young age (ex pro athletes, entrepreneurs, actors, and street entrepreneurs for example)
    So then it is because of a stereotype. Welp when the girls that find out you have paper after SOMEONE took pity on you, they'll regret placing you in a stereotype my friend.

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    No. That's what I'm saying, is for me, you never know who has money. Like when I think of young dudes I think of broke college student. However I'm not dumb. Not all young people are broke some have trust funds, rich parents, and good jobs so it would be unwise to immediately turn down a young guy just cause he's young.

    That's why I said on my first post that it's not necessarily about his age but more his actions (non spending).

    Only stereotype I have is of intoxicated people being untrustworthy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    No. That's what I'm saying, is for me, you never know who has money. Like when I think of young dudes I think of broke college student. However I'm not dumb. Not all young people are broke some have trust funds, rich parents, and good jobs so it would be unwise to immediately turn down a young guy just cause he's young.

    That's why I said on my first post that it's not necessarily about his age but more his actions (non spending).

    Only stereotype I have is of intoxicated people being untrustworthy.
    but then what does he do if no women to his liking is willing to let him spend money on lapper

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    Default Re: Why do I get ignored at strip clubs?

    Estafador,
    Maybe it is because this guy acts like he is the hottest thing on this earth and only wants to pay for 10s and 9s. However, he never said that he had enough to pay for those very hot girls. Most strippers are not going to cater to some 18 year old stud with an attitude problem holding on this his purse strings. Dudes like him should just use Tinder until he is respectful enough for dancers to approach him.




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    but then what does he do if no women to his liking is willing to let him spend money on lapper

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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Estafador,
    Maybe it is because this guy acts like he is the hottest thing on this earth and only wants to pay for 10s and 9s. However, he never said that he had enough to pay for those very hot girls. Most strippers are not going to cater to some 18 year old stud with an attitude problem holding on this his purse strings. Dudes like him should just use Tinder until he is respectful enough for dancers to approach him.
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    LOL^!


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    Quote Originally Posted by estafador View Post
    but then what does he do if no women to his liking is willing to let him spend money on lapper
    IDK....I find it hard to believe that on a crowded night, at the top club in your city, there is not 1 attractive dancer worth spending money with?!? Perhaps unreasonable expectations?
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    Quote Originally Posted by safado View Post
    But he is 6'3", you must have missed that



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    Lol!!!

    Another stereotype is tall guys have bigger d*cks so maybe he is trying to say he might not have money to offer the dancers but he has some hard d*ck and bubble gum...........If only we could pay bills using mens d*ck as currency
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    I got money, and Im not tryna be cocky, but like shouldnt cute guys like me get special treatment? And I am muscular and tall, I kinda expect something more than what the old ugly guys get. Im finna get more attention.

    And on top of al this im going to a fucking ivy league school. like, im not a loser like the other ppl in the club

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    Quote Originally Posted by safado View Post
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    but like, these other guys in the club be hella short. dont girls (stripper or not) like tall guys?

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    No looks will not get you special treatment.....being generous will though.

    Good job on staying in school but sorry it doesn't matter if you graduated from Yale, Harvard, or Princeton - if you ain't sharing those dollars you're no better than the losers you're complaining about.

    Good luck in your career though.......you better hope your clients don't waste all your time and expect free sh*t just cause they look good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bruh627 View Post
    but like, these other guys in the club be hella short. dont girls (stripper or not) like tall guys?
    NO....dude we aren't trying to marry....this ain't selective breeding and sh*t. No one cares about physical aspects in the club.
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    It's Andrew Jackson, not Johnson, on the $20 bill, but that is neither here nor there.

    I'm more concerned about Ivy League's atrocious spelling.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bruh627 View Post
    but like, these other guys in the club be hella short. dont girls (stripper or not) like tall guys?
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    Quote Originally Posted by toddsullivan55 View Post
    It's Andrew Jackson, not Johnson, on the $20 bill, but that is neither here nor there.

    I'm more concerned about Ivy League's atrocious spelling.
    Whatever. This aint f*ckin English or history class and I have no control over autocorrect....You know who the hell im talking about.

    F*ckin money [email protected] it .... Spend that sh*t and quit b*tching.
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    My spelling comment was for Mr. Ivy League from above, but ok.

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