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    Default How to attract fetish guys?

    I know this might be a little stupid of a question, but for the girls who get fetish guys:

    What do you think attracts them about you/how did you 'catch' them?

    I have never had a fetish guy in all the years I've been dancing now, but I have the blonde barbie look. And tbh (i don't want to sound stereotypical) since I live in Miami, I pretty much exclusively deal with latino customers. I feel like fetishes are more of a white guy thing, but I could be totally wrong of course.


    I remember we had a thread many moons ago. I would like to hear new experiences.

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    Default Re: How to attract fetish guys?

    Fetishes are def. not just a white guy thing. But I've found that some guys are shy about fetishes at first and will warm up to you if you ask the right questions.

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    Default Re: How to attract fetish guys?

    I agree! What are good questions to ask?

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    Default Re: How to attract fetish guys?

    I usually don't ask. It's more like watching body language. I have a few feet fetish customers. I am average height without heels but I have a size 5 for shoes. You can see them looking at my feet. I just got a hair fetishist customer the last time in work. He was constant playing with my hair. He ended up dong 2 30 min vips to just brush my hair.

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    Default Re: How to attract fetish guys?

    i have the same barbie-type look and sometimes wonder if that prevents those guys from seeking me out.. like maybe they assume i'm stuck up and not open minded or something? i've had a few and some of them just came right out and said "i'm really into tickling/feet/being submissive/whatever.. are you cool with that?". and that was that.

    but usually they don't do that. like someone else said, you have to really watch, listen, and ask the right questions. a lot of times those guys are cautious because they're ashamed or afraid that you won't be cool with their weird fetish so they drop subtle hints. if you can pick up on them and make it known that you understand and are willing to entertain their kink, they'll take you straight to VIP.

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    Default Re: How to attract fetish guys?

    I only had 2 guys who were both teachers (college and high school) and you could tell they totally sought out their professions cause they like submissive/want to be called daddy/whatever other creepy shit but I'm not really with that.

    Both cheap too.

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    I think it's a bit random... I've only had one I really count. He has a thing for stomachs and will pay to rub ice on me. I didn't do anything except approach him, he brought it up :/

    I'm sure for foot guys it's stuff like keep your toes pretty, wear nice shoes that show off your foot shape (i.e., clear slip-on heels), etc. You'll probably see them admiring your feet and can bring it up. The most important part is probably what Girl said, make them feel like you don't think they are weird.
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    i think that the kind of fetish men are more white yes, latinos are more into the caliente sex thing than fetish itself. here in brasil i dont know many guys into fetish like i do camming on uk and usa sites. its a different culture latinos dont have many fetish than the lingerie and feet fetish.
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    I would love to find a hair fetish guy. That seems like such an awesome VIP. Feet guys are easy to point out and are, in my opinion, the most common fetish. One time I had a foot guy who was wearing a t-shirt that said I love feet under his sweater. One time I told a customer that I did kick boxing, so he took me to the VIP to knee him in the nuts the entire time. I had a good work out. The fetish guys I've danced for have been a mix of everything. White, Asian, Latino.

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    Default Re: How to attract fetish guys?

    I had a guy come buy a lot of time from me to measure the circumference of my muscles. They're not even that big but I am more muscular for a girl (Not body Bouilder though). It was weird but easy money.

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    Default Re: How to attract fetish guys?

    For me, it's usually just a matter of existing. Sometimes I'll wear fetishy stuff/costumes, and on those occasions, there's usually no shortage of guys lining up to cash in (depending on how mainstream the fetish is). If I'm just doing my normal stripper thing, though, on my own I'm more or less Dakota Johnson's long-lost twin sister, and happily for me, she kind of set the stage with girls of her "look" to be associated with "Taboo/odd fetish/kink here." So, I've had guys ask me over on stage because they liked my face, and then when I sat with them, they informed me they'd already ordered food, and would love to pay me to let them watch me eat it/pay me to let them feed me. Or, pay me to let them look at and touch my feet. I don't do anything to my feet, except clip my toenails, and I wear black heels with double straps, so they're not exactly on display.

    I am 99.999999999% sure it's all in the fringy bangs. Facial structure and body type be damned. Looking "like the girl from 50 Shades of Grey" has definitely been an awesome cheat code for me, since it more or less weeds out the fetishists on its own, and those folks are usually (ime, anyway) more than happy to pay up front and tip really well. Maybe try to replicate her look via makeup and/or wigs? Alternatively, find another mainstream sex symbol you resemble (bonus points if she's associated with kink/fetishes) and amp that look up. The more people associate you with something, the more they assumptions they'll make about you off the get-go. For you, it's just a matter of controlling what assumptions you want them to make.

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    Default Re: How to attract fetish guys?

    Quote Originally Posted by Candycups View Post
    For me, it's usually just a matter of existing. Sometimes I'll wear fetishy stuff/costumes, and on those occasions, there's usually no shortage of guys lining up to cash in (depending on how mainstream the fetish is). If I'm just doing my normal stripper thing, though, on my own I'm more or less Dakota Johnson's long-lost twin sister, and happily for me, she kind of set the stage with girls of her "look" to be associated with "Taboo/odd fetish/kink here." So, I've had guys ask me over on stage because they liked my face, and then when I sat with them, they informed me they'd already ordered food, and would love to pay me to let them watch me eat it/pay me to let them feed me. Or, pay me to let them look at and touch my feet. I don't do anything to my feet, except clip my toenails, and I wear black heels with double straps, so they're not exactly on display.

    I am 99.999999999% sure it's all in the fringy bangs. Facial structure and body type be damned. Looking "like the girl from 50 Shades of Grey" has definitely been an awesome cheat code for me, since it more or less weeds out the fetishists on its own, and those folks are usually (ime, anyway) more than happy to pay up front and tip really well. Maybe try to replicate her look via makeup and/or wigs? Alternatively, find another mainstream sex symbol you resemble (bonus points if she's associated with kink/fetishes) and amp that look up. The more people associate you with something, the more they assumptions they'll make about you off the get-go. For you, it's just a matter of controlling what assumptions you want them to make.
    damn girl, that's some good ass insight. thanks!!

    do you feel you alienate 'normal' customers when you rock a fetish look?

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