


What? Translation please? Oh ok never mind I somehow deciphered. Well maybe some women turn down money if they are close with the guy like more than a customer into potential bf or something. Me personally I'm never turning down money UNLESS the dude is unbearable or disrespectful or dangling money like a carrot - that's more along the lines I was referring to.
Last edited by miss.a.p1600; 01-10-2017 at 10:28 PM.
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I don't know what your whole post means, but in reference to what I think you're asking... "when would a stripper turn down money"... Yeah, it does happen. I know the general mantra is 'everything has a price' but there are exceptions with many girls.
I have literally turned down dances before when the guys were completely hammered to the point of hardly being able to speak, I knew they were out of hand in VIP with other girls, or I knew they were totally broke (either from seeing in their wallet or having witnessed them need 'bouncer coercion' to pay another girl). Not worth my sanity and mood.
I have also left money on the floor (i.e., left to go home despite knowing a customer wanted dances) for various reasons... mostly that I had worked the # of hours I intended to work & made my financial goal & had plans with friends or other priorities, like needing to get up for class early.
Also, the 'needing the tip' definitely depends on the amount of money. If you are trying to get me to put up with even a modicum of BS for $20, yeah no, don't NEED that tip.
Part of the reason many of us on SW have successfully danced full-time for multiple years is because A) we are careful spenders so that we can afford to turn down money from icky or PITA men, B) we set boundaries such as not letting dancing infringe on our personal lives.
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I think it depends on what type of drunk the person is.
But I personally don't get drunk I hate the taste of alcholoh and I prefer the stripper be reasonable sober, if the stripper is too drunk or stoned, I get uncomfortable and nervous. That doesn't mean she's to wasted to consent I've never experienced that thankfully, I would stop things if she was, but once or twice it was enough to be uncomfortable for me.
I don't know how strippers handle all the drunks, too unpredictable.






"I have literally turned down dances before when the guys were completely hammered to the point of hardly being able to speak"
Excellent Selina that shows integrity and I really respect that.
I'd turn that down too. Just doesn't feel right. I operate with ethics. And That's also what I mean by unbearable. Its too much work dealing with that. If I were a paid babysitter for adults, then perhaps but I'm not.
Closest I came to a situation like that was a guy was really drunk plus he didn't speak English : 0 Surprisingly I sell dances faster in Spanish. Well I didn't realize how drunk he was till I get to the back and he's making these dry heaving motions. I'm like aw hell I better hurry up before dude actually throws up on me. So basically only danced for 1 song. I tell him how much it is and get his money out. All his money falls out of his pocket. I take the exact amount plus a tip. But that right there had me annoyed so I highly prefer sober people over drunks and druggies.
Dealing with drunks and druggies is too risky for reasons listed above. Most times like 97% of the time I got money in cash but last thing I'd want (which I've read about guys doing not sure how effective though) is the guy trying to get charges reversed claiming they were too drunk/intoxicated to spend money.
But yeah I've never had a guy passed out or semi conscious. I actually get a mild thrill seeing the looks on men's faces when I'm dancing for them and I like the two way interaction. Can't get that with someone overly intoxicated.
Last edited by miss.a.p1600; 02-04-2017 at 03:39 AM.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”





If he is so dumb enough to get that wasted in a strip club, then IMHO he deserves what he gets. If you're looking for an excuse to be outraged and/or pass judgment, then you'll find it in many clubs all across the country on any given night. For that matter, some strippers need to do a better job of watching their own asses too.
Now in principle I agree wholeheartedly that it is unconscionable to take advantage of someone who is plastered and I flat out refuse to deal with any girl who is slurring her speech or showing other obvious signs of inebriation. I am also not remotely surprised that some of the ladies here display the integrity that you are so diligently seeking out. But just like I would call someone stupid for passing out on the sidewalk with money exposed in a high crime neighborhood, so too do I have little sympathy for a guy who loses control in a strip club. Like it or not, we know that there is a high probability that the result will be an empty wallet. Strip club environments are simply too predatory for it to be otherwise and neither your nor my disappointment about that is going to change the reality.





The bouncers usually catch on to this fast. Trust me you're not the first wise guy who thought he could come in blasted & not have Security notice.





A bit tipsy fine. Stupidly drunk, defecating in your pants, no.
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For the record it is inappropriate to go to any work establishment drunk. That includes a club. As an intoxicated person in a place of business you are a walking liability putting that business at risk. This is why drunken individuals at clubs are cut off and usually asked to go someplace else and come back another day.
Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.
BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?





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Well you aren't alone there ha ha!
Yes absolutely!
I usually go out once a week to blow off much needed steam, and usually it means I will drink a little too much (sometimes a lot he he). By the time I hit my usual hangout--the only stripclub in the Keys I haven't worked (which is why I like it), I am rarely legally sober. But since I am a happy generous drunk, usually all this means is that the big fat wad of singles in my pocket will be gone by the time last call hits, from sending my favorite girls to tip the girls onstage, which I LOVE doing when I'm drunk, and from buying them drinks.
And a substantial portion of the bigger bills in my wallet, it I am stupid enough to bring them.
I figured out the maximum size folded wad of singles you can fit in your pocket--it's 250-300. Usually spending this once a week isn't a problem.
The only problem I have is if I drink tequila, if someone fucks with me or the girls I am hanging with, or I see someone come in I know is a pimp type or woman beater. About two months ago that could have easily led to me getting into it with these three steroid male strippers hanging out there, one of whom is a notorious woman beater--but they didn't fuck with me back. I am loud when I am drunk and looking for trouble--I know damned well they heard me.
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You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
______________________________________





Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.
BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?





Also, there are some clubs that it is very dangerous to be stupid drunk in, especially if you are the type to get belligerent. Some clubs either don't care, or even actively encourage the bouncers to rough up idiots.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
______________________________________





Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.
BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?





I'm lucky - I get gently buzzed on three and silly drunk at the magic number of 13 drinks. Thus, I *never* have the time to get stupid drunk. Since I rarely go alone and I usually order champagne bottles, I'd have to grab a straw and suck down the whole bottle in front of my guest.
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I think it is ok to show up a little buzzed, it can make things more relaxed and fun. However showing up falling down drunk is a bad idea and just invites trouble. Plus at most reputable clubs the door man won't let you in if you are obviously sloshed, they don't want the hassle or the liability of dealing with an out of control drunk.
I usually get drunk when I get there, why do you care about upsetting them? They are there for your entertainment. Get drunk and have fun!


I tranny cam drunk all the time LOL!!!!!!





If you say so





Some guys do care what the dancers (and staff) think of them. Others clearly don't. Such as guys who actually wear sweatpants to a stripclub.![]()
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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