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    Default Re: Is it inappropriate to go to the strip club drunk?

    Quote Originally Posted by Gia2608 View Post
    I would have to say it really depends on the kind of drunk you are. For instance, when I am drunk I tend to speak loudly, repeat myself a lot and fall asleep, but I am usually pretty damn comedic. I do not see how this bothers anyone else really, except if they find it annoying. One of my sisters is an emotional drunk who will pick arguments, cry, throw tantrums and storm off if she gets mad; sometimes driving her car. She is not a good drunk or very fun to be around... if you are a shitty drunk then no. If you can be drunk in public without bothering others or ruining their good time; why not?
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    Quote Originally Posted by pinups4 View Post
    When the hell...Unless you are REAL CLOSW w her does this happen
    What? Translation please? Oh ok never mind I somehow deciphered. Well maybe some women turn down money if they are close with the guy like more than a customer into potential bf or something. Me personally I'm never turning down money UNLESS the dude is unbearable or disrespectful or dangling money like a carrot - that's more along the lines I was referring to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pinups4 View Post
    When the hell...Unless you are REAL CLOSW w her does this happen
    I don't know what your whole post means, but in reference to what I think you're asking... "when would a stripper turn down money"... Yeah, it does happen. I know the general mantra is 'everything has a price' but there are exceptions with many girls.

    I have literally turned down dances before when the guys were completely hammered to the point of hardly being able to speak, I knew they were out of hand in VIP with other girls, or I knew they were totally broke (either from seeing in their wallet or having witnessed them need 'bouncer coercion' to pay another girl). Not worth my sanity and mood.

    I have also left money on the floor (i.e., left to go home despite knowing a customer wanted dances) for various reasons... mostly that I had worked the # of hours I intended to work & made my financial goal & had plans with friends or other priorities, like needing to get up for class early.

    Also, the 'needing the tip' definitely depends on the amount of money. If you are trying to get me to put up with even a modicum of BS for $20, yeah no, don't NEED that tip.

    Part of the reason many of us on SW have successfully danced full-time for multiple years is because A) we are careful spenders so that we can afford to turn down money from icky or PITA men, B) we set boundaries such as not letting dancing infringe on our personal lives.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    I don't know what your whole post means, but in reference to what I think you're asking... "when would a stripper turn down money"... Yeah, it does happen. I know the general mantra is 'everything has a price' but there are exceptions with many girls.

    I have literally turned down dances before when the guys were completely hammered to the point of hardly being able to speak, I knew they were out of hand in VIP with other girls, or I knew they were totally broke (either from seeing in their wallet or having witnessed them need 'bouncer coercion' to pay another girl). Not worth my sanity and mood.

    I have also left money on the floor (i.e., left to go home despite knowing a customer wanted dances) for various reasons... mostly that I had worked the # of hours I intended to work & made my financial goal & had plans with friends or other priorities, like needing to get up for class early.

    Also, the 'needing the tip' definitely depends on the amount of money. If you are trying to get me to put up with even a modicum of BS for $20, yeah no, don't NEED that tip.

    Part of the reason many of us on SW have successfully danced full-time for multiple years is because A) we are careful spenders so that we can afford to turn down money from icky or PITA men, B) we set boundaries such as not letting dancing infringe on our personal lives.
    1.. this sentence is my whOle post.

    2. I had in my head a girl being given a tip and returning it. Which I would never do if I danced.. .almost never.

    Not simply not hunting for tips which is easy to see

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Yes. Most time I loathe intoxicated customers but only because I have a low threshold for bullsh*t. Drunks and Druggies always forget how much we agreed to, can't remember song counts, can't remember atm passwords, lose track of time, more likely to puke on me, and use their intoxication as an excuse to act like extreme pervs or a$$holes.

    Only thing I like about intoxicated people is most time their inhibition is lower and this applies to their willingness to spend money vs. when they're stone cold sober, nervous, and clutching their wallet.

    I don't think being drunk is always bad thing (I've had drunks confess their undying love for me lol) as long as you can control your liquor and don't get out of hand.
    I think it depends on what type of drunk the person is.

    But I personally don't get drunk I hate the taste of alcholoh and I prefer the stripper be reasonable sober, if the stripper is too drunk or stoned, I get uncomfortable and nervous. That doesn't mean she's to wasted to consent I've never experienced that thankfully, I would stop things if she was, but once or twice it was enough to be uncomfortable for me.

    I don't know how strippers handle all the drunks, too unpredictable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    What? Translation please? Oh ok never mind I somehow deciphered. Well maybe some women turn down money if they are close with the guy like more than a customer into potential bf or something. Me personally I'm never turning down money UNLESS the dude is unbearable or disrespectful or dangling money like a carrot - that's more along the lines I was referring to.
    What about if he's semicobscious at best and really isn't aware of his surrounding anymore, surely you draw the line there?

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    "I have literally turned down dances before when the guys were completely hammered to the point of hardly being able to speak"

    Excellent Selina that shows integrity and I really respect that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Omegaphallic View Post
    What about if he's semicobscious at best and really isn't aware of his surrounding anymore, surely you draw the line there?
    I'd turn that down too. Just doesn't feel right. I operate with ethics. And That's also what I mean by unbearable. Its too much work dealing with that. If I were a paid babysitter for adults, then perhaps but I'm not.

    Closest I came to a situation like that was a guy was really drunk plus he didn't speak English : 0 Surprisingly I sell dances faster in Spanish. Well I didn't realize how drunk he was till I get to the back and he's making these dry heaving motions. I'm like aw hell I better hurry up before dude actually throws up on me. So basically only danced for 1 song. I tell him how much it is and get his money out. All his money falls out of his pocket. I take the exact amount plus a tip. But that right there had me annoyed so I highly prefer sober people over drunks and druggies.

    Dealing with drunks and druggies is too risky for reasons listed above. Most times like 97% of the time I got money in cash but last thing I'd want (which I've read about guys doing not sure how effective though) is the guy trying to get charges reversed claiming they were too drunk/intoxicated to spend money.

    But yeah I've never had a guy passed out or semi conscious. I actually get a mild thrill seeing the looks on men's faces when I'm dancing for them and I like the two way interaction. Can't get that with someone overly intoxicated.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Omegaphallic View Post
    What about if he's semicobscious at best and really isn't aware of his surrounding anymore, surely you draw the line there?
    If he is so dumb enough to get that wasted in a strip club, then IMHO he deserves what he gets. If you're looking for an excuse to be outraged and/or pass judgment, then you'll find it in many clubs all across the country on any given night. For that matter, some strippers need to do a better job of watching their own asses too.

    Now in principle I agree wholeheartedly that it is unconscionable to take advantage of someone who is plastered and I flat out refuse to deal with any girl who is slurring her speech or showing other obvious signs of inebriation. I am also not remotely surprised that some of the ladies here display the integrity that you are so diligently seeking out. But just like I would call someone stupid for passing out on the sidewalk with money exposed in a high crime neighborhood, so too do I have little sympathy for a guy who loses control in a strip club. Like it or not, we know that there is a high probability that the result will be an empty wallet. Strip club environments are simply too predatory for it to be otherwise and neither your nor my disappointment about that is going to change the reality.

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    Default Re: Is it inappropriate to go to the strip club drunk?

    The bouncers usually catch on to this fast. Trust me you're not the first wise guy who thought he could come in blasted & not have Security notice.

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    A bit tipsy fine. Stupidly drunk, defecating in your pants, no.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ithinkdatimtomcruise View Post
    when I go drunk I have a lot more fun, but I do not want to upset the strippers. do you hate drunk customers? I do get more handsy but its not like im one of those guys that try to finger the dancers. And on an unrelated note, is it weird that a stripper refused to take my tip because she said she didnt want to "take advantage of me when I'm wasted" ?
    For the record it is inappropriate to go to any work establishment drunk. That includes a club. As an intoxicated person in a place of business you are a walking liability putting that business at risk. This is why drunken individuals at clubs are cut off and usually asked to go someplace else and come back another day.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gia2608 View Post
    ...when I am drunk I tend to speak loudly, repeat myself a lot and fall asleep...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gia2608 View Post
    ...but I am usually pretty damn comedic. I do not see how this bothers anyone else really, except if they find it annoying. One of my sisters is an emotional drunk who will pick arguments, cry, throw tantrums and storm off if she gets mad; sometimes driving her car. She is not a good drunk or very fun to be around... if you are a shitty drunk then no. If you can be drunk in public without bothering others or ruining their good time; why not?
    Yes absolutely!


    I usually go out once a week to blow off much needed steam, and usually it means I will drink a little too much (sometimes a lot he he). By the time I hit my usual hangout--the only stripclub in the Keys I haven't worked (which is why I like it), I am rarely legally sober. But since I am a happy generous drunk, usually all this means is that the big fat wad of singles in my pocket will be gone by the time last call hits, from sending my favorite girls to tip the girls onstage, which I LOVE doing when I'm drunk, and from buying them drinks.

    And a substantial portion of the bigger bills in my wallet, it I am stupid enough to bring them.

    I figured out the maximum size folded wad of singles you can fit in your pocket--it's 250-300. Usually spending this once a week isn't a problem.


    The only problem I have is if I drink tequila, if someone fucks with me or the girls I am hanging with, or I see someone come in I know is a pimp type or woman beater. About two months ago that could have easily led to me getting into it with these three steroid male strippers hanging out there, one of whom is a notorious woman beater--but they didn't fuck with me back. I am loud when I am drunk and looking for trouble--I know damned well they heard me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Yes. Most time I loathe intoxicated customers but only because I have a low threshold for bullsh*t. Drunks and Druggies always forget how much we agreed to, can't remember song counts, can't remember atm passwords, lose track of time, more likely to puke on me, and use their intoxication as an excuse to act like extreme pervs or a$$holes.

    Only thing I like about intoxicated people is most time their inhibition is lower and this applies to their willingness to spend money vs. when they're stone cold sober, nervous, and clutching their wallet.

    I don't think being drunk is always bad thing (I've had drunks confess their undying love for me lol) as long as you can control your liquor and don't get out of hand.
    Then there's this. Key West has a well deserved reputation for being a magnet for people who want to go somewhere where they can get blind drunk and act like idiots. Some nights this will be well over half the people in the club...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
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    Well you aren't alone there ha ha!



    Yes absolutely!


    I usually go out once a week to blow off much needed steam, and usually it means I will drink a little too much (sometimes a lot he he). By the time I hit my usual hangout--the only stripclub in the Keys I haven't worked (which is why I like it), I am rarely legally sober. But since I am a happy generous drunk, usually all this means is that the big fat wad of singles in my pocket will be gone by the time last call hits, from sending my favorite girls to tip the girls onstage, which I LOVE doing when I'm drunk, and from buying them drinks.

    And a substantial portion of the bigger bills in my wallet, it I am stupid enough to bring them.

    I figured out the maximum size folded wad of singles you can fit in your pocket--it's 250-300. Usually spending this once a week isn't a problem.


    The only problem I have is if I drink tequila, if someone fucks with me or the girls I am hanging with, or I see someone come in I know is a pimp type or woman beater. About two months ago that could have easily led to me getting into it with these three steroid male strippers hanging out there, one of whom is a notorious woman beater--but they didn't fuck with me back. I am loud when I am drunk and looking for trouble--I know damned well they heard me.


    And, from a business prospective, thats the strange dual edged sword the club owner lives on. Happy intoxicated people spend. They enhance the profit margin. Too intoxicated they do the precise opposite. It's a conundrum.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Also, there are some clubs that it is very dangerous to be stupid drunk in, especially if you are the type to get belligerent. Some clubs either don't care, or even actively encourage the bouncers to rough up idiots.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    Also, there are some clubs that it is very dangerous to be stupid drunk in, especially if you are the type to get belligerent. Some clubs either don't care, or even actively encourage the bouncers to rough up idiots.

    Wow, that's a club owner living on the edge. What if one of these roughed up idiots sues?
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    I'm lucky - I get gently buzzed on three and silly drunk at the magic number of 13 drinks. Thus, I *never* have the time to get stupid drunk. Since I rarely go alone and I usually order champagne bottles, I'd have to grab a straw and suck down the whole bottle in front of my guest.
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    Default Re: Is it inappropriate to go to the strip club drunk?

    I think it is ok to show up a little buzzed, it can make things more relaxed and fun. However showing up falling down drunk is a bad idea and just invites trouble. Plus at most reputable clubs the door man won't let you in if you are obviously sloshed, they don't want the hassle or the liability of dealing with an out of control drunk.

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    I usually get drunk when I get there, why do you care about upsetting them? They are there for your entertainment. Get drunk and have fun!

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    I tranny cam drunk all the time LOL!!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sweatpants_Jimmy View Post
    I usually get drunk when I get there, why do you care about upsetting them? They are there for your entertainment. Get drunk and have fun!
    He cares about upsetting them because they're people. He wants to have fun, and not be an asshole to other people while doing it.
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    If you say so

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bahuba View Post
    He cares about upsetting them because they're people. He wants to have fun, and not be an asshole to other people while doing it.
    If you say so

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    Some guys do care what the dancers (and staff) think of them. Others clearly don't. Such as guys who actually wear sweatpants to a stripclub.
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