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    why do men come up to the edge of the stage and just stand there? Am i supposed to be doing something when thy do?

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    i don't know but i hate that, it's creepy. i usually go up to them and do a little dance, then if they keep standing there i'll open my thong for a tip. if they don't tip and STILL keep standing there i just go to the other side of the stage.

    i think some of them are being cheap and want a close up free show without actually tipping... but some are just awkward and don't understand that they're being weird

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    i saw at another club some girls will let men motor boat them. i don't like that! especially not for a dollar. then the guys that just sit at the chair directly in front of the stage and don't make a tipping gesture at all. nobody came up until i took off my top which was kind of insulting...so i should not be letting them think they can touch at all right?

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    Lol!!!

    They want you to give them a show up close and personal.

    Don't do it unless you see some money in their hand ready to tip.

    Some guys will stare and gawk but not tip anything so I first ask them for some money if they act clueless then I move far away as possible so they need binocular for this prime show.

    No I wouldn't let them touch while on stage. If you do allow touching it should be in the VIP not out on the main foor.
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    where i work it's very common for guys to wait until the second song (top off) to come up and tip. i don't see why that's insulting... i mean... the whole reason men come to the strip club is to see boobs, lol.

    but you don't have to motorboat or do anything you don't want to, especially not for a dollar. if someone tries to touch me on stage i tell them to get a dance but usually they won't actually want one because guys who try to get action from the stage for a few dollars are cheap assholes. don't bother with them

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    thats exactly how i feel. i don't want to deal with cheap asses. its not a free show, so either tip or move away from the stage!

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    Default Re: why are they doing this?

    Every club is different. I feel like if they are stage side for more than a fews seconds , they should be in the motion of setting at least a little money down . You'll have to read the vibe of your place and watch the other girls to see what's appropriate . My guess is you'll see other girls holding garter or thong out for the guy as a prompt to tip if he there for more than 5-10 seconds.

    Most guys are pretty decent and will set money down in under a minute if they are close to the stage. If they don't , feel free to use embarrassing tactics such as holding garter out for sustained time or ignoring them if they can't be courteous.

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    nobody was tipping more than a dollar, so I just held my underwear band out and said, " Slide it in there." This one guy just kept waiting for me to take my top off We have like no girls so I was put onstage 8 times last night, so I got tired of taking my top off for $2 in tips. I earned the same regardless of if i took off my top. I'm a newbie! Thats not fair to me or the 6 other girls who kept getting thrown into rotation over and over. It takes time away from us working the floor. Besides, I can't dance yet.

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    Are you working days or nights? Days can be slow. Being on stage 8 times seems very excessive. How many girls are working there? What days are you working? I know you said in another post you like the feel of this club, but for example if it's Saturday night and there aren't any girls and nobody's tipping or buying dances, I would look for another club just in case. That being said, summers are often slow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maggie82 View Post
    nobody was tipping more than a dollar, so I just held my underwear band out and said, " Slide it in there." This one guy just kept waiting for me to take my top off We have like no girls so I was put onstage 8 times last night, so I got tired of taking my top off for $2 in tips. I earned the same regardless of if i took off my top. I'm a newbie! Thats not fair to me or the 6 other girls who kept getting thrown into rotation over and over. It takes time away from us working the floor. Besides, I can't dance yet.
    No the manager and dj is supposed to regulate that. When it's slow and no one is tipping the dj will first encourage and remind dudes to tip. Then if they still act deaf and cheap the dj will play more break songs so instead of girls going up back to back there are a couple songs in between to give the dancers a break from having and endless loop of stage performances and only getting minimal tips.
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