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    I sat and schmoozed with a customer for almost 2 hours, was going to ask him if he wanted to get a lap dance, and when i got off stage i ran up the stairs back to his table and just as i was getting there another bitch was walking him to the lap dance area. it was so dead i walked away with $38!

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    NEVER sit with a custy for that long for no money!

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    i think he wanted to buy a lap dance but was turned off because he saw the manager come upstairs and watch me after a customer got too grabby. nobody likes being babysat

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    I'm not trying to be mean here, but he did want to buy a dance. From someone else.

    Sitting with customers too long wastes everyone's time, including yours. You don't do anyone any favors by doing this. In fact, your co-workers were probably annoyed with you for tying up a customer for such a long period, especially when the club was dead.

    You are lucky that the other dancers were respectful of you and didn't approach the customer until you were on stage. Two hours is a LONG time to sit without him buying from you.

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    Never sit with a customer for more than 2 songs max. Only continue to sit with customers if they tip you well for your time. If they seem stand-offish or not talkative, I would move along right away. Definitely check out hustle hut, lots of great advice there. Good luck! ( :

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    i feel really stupid for doing that. tonight i will not waste my time on assholes.

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    You aren't stupid you are just new. This is a hard business to get used to and get a good flow going. Trust me, I made mistakes too we all have.

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    there was literally 2 customers tonight, so i sat and schmoozed with one. he seemed to really like me, so after 20 minutes of talking, i asked him if he wanted a dance. he said later maybe. so i sat for another 20 minutes before i had to go up onstage and when i came back i sat for a few minutes and asked if he was ready. he was stringing me along so i said okay, well i have to work. so i sat at the bar and another dancer took my spot, and he was bitching within earshot about how he was going to buy a dance from me later, but he must have waited too long, because i would rather sit by myself than with him. just to be a dick he glanced at me before taking the dancer upstairs after 3 minutes of talking. what gives? i don't work for free. talking to me at least deserves a tip! asshole!

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    20 minutes is way too long! He can sense you're new and he's taking advantage of that. 40 minutes for one dance ? Come on, you're smarter than that A and B, it's time for you to find a new club with more customers !

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    Quote Originally Posted by maggie82 View Post
    there was literally 2 customers tonight, so i sat and schmoozed with one. he seemed to really like me, so after 20 minutes of talking, i asked him if he wanted a dance. he said later maybe. so i sat for another 20 minutes before i had to go up onstage and when i came back i sat for a few minutes and asked if he was ready. he was stringing me along so i said okay, well i have to work. so i sat at the bar and another dancer took my spot, and he was bitching within earshot about how he was going to buy a dance from me later, but he must have waited too long, because i would rather sit by myself than with him. just to be a dick he glanced at me before taking the dancer upstairs after 3 minutes of talking. what gives? i don't work for free. talking to me at least deserves a tip! asshole!
    Never ASK if they are ready cause then they can easily say no. I tell them they are ready. Like hey I know you liked how I performed on stage for you now let's go for some private dances.
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    ^ Right, assume the sale. Don't ask for it. Tell them what they are going to do. "Come, I'm going to get naked for you now!"

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    Also, don't beat yourself up for not knowing everything right away. There is much more to this business than most people think.

    You're here asking questions which will accelerate the learning process for you.

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    All of us had mistakes when we started; some of them were quite embarrassing, to be honest. Just do not despair and learn fast. You will be ok.

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