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    So normally I give it my full attention and sit there and chat.

    Today i'm typing working on my other job and saying hello when men come in and only replying to questions and its flat. Its been quiet the last couple of days so I want to maximize my time but do we think its a mistake not concentrating on everyone in the room all the time? In the past I have wasted so much time chatting to people who buy nothing and it drives me mad!

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    Default Re: Free chat how much attention do you pay?

    Once in a while..I'll pull up the free chat box to check, any bullshit and it goes back down and I'll only focus to guest or paying clients. (Bad I know..) Most comments I receive in free however are "show tits, stand, twirl, drool, do this bb!"

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    I give 80%. I usually keep Skype (CMD, LCMS, and NiteFlirt) in the background so I have to type to my clients. When I'm not typing, I am very focused on my freechat.

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    I'm so bored in free and I'm a mix between I'll talk to you and pay me or get the fuck out models. I'm definitely not into entertaining them in free so they don't want to do a show and come back every day to hang out and chat. I'm NOT their buddy.
    It hasn't affected my $ at all.

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    Default Re: Free chat how much attention do you pay?

    Sometimes I'm friendly and chatty but other times I play on my phone. I get shows either way, sometimes if I'm talking and nothing is happening I ignore them and someone will go private or tip for a flash. Other times it clears the room.

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    I am in two minds on SM it definitely has paid me to be engaging but on AW i'm not convinced it makes any difference at all but then its been a crappy couple of days so tomorrow i'll just do privates only and type I think i'm not doing well at either multitasking!

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    i dont do free very often, in fact, i do very lil free chats on aw. when i do, i never get anyone paying and when im in paid chat i get more guys. anyway, when im in free, i try to talk to everyone and be engaged when talking, by asking and answering their questions. since its overwhelming, i stick for like 30 mins each time and log off.
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    do you mean free chat as in unpaid chat, or specifically the 'free chat' window under they guest chat in SM? If the latter: I try to give my priority attention too the people in Guest chat, with the policy that I greet everyone and I'm pleasant and saucy and I answer questions, but I don't engage a lot in chitchat unless there's a member that's actually being interesting --which is quite rare. Otherwise I make it clear that I'm not into just chatting for the sake of it, either we're going for a show or please see yourself out.
    About the free chat underneath, I have conflicting thoughts. I've tried going for the conversion into paying clients but I still haven't managed it even a single time and it's exhausting, as those guys are usually the most demanding, meanest, cheapest bunch of all, always with a good excuse not to just register in the premium area..... so I'm going back to my initial attitude of just ignoring them unless the room is dead and I'm dying of boredom. Then I try the conversion, but as I said, I hit wall every time and I just end up sending them to beg their wives for free if they're so desperate.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Horny View Post
    I am in two minds on SM it definitely has paid me to be engaging but on AW i'm not convinced it makes any difference at all
    On AW, it sometimes pays not to pay much attention to freechat. If I need to do something like photo editing, or texting, or even homework, I'll sometimes put up a wee sign saying "free preview is not free attention; go pvt to be noticed". To be clear, I do this only during dead shifts, when I've otherwise done my hours for the day; I'll usually get a few shows to get me up to my goal.

    On SM I give my full attention to *selling*, which is not always the same as giving full attention to every word said in free chat. Sometimes, blatantly ignoring what an idiot says / giving an arch little smile into the cam gets somebody else to buy a show. But the only multitasking I do on SM is only as part of split-camming - ie chatting to several rooms & keeping my face interested and animated. If there's literally nobody there, not even freeloaders, I take a break.


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    I usually try to have something else to do in between privates (other work, doing my personal finances, etc). It's a case of funneling the men who come in. So repeat/high paying customers get a good deal of attention and the rest, I have to make a judgement and play by ear. It's a balance of trying to look lively and interested but not wanting to just sit waiting for the money to come in.
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    The question I ask myself with this topic is how many CONVERSIONS am I getting for being active vs. non active in my room? Most of the time in my experience, I honestly don't think it matters. I'll put it to you this way; men are either going to spend, or they're not. My guess is that your visual appearance is most likely going to guarantee the sale. Me being active is making sure my tits are sitting pretty, my face is beat, and I look like I'm ready! I make it very clear visually why I'm on the site and they know it too.

    In my observation I've done 1 of 2 things. I either greet every guy that pops in, or I relax, greet regs, and reply if someone messages me first whilst surfing the web with their room names and bottom half of the chat exposed (so I can reply/see what they wrote). Occasionally if I see guys loitering and starring, I'll greet them or shoot them a hidden message, non verbally. Hell, even with that a LOT will pop out because they didn't even know their names show up on your end and they've been "caught", lol.

    It's a sales game and we all have our own hustles. Some of us catch bees with honey, others catch flies with vinegar. All that I know is if he's going to spend, he will. Not everyone who greets and is 'active' has active privates popping off. A lot of models exhaust themselves for little to no gains not realizing that they're just a placeholder for time passing or until the client's 'fav' comes on. Of course, it's your job to 'sell' and 'hustle' but I do so at my own discretion. I love relaxing and surfing the web and I hear that private or exclusive notification when I wasn't even paying attention to my room. Dey nuh care!




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    I pay (almost) full attention on mfc where there is a chance of tips and none on AW. Kortney is 100% vorrect, theyre either going to spend or not and modt of the time your appearance is the cincher, or a fetish/kink they know you do x
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    On one site I work I spend about 80% of my time just chatting since the site is new and traffic is slow to start
    On SM I literally dont have time to say anything but
    "Hi how are you? having a good night?"
    before I am in a session
    Which makes the nights go back quick and i can make my goal quick but it gets tiresome as I feel I should be saying more then that...

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    So this seemed to work for me, might just be fluke, who knows, but I'm not going to change how I go about it.

    I don't talk to unregistered users. If they want me to respond they'll create an account. I don't need to talk them into doing it, they just will. I don't hand hold little boys.

    On SM I actively chat with the "guests" because otherwise I'd get bored to death and I'm naturally chatty and flirty. If they start going in a direction that I think will step on toes of other users for me to answer I'll hint that it's a topic for a more intimate location (ie. take me private so others don't have to put up with your unique quirks) or if they start trying to get me to do/say stuff that would get them off for free I just ignore it. I feel like men will push boundaries and if they know you won't have any of it, but are still friendly then they'll do right by you and if they aren't going to then I'd rather sit in an empty room and have a dead night than put up with rude needy cheap men who don't respect and value my services.

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    Good thread! I'm conflicted... I'm bored and nervous if everyone is silent in my room but like someone here said I'm not their buddy and I don't give a shit about you Chris, 22, California "so what brings you here bb?". I think that being chatty sends the wrong message. But I do chat sometimes and I amuse them when I feel like it. But then some guys tend to fall in love in me because I'm so smart and cool blablabla I'd rather be a sex object honestly.


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    I always pay attention but have many similar responses as the guys no matter which country or time zone or differnt guys write same stuff.

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    Being chatty is the kiss of death!.. I have been chatty the last few days my income dropped more than $10 an hour!.. I hate it!..

    Quote Originally Posted by Semyonovna View Post
    Good thread! I'm conflicted... I'm bored and nervous if everyone is silent in my room but like someone here said I'm not their buddy and I don't give a shit about you Chris, 22, California "so what brings you here bb?". I think that being chatty sends the wrong message. But I do chat sometimes and I amuse them when I feel like it. But then some guys tend to fall in love in me because I'm so smart and cool blablabla I'd rather be a sex object honestly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetieBitch View Post
    At the very least, I usually gain tons of new favorites for being so engaging, and that tends to lead to more people buying into gold shows.

    I frequently get compliments for not ignoring/insta-blocking people, and for not being one of those "pay me or get the fuck out" kind of models. So I would say it's a positive thing to engage your free chat. As long as you can convert at least one person into a decent customer, it's worth it IMO.
    THIS. I think it does depend on your niche a bit, but since I capitalize on friendly, GND, super-nice and fun, I pay attention to all of them. I mean, if they sit there silently then I will amuse myself (sometimes I play music, sometimes I make up limericks, sometimes I muse about life...right now I have a lot of questions about waffles), but if they are chatty, then I am chatty. If they are REALLY dull I have busted out my cross-stitch. That usually shames them into talking LOL. For me, I know that I don't have a particular "look" that immediately stands out, there is a lot of competition for girls like me. I don't talk enough for us to make friends, and I won't talk about sex or fetish stuff beyond "yes i do that" etc, but the comments I get from guys are that they like that I am friendly. It works for me. Like everything else, YMMV.

    But if you mean the FREE CHAT window on SM for guys without credit cards? Aw hell no. I might peek down there if my room is dead and I am bored...but usually just to laugh my ass off at the entitlement. And occasionally to mock, if I am grumpy. Laughing at freeloading whiners cheers me up. Who knows, maybe there is a domme in me somewhere.

    I think it works differently for different girls though. I have perved on girls who don't talk at all and they are in b2b pvt. Who knows. I think it's all witchcraft and skulduggery.

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    It's all about intuition for me. Some guys I can tell need encouragement so I'm more flirty with them, others I need to outright sexually harass and bully into a private. Time-wasters I can smell like a bitch in heat and they are gone as soon as I smell their stink. The ones who are on the fence I tend to work on over time. They are the ones who are observing you and who tip occasionally, politely. The one night stand whales are the ones that baffle me. They come, they conquer and they disappear forever and I don't know what happened.

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    I only speak when spoken to mostly in free chat because I don't want to exhaust myself for the freeloaders. I've thought about changing it up but decided nah the biggest spenders I've had have popped into free chat and immediately into private/exclusive so why mess with a good thing?

    I agree that YMMV as I've seen both the silent and chatty hustle working for different people, you just have to discover what works for you by trying everything.
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    ive realized that the more i chat the less privates i get. since im a domme, i use it on my favour and i bitch when they talk too much. after few mins i say: no real subs in this room? the ones that are not, leave immediately, the others or come private or leave like lil dogs with their tails between their legs.
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    Bootsie is right. I think it totally depends on your niche, persona, your approach. What works for one person won't work for another.

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    I keep it proportional. I'm polite and acknowledge their presence with a hello or a smile but after that it depends on how they are communicating with me.
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    It's probably different for everyone....shit the more I do this I notice it's different for myself from day to day.
    I don't have much time to cam, I have to scrape myself up off the broke and exhausted floor to get my ass in it half the time...
    I've signed up for 8 sites. I've only streamed on 4. And only "regularly" on 2. The two I tend to fall back on are CB and MFC, the "token sites" where tips matter and because of that I FULLY ENGAGE that room. It's my room, it's my "talk show" and anything goes as long as I say it does and the only people I ignore and kick are rule breakers (ie im 14, will u be my mommy, do you want to be raoed etc etc fucktards) but because I'm new, have shitty cam/wifi, and am not under 30 or drop dead gorgeous I feel like I've had to do this in order to become a "personality" who builds regulars and ENTERTAINS. because of my situation Free chat is my bread and butter at the moment and it's government grade stale bread and unsalted butter at that lol

    If you can get away with less free chat I certainly reccomend it because it is fucking exhausting. I feel like I put on a 3 hour tv show sometimes and if it's worth it I have no idea yet. All I know is I need the money, desperately, and when I'm "having fun" (or at least faking it like a champ) the money seems to come in more. *shrug* when I'm bored/angry/ignoring people and forcing the 'im sexy damn it take me private!" Too hard I make much less......

    as for SM...omg I hate it! Lol finally sat out for 20 whole mins with the ins n outs and got my first "exclusive chat" -- the dude busted his nut in 3 mins and I made 3 dollars....

    aaaannnnndddd im done! <--- serious story of my "paid privates" cam life.
    i don't understand why these dudes come so hard so fast?! I barely even get started and they bust and leave! At least in free chat I can tease and keep their attention for hours. I've yet to have a private last more than 6 minutes

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    Quote Originally Posted by KPTfiend View Post
    It's probably different for everyone....shit the more I do this I notice it's different for myself from day to day.
    I don't have much time to cam, I have to scrape myself up off the broke and exhausted floor to get my ass in it half the time...
    I've signed up for 8 sites. I've only streamed on 4. And only "regularly" on 2. The two I tend to fall back on are CB and MFC, the "token sites" where tips matter and because of that I FULLY ENGAGE that room. It's my room, it's my "talk show" and anything goes as long as I say it does and the only people I ignore and kick are rule breakers (ie im 14, will u be my mommy, do you want to be raoed etc etc fucktards) but because I'm new, have shitty cam/wifi, and am not under 30 or drop dead gorgeous I feel like I've had to do this in order to become a "personality" who builds regulars and ENTERTAINS. because of my situation Free chat is my bread and butter at the moment and it's government grade stale bread and unsalted butter at that lol

    If you can get away with less free chat I certainly reccomend it because it is fucking exhausting. I feel like I put on a 3 hour tv show sometimes and if it's worth it I have no idea yet. All I know is I need the money, desperately, and when I'm "having fun" (or at least faking it like a champ) the money seems to come in more. *shrug* when I'm bored/angry/ignoring people and forcing the 'im sexy damn it take me private!" Too hard I make much less......

    as for SM...omg I hate it! Lol finally sat out for 20 whole mins with the ins n outs and got my first "exclusive chat" -- the dude busted his nut in 3 mins and I made 3 dollars....

    aaaannnnndddd im done! <--- serious story of my "paid privates" cam life.
    i don't understand why these dudes come so hard so fast?! I barely even get started and they bust and leave! At least in free chat I can tease and keep their attention for hours. I've yet to have a private last more than 6 minutes

    *sorry this was probably not helpful but I'm trying to talk/figure out the answer to this question as well so thought I'd share*

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    This is me! I normally do about 1 1/2 hours engaged on AW then force myself to do another 2 on SM straight after! If it goes well and i'm making money its great when i'm not i'm shattered and pissed off I wasted all that time I could have earned money doing other things.

    For me it does work to be talking and chatty from experience but when its slow it really grinds at me hence trying to ignore them and just say hello. Its a bad time of year and was month end so all those things could have been having an effect. I think i'll just get rid of free chat when i'm not in the mood at least then i'm ignoring no one and not getting distracted anymore from other things unless i'm getting paid.

    I have had on guy on SM who chatted to me every day wanting this half hour show on a specific date even chatted to me on the day and nothing!! There is something to be said for not wasting time but on the flip side I have regs who have a show every week but may well chat a couple of days and not buy too and I try to keep them sweet.

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