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    last night this one dancer was being sickeningly sweet and over complimentary telling me i was pretty et, and i told her thank you and got into the chute to go onstage, and she within earshot started going off about how rude i was not to tell her she was pretty back in front of the doorman, dj, and customers. it seems my observation of her was spot on. overly complimentary so i let my guard down. she's so jealous she feels the need to start drama to scare me off. this was the same bitch walking up behind me all night getting the guys i was sitting with to dance with her. how do i deal with this bitch? i'm new so i still feel awkward about how to get men to buy dances and her clam jamming me isn't helping

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    Is she sitting down or interrupting while you are already sitting with a customer? If so, that is a BIG NO-NO! Tell her to back off in a firm way. However, if the customer declines a dance with you then he is fair game if she wants to try and get dances. I know it's hard, but as far as the other petty comments, pretend like it doesn't bother you. Unless someone is starting bad rumors about me (like I am doing drugs or extras) I just ignore it. Again, it's easier said than done but you have to. You are new and she is testing you. If you let her get to you, she wins.

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    i have ignored her, and it seems to make her worse. i had another one i was just making friendly chat with in the dressing room, and she just looked at me and kept watching music videos on her phone. she came out and said she wished this new cunt would stop talking to her, and she was referring to me. i try to be nice and ignore the rudeness, but it still hurt my feelings. i just brushed her off.

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    You are going to come into contact with a lot of unstable people in this line of work. That is why many people work in a strip club (and also in real estate); because they are too crazy to hack a 9-5 with the same set of co-workers. You are there to make money not friends. Hopefully, you will eventually make some but do not let them get to you and do not let her poach your customers.
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    Don't talk to girls in the dressing room unless they talk to you first. You're new and if this is a small club, they're going to try to scare you off and mess with you.

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    Dont talk to her. Dont make small talk to try to win her over. Just mind your own business unless she says something to you first. Unlike other jobs you dont really need to make nice with anyone in this industry, everyone doesnt need to be your friend even if you work together everyday.

    I mean you dont have to be totally rude just cause you are new at a club. If you walk into the dressing room at a new club and there is one or only a few girls there and you end up making eye contact and polite smile and going about your business should suffice. Otherwise you dont need to be that new girl that seems desperate to make friends (not saying you are) because that only attracts the wrong people.

    If she is coming and trying to sit on your customers lap while you are talking to him you gotta either tell her to back off (preferably dont fight with her in front of the customer), or be really defensive with the customers (sit in their lap or somehow closer to them where she cant wiggle in, or if she comes up and he doesnt have a complete change of heart and latch on to her and forget about you, then just be like so are you ready for that dance/room tour/whatever you were talking about).

    If she is talking shit to the staff about you.....the scenario you described sounded like she was coming off to the staff as looking absolutely pathetic and insecure and if they have any sense (not always the case, they can be just as bad/petty/two faced) they will form their own opinion of you through their interactions/observations of you. It can be be a problem though if she is telling staff/managers that you are doing drugs/extras/have a pimp or something because it sounds like she wants to drive you away and might resort to trying to get you fired. I would watch my back with a healthy sense of suspicion/paranoia.

    I had the girls at a club I worked at spread rumors to the managers/staff that I was doing extras (because I was selling rooms and they were not) and one of the shitty managers believed them and then kept making huge issues out of stuff that didnt need to be and telling the staff they needed to watch me more so essentially hover all over me when I did dances and one time just flat out refused to do a room tour for me. I ended up just not working that managers shifts anymore and got some contracts at other clubs because I didnt want to get set up to be fired over something small and all the problems were hurting my profits. I hope your situation doesnt come to that though.

    Oh, make sure you arent giving a lot of personal info to other dancers. I mean you can make conversation, sometimes its mad boring when its slow and it can be really helpful especially when you are new to have at least one dancer friend. But dont be too quick to give out all your information. Usually girls dont ask your real name. I work with girls all the time and talk to them a bunch at work and have no clue their real name and they dont know mine. One girl Im cool with now we knew each other for months, talked on the phone for hours and I still didnt know her name and she didnt know mine (we know each others now).

    Im also wary of adding people from the club on social media right away.

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