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    so tonight i was doing terribly onstage, and a girl in the dressing room asked if i was new, and i said yes. she said she could tell, and she told me she would help me. so she tells two guys to buy lap dances, show me pole trick, and lets me borrow and outfit. at the end of the night i go to the bathroom to change, and i just threw the outfit in my bag out of habit. she asks for it back, and i was embarrassed i stuck it in my bag without thinking. so i hand it back and thank her. i would have bought it, but i thought she was kind of attached to it so i gave it back. on the way to the dressing room i hear her say that after all the help she gave me, i had the nerve to try to make off with her outfit, and thats why i went and changed in the bathroom: so i could sneak off with it. i went and changed in the bathroom because i don't feel comfortable being fully nude yet. I wasn't going to steal it! i really like this girl, so i don't know how to fix this. i never went back into the dressing room after i heard that. how do i approach her about it tomorrow?

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    Idk. Just tell her it was a misunderstanding and you don't need to steal and offer to let her borrow something (low cost) of yours.

    Quit trying to make friends with everyone. Some of these broads have poor social skills, are mentally ill, and will fuck up your hustle if you let them get in your head. You're there to make money only you're not there to make friends (allies maybe but friends no)
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    I'm not trying to be mean and condescending, Maggie, but going through your posts it seems like maybe you should study up a little more on here before actually dancing, get the basics first. Once you have the basics (hustling, how long to sit with customers, dealing with other dancers, etc) then dance again and from there learn as you go. I hope I'm not coming across like I'm a know-it-all I just don't want you to get taken advantage of and it just seems like from your posts you might want to go over the basics. Good luck! (:

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    Were you drunk? Just tell her what you told us..cause you were a little tipsy, you were not thinking right and you're sorry and thank her for letting you borrow the outfit. That's it.

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    she's not my friend. it turns out she told the owner i said the club sucked. i didn't. but she's trying to get me fired. she suggested i try a smaller club, and i told her i think I'm fine right here. oddly though, the waitresses won't and door girl won't talk to me anymore

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    I wouldn't do anything . You're there to work, not make friends or accept help from ppl who will use it against you . Ignore her & everyone else . Nobody likes you, who cares . Do the customers like you ? That's all that matters . Work on your hustle & making MONEY . Who cares about everything else & petty BS .

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    ^ Agreed. I've worked at clubs where it seemed like nobody liked me but I ignored it. Don't speak to anyone unless spoken to first, don't ask anyone for anything, bring in your own stuff and keep to yourself.

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