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    Damn only came here looking for some advice and/or help not to get my nutz cracked lol
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    Default Re: HELP ME!!! I like a dancer but how do I know if she likes me or not?

    Why would she fuck for free outside? Once she goes out with you and fucks for free, she will never get any more money out of you. If you enjoy doing extras with her just be polite and keep paying for them at the club, you get all the perks of a Gf with none of the hassle. She's willing to do really cheap extras, just pay for it. In my opinion i think it's rude to essentially ask someone to "date you" which we all know is a round about way of saying "I want to fuck you, but I don't want to pay."
    "I want you to sacrifice your time, safety, body to me but I no longer want to give you anything monetarily valuable in return."
    I also suggest you go get tested. Sorry to break it to ya but you're not the only guy in the club she's ever fucked. Good luck, I hope your dick doesn't fall off.

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    Yeah dude, 200 for sex in the club...but she has only had 2 partners before? LOL!

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    Default Re: HELP ME!!! I like a dancer but how do I know if she likes me or not?

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    Default Re: HELP ME!!! I like a dancer but how do I know if she likes me or not?

    OMG< I saw the screen name, &...I'm not even/can't read, my eyes have glazed over right now. The FUCK'S UP, w/these posts lol.


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    I think this is a great erotic story, but you should have finished at the part where she fucked you in the club. Or added some paragraph breaks. Why is it that all these posts have no paragraph breaks?? Are you all the same person?

    Come to think of it, that would make a lot of sense.

    I don't want to believe you, but just in case you're telling the truth, I'm seconding NakedNicole: Get your shit checked like yesterday. Essentially, you met a stranger and fucked her bareback. Than she told you she doesn't hang out outside the club. That tells me for sure that you didn't have a soul connection, you had an "I need $200" connection, and I bet she's had those connections before.

    Stop thinking with your dick. Read your shit again and try to see the truth, because the truth is in there and it's pretty clear. You paid someone $200 to fuck you, she refused to see you outside the club, she agreed to meeting you "somewhere". She's stringing you along so you keep giving her money in the club. And I'd say you should keep seeing her in the club, but...you shouldn't. Because she's already showed you irrefutable evidence that she has UNPROTECTED SEX with strangers. If you don't have VD now, you'll get it eventually.

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    This is (1) a troll who was (2) punted from Tuscl.

    tl;dr: He's a used car salesman who can't reconcile that a stripper is better at creating 'SS' than he is at detecting it. Since, LMAO, he's a used car salesman, the king of bullshitters.

    Link:1 https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=44344
    Link:2 https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?P...#comment542552

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beaatmode26 View Post
    Damn only came here looking for some advice and/or help not to get my nutz cracked lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Beaatmode26 View Post
    Damn only came here looking for some advice and/or help not to get my nutz cracked lol
    It's for your own good, dude.

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    Default Re: HELP ME!!! I like a dancer but how do I know if she likes me or not?

    Rant about threads like this one:

    Personally, I am sick of men come onto forums like this one asking dumbass relationship questions each week. Every week, I see men making stupid ass threads about wanting relationships with strippers/cam models/ escorts/ sugar babies/ and other sex workers.It is not limited to just stripperweb either.Seriously, why do so many guys want to turn strippers and other erotic entertainers into "regular women"? Why do you want a sex worker to become your friend with benefits or girlfriend? Is this because you are too cheap to pay for our time? It is a white knight complex? Trying to get free sex? I mean we are entertainers that get you off and it should be left that way. Why do you care if we like you or not in real life? You are paying us and getting your sexual fantasies fulfilled! Enjoy your fantasy and go home. I also blame the sex workers for encouraging this behavior without much profit. I just do not understand this type of behavior and feel that it hurts women like myself who just want to work. Rant over
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    Quote Originally Posted by Beaatmode26 View Post
    Damn only came here looking for some advice and/or help not to get my nutz cracked lol
    Aww, should we call the Whaaa-mbulance for ya, hon?
    You don't wanna hear the truth (get ur nutz cracked?) but you'll stick it bb in some random broad & risk HIV?
    Oh, riiight you're a car salesman that makes sense


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    “Never argue with an idiot. They will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.”

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    Default Re: HELP ME!!! I like a dancer but how do I know if she likes me or not?

    Just read the thread....this chick doesn't like you and is just stringing you along for money.

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    Default Re: HELP ME!!! I like a dancer but how do I know if she likes me or not?

    DonaDiabla,

    In most cases, I think the answer is simply that it's a shock to the guy's system from being around the most amazing woman he has ever been with. Reading the TUSCL discussion, OP said he was okay with spending, but also that he found the dancer much more attractive than the girls he had been with in real life. It sounds like from his side it felt like they legitimately hit it off, including similar backgrounds, etc.

    I have been on both sides of this equation. Back when I was young and pretty, I had it happen where a worker got all serious and said: WE NEED TO TALK. and went on to tell me how she wanted to know me after this phase of her life. There are a couple I kick myself for not marrying and having babies with, but such is life. On the rare occasion where I was the one falling, it was just that I thought she was really that awesome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by whph View Post
    DonaDiabla,

    In most cases, I think the answer is simply that it's a shock to the guy's system from being around the most amazing woman he has ever been with. Reading the TUSCL discussion, OP said he was okay with spending, but also that he found the dancer much more attractive than the girls he had been with in real life. It sounds like from his side it felt like they legitimately hit it off, including similar backgrounds, etc.

    I have been on both sides of this equation. Back when I was young and pretty, I had it happen where a worker got all serious and said: WE NEED TO TALK. and went on to tell me how she wanted to know me after this phase of her life. There are a couple I kick myself for not marrying and having babies with, but such is life. On the rare occasion where I was the one falling, it was just that I thought she was really that awesome.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Rant about threads like this one:

    Personally, I am sick of men come onto forums like this one asking dumbass relationship questions each week. Every week, I see men making stupid ass threads about wanting relationships with strippers/cam models/ escorts/ sugar babies/ and other sex workers.It is not limited to just stripperweb either.Seriously, why do so many guys want to turn strippers and other erotic entertainers into "regular women"? Why do you want a sex worker to become your friend with benefits or girlfriend? Is this because you are too cheap to pay for our time? It is a white knight complex? Trying to get free sex? I mean we are entertainers that get you off and it should be left that way. Why do you care if we like you or not in real life? You are paying us and getting your sexual fantasies fulfilled! Enjoy your fantasy and go home. I also blame the sex workers for encouraging this behavior without much profit. I just do not understand this type of behavior and feel that it hurts women like myself who just want to work. Rant over
    Because they're not smart enough to know when they're getting hustled lol. They're like 'OMG a hot girl is giving me attention and complimenting me and I think she likes me!!' as they pay the stripper for her time lol. Come on guys it's not rocket science.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 22lligm View Post
    Because they're not smart enough to know when they're getting hustled lol. They're like 'OMG a hot girl is giving me attention and complimenting me and I think she likes me!!' as they pay the stripper for her time lol. Come on guys it's not rocket science.
    Absolutely is not rocket science....always amazes me that some guys don't get it

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    Actually, Whph, that does not really answer my questions but nice try Plus, the Op seems like he could not score without there being a strip club involved and he still got rejected by an extras girl.


    Quote Originally Posted by whph View Post
    DonaDiabla,

    In most cases, I think the answer is simply that it's a shock to the guy's system from being around the most amazing woman he has ever been with. Reading the TUSCL discussion, OP said he was okay with spending, but also that he found the dancer much more attractive than the girls he had been with in real life. It sounds like from his side it felt like they legitimately hit it off, including similar backgrounds, etc.

    I have been on both sides of this equation. Back when I was young and pretty, I had it happen where a worker got all serious and said: WE NEED TO TALK. and went on to tell me how she wanted to know me after this phase of her life. There are a couple I kick myself for not marrying and having babies with, but such is life. On the rare occasion where I was the one falling, it was just that I thought she was really that awesome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    Actually, Whph, that does not really answer my questions but nice try Plus, the Op seems like he could not score without there being a strip club involved and he still got rejected by an extras girl.
    Given your opening sentence, it wasn't really hard to figure out that I was answering a rhetorical question. As far as I know, people reading might legitimately have these questions, though, and wonder how a customer would respond.

    If you honestly can't tell the guy who is trying to save $200/week from the one who is hooked on you, that sounds like a pretty important skill gap. I have had a regular dancer for over a year, and part of why it has worked for that long is that she is good at managing expectations.

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    Whph, I think that is so cute when customers tell me about how to do sex work. Allow for me to correct you on some of your statements about my skill set again. First of all, you seem not to realized that I was talking about men trying to domesticating sex workers and turn us into housewives/girlfriends. Now, your favorite might like that type of behavior because she encourages customers to behave like her "man". But I do not enjoy customers acting in such a matter.

    Secondly, I was talking about how men like yourself and the op do not understand that sex work is not the place to be meeting your future ex wife. Third, I have many of regulars, honey. What is your point with that statement about managing expectations? Fourth, no need to get smart-mouthed with me because you take offence at my statments. Fifth, do I sound like a woman who cares if men get hooked on me or not? Again,I blame women in this industry for parading this method of business around. They might act like it is cute and fun to cross personal and professional boundaries with their clients. But it hurts girls like myself who just treat this industry like a damn job. I am not here to turn this industry into my own live cock factory because I am hard up for male attention. I am here to entertain, get cocks off, and get paid.



    Quote Originally Posted by whph View Post
    Given your opening sentence, it wasn't really hard to figure out that I was answering a rhetorical question. As far as I know, people reading might legitimately have these questions, though, and wonder how a customer would respond.

    If you honestly can't tell the guy who is trying to save $200/week from the one who is hooked on you, that sounds like a pretty important skill gap. I have had a regular dancer for over a year, and part of why it has worked for that long is that she is good at managing expectations.

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    Sorry, I really didn't mean to come off like I was telling you how to do your job. The fact that a woman can choose her customers and set her own boundaries is something I like about strip clubs. I have read posts here where some choose to avoid having regulars so they don't encounter this kind of situation.

    What I was getting at with the regular dancer I mentioned was that she doesn't set these kind of unrealistic expectations and it's a better experience than if she had done otherwise.

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    whph, let's be honest. You only backtracked *after* you got slammed for answering. You sure didn't answer it like you thought it was rhetorical. 'Mansplaining aside, it's tempting for customers to want to come on here and (a) defend their clubbing approaches and (b) offer advice to the dancers but the reality is a dancer with only 5 months of work experience (and maybe less) already has more SC experience than most customers could ever hope to get in decades. So just swallow that humble pill.

    Quote Originally Posted by whph View Post
    If you honestly can't tell the guy who is trying to save $200/week from the one who is hooked on you, that sounds like a pretty important skill gap.
    I am really having trouble parsing this statement but if you are insinuating that Dona is in anyway lacking in the hustle skills department, you are sadly way off base, buddy. Click on her username and research her post history. She's one of the strongest hustlers on this site. Top 4 easily. Seriously. You either aren't familiar with her or you're full of yourself.

    There have been a few times where I thought I didn't agree with her or maybe something she wrote or explained didn't make sense at first, but I found after I thought about it, she was right on the money the whole time. I will give her credit where credit is due.


    ETA: with regards to the often elaborate romance hustles (crossing professional and personal boundaries) some sex workers like to try, I do agree with both of you (Dona and whph), I can seriously do without those. Fortunately none have been tried on me of which I am aware.
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    I saw some questions and responded to them. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    If we're going to resort to being honest, I appreciate the doses of reality that are passed out here because it's a great antidote to wishful thinking, which is the worst thing ever as a customer at a strip club.

    I'll take your word that Dona is great at what she does. I didn't mean to imply otherwise.

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    Lol rekt.


    Also someone should tell OP most STDs take a month or more to show up on an std test. Also there are no tests for HPV for men unless he has dick warts. Also um you know how babies are made? She has yo number, Maury is calling.
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