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    uhh thats fucked up and not normal . have you been tipping him? maybe if you werent tipping him this is his response.

    if you are tipping him, i would skimp on his tip if he is being ugly to you. moreover, i would avoid working his shifts. or find a new club.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Maggie, just find another club. Clearly, you are having a terrible time and being hazed. I't not worth it. What state/metro area/ country are you in? Maybe the girls here an recommend a place that will be easy for newbs.
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    You do not need to finish your shift. If it is that bad just fucking leave. Good luck, and when you do start at the next place don't let people take advantage of you. Lie about how long you have been dancing if you have to. Don't let anybody shit on you. if you are going to make it in this business you better be a bad bitch!
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    yea fuck that noise. you shouldnt tip him if he is being horrible. I dont know why djs dont remember that we are ultimately the ones who pay their bills, and being nice to us can go a long way.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    That club sounds like a toxic drama hole from reading your last few posts. You're better off going somewhere else. That would give me a headache. Next time just go out of your way to talk to anyone. Be considerate but not overly friendly. Keep the mentality that you're there to work and not friends. I would even be aware of girls offering to "help" you. I know you're new and you really do need the help but sometimes girls have ulterior motives. Just be careful. This isn't related to just this post but some of the other ones you've posted recently as well.

    As far as that DJ is concerned, fuck him if he wants to be THAT Nasty. I don't even understand that. He doesn't deserve a penny from you.

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    If this club has been nothing but drama, then switch to a new club if you can. It's not normal nor is it worth it. You should be enjoying your work and not dealing with this kind of crap. And don't tip the DJ til he changes his attitude.

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    Tell him to fuck right off

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    That's not his place to be critiquing your performance or body or gossiping about you.

    You can handle him by taking matters into your own hands by telling him to f*ck off a$$wipe, at least people can see my boobs but we need microscope and tweezers to see your d*ck

    Or you can handle him by allowing managers to handle your lightweights.
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    Good luck finding your new club! The best advice I can give you goes along with what others posted, and that is to not be too nice!!! Being "nice" puts a target on your back. Don't tell anyone you are new. Don't be rude on purpose but do not go out of your way to be nice. Actually, this applies to life in general even out of the club. Call me a cynic, but anytime I try to give chances and be the "nice girl" it always comes back to bite me. Make your money, ignore others, be polite, keep to yourself. Also, it is sooooo NOT NORMAL for DJ's to make comments like that. This club sounds so whack and dramatic. Good luck!

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    Just don't tell anyone you are new, and if you feel you are awkward on the pole like you have mentioned, take a couple pole-dancing classes (they aren't expensive maybe 15-20$ at the most) and watch YouTube videos for some basic moves so you look smoother on stage. Another thing you can do if you don't have time or money for a couple classes is work a day shift and get to the club early to practice on the stage. I did this and it did wonders. Of course pole work should not be your primary focus, but it might help you feel more confident. Check out hustle hut for more info on talking to customers and selling dances.

    Even if girls try to be your friend, be polite but don't engage with them too much. You never know who has an ulterior motive, even if they seem nice. If they ask about your dance experience or anything personal, have a story made up and stick to it.

    Other than all of that I think everyone has said what is possible to be said. I can't think of what more to add at this point. Maybe give your general location so the girls can give you help on clubs? I wish you the best and I hope you can make dancing work for you.

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    You have US in your corner, hon! There is some real love, support & great info on this thread right here! Idk what it is about dj's, I worked w/one in a club & in a vanilla job, which he outed me @, thank you very much! Not only that, for cry fucking eye it was a sex toy/video company? He may have done that cause I tipped him not a lot or at all..but, I was NEW! I mean some thirsty-ass ignorant mofo's out there, they knew I was new, tip this one, tip that one, cripes can you let me work a shift to even make something?


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    Quote Originally Posted by RyanXO View Post
    Good luck finding your new club! The best advice I can give you goes along with what others posted, and that is to not be too nice!!! Being "nice" puts a target on your back. Don't tell anyone you are new. Don't be rude on purpose but do not go out of your way to be nice. Actually, this applies to life in general even out of the club. Call me a cynic, but anytime I try to give chances and be the "nice girl" it always comes back to bite me. Make your money, ignore others, be polite, keep to yourself. Also, it is sooooo NOT NORMAL for DJ's to make comments like that. This club sounds so whack and dramatic. Good luck!
    Quote Originally Posted by RyanXO View Post
    Just don't tell anyone you are new, and if you feel you are awkward on the pole like you have mentioned, take a couple pole-dancing classes (they aren't expensive maybe 15-20$ at the most) and watch YouTube videos for some basic moves so you look smoother on stage. Another thing you can do if you don't have time or money for a couple classes is work a day shift and get to the club early to practice on the stage. I did this and it did wonders. Of course pole work should not be your primary focus, but it might help you feel more confident. Check out hustle hut for more info on talking to customers and selling dances.

    Even if girls try to be your friend, be polite but don't engage with them too much. You never know who has an ulterior motive, even if they seem nice. If they ask about your dance experience or anything personal, have a story made up and stick to it.

    Other than all of that I think everyone has said what is possible to be said. I can't think of what more to add at this point. Maybe give your general location so the girls can give you help on clubs? I wish you the best and I hope you can make dancing work for you.
    THIS^^^
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    ^^True!! People who seem "nice" may have a hidden agenda. Happened to me.

    Keep to yourself, mind your own business, be polite and don't be too open with anyone. At the same time, be aware of your surroundings and keep your wits about you.

    After being there for a long time, you'll be able to figure out who's who simply by observing their behavior.

    And that DJ has no business behaving that way. Totally unprofessional.

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    thankyou for the support everybody! i cried twice at work and now i feel so embarrassed. they probably think I'm unstable, but I'm just struggling! people do have a hidden agenda. one dancer "befriended" me and sold a double dance to a customer. he was haggling over the price and she said she would take care of it. she pocketed all the money: i was supposed to get $30 for that. another one keeps sitting with my customers when i go onstage and acts like she's just helping me. she tells me she's going to be my house mom. i don't need her "help". every time a customer beckons me over, she's right up my ass sitting with us! its adding to the stress

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    Quote Originally Posted by maggie82 View Post
    thankyou for the support everybody! i cried twice at work and now i feel so embarrassed. they probably think I'm unstable, but I'm just struggling! people do have a hidden agenda. one dancer "befriended" me and sold a double dance to a customer. he was haggling over the price and she said she would take care of it. she pocketed all the money: i was supposed to get $30 for that. another one keeps sitting with my customers when i go onstage and acts like she's just helping me. she tells me she's going to be my house mom. i don't need her "help". every time a customer beckons me over, she's right up my ass sitting with us! its adding to the stress
    Tell her to knock it the fuck off. You weren't born yesterday.

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    Hazing isn't an every club thing. You're in a strip club not a sorority. If someone's a cunt, they're not going to stop being cunts because you 'seem nice'. Someone said to stop trying to making friends- TAKE THAT ADVICE AND RUN WITH IT.
    The girl that sits with you and your customers, is trying to take your customers from you. She is not being overly helpful or friendly. She's being a B.
    If customers are still going to be handsy, I'm keeping both layers of thongs securely in place, thankyouverymuch.
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    Quote Originally Posted by maggie82 View Post
    thankyou for the support everybody! i cried twice at work and now i feel so embarrassed. they probably think I'm unstable, but I'm just struggling! people do have a hidden agenda. one dancer "befriended" me and sold a double dance to a customer. he was haggling over the price and she said she would take care of it. she pocketed all the money: i was supposed to get $30 for that. another one keeps sitting with my customers when i go onstage and acts like she's just helping me. she tells me she's going to be my house mom. i don't need her "help". every time a customer beckons me over, she's right up my ass sitting with us! its adding to the stress
    You just got to get gully with these broads.

    Just do what they do...right back to them.
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    Have you found a better club yet?

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    Jeez this poor women went though hell. Remember to stay to yourself! Even if girls are nice becarful

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