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I am not sure the context of the question and why that would be important but I don't find it that odd. I mean, if he wasn't intentionally trying to get a girl pregnant why would he?
XoXo Gia
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That's great! I love a guy who is considerate of others. Most Guys are selfish and really don't think of the repercussions of that 3 seconds of pleasure.





That's a responsible guy, considerate, and careful. That is rare these days. He's a gem.



I assume because this isn't in LO, that it might be okay for me to comment. If not, let me know and I will delete this post.
I don't know how common it is but I hadn't either until I was 26, I met the woman who would become my wife, and until she was on the birth control pill. I was very concerned about unwanted pregnancy in my younger days. Yes, it took incredible amounts of self control. It just seemed like the right thing to do.
Had I not settled down at 25, I could easily see myself in the same situation the BambiCutie found with a guy at 30.
Last edited by Dominic.2; 08-02-2016 at 12:37 PM. Reason: spelling and grammar




My boyfriend is thirty and hasn't either. I don't think it's really about saving it for a special woman but he knows he doesn't want kids right now and is doing everything in his power to prevent it from happening.
Even if she is in birth control and they use a condom?
I personally wouldn't like it if a guy refused to climax in me if I/we were already taking those two precautions. To me it would say he doesn't trust me and if having a baby with me is really THAT bad that he can't risk the 1: million odds of it happening, he can go ahead and get lost.
I don't think I could let a guy go bareback until I'm married and anyone who comes or let's a guy come in them without any birth control is an idiot.
I don't get why everyone is giving this guy special props when he is either being overly paranoid, or exercising basic decency (as he should).
"There are different kinds of darkness. There is darkness that frightens, the darkness that soothes, the darkness that is restful. There is the darkness of lovers, and the darkness of assassins. It becomes what the bearer wishes it to be, needs it to be. It is not wholly bad or good."
- The Court of Mist and Fury

because most men are arseh*les and don't exercise basic decency lol, its like when someone is a good mother, even tho its their job, they still deserve to be praised![]()



Lynn, I don't think he deserves props either (nor do I). I agree that it is just basic decency. My earlier girlfriends were just as if not more concerned about unwanted pregnancy and many weren't on birth control. So they and I were on the same page. FWIW, my wife felt like you, even the first night. So trust there from the beginning. Trust and communication are key. I respect my partners and their wishes. We didn't do bareback until we were solidly engaged, which in her mind was the same as marriage.
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