Have you ever had to learn your lesson the hard way in this industry? I hope nothing to bad.
I have, no one your friend and how crazy people can be. I guess Stay to yourself



Have you ever had to learn your lesson the hard way in this industry? I hope nothing to bad.
I have, no one your friend and how crazy people can be. I guess Stay to yourself
Last edited by gummygirl; 08-02-2016 at 01:22 AM.


one time i asked a girl for an advil/something for a headache. i had to go home an hour after i took it, turned out it was a suboxone
Last edited by Aammeelliiaa; 08-02-2016 at 09:38 AM.
Yeah. It sucks but sometimes it takes finding out the hard way to learn a lesson that makes you wiser.
“Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”



Childhood wisdom: If you give a mouse a cookie, he's going to want a glass of milk to go with it.
Similarly, if you let that one dancer borrow your shit, she's going to want to borrow ALL your shit ALL the time.
just because another girl is sober doesn't mean she can be trusted to get you home safely. strippers be crazy and some people don't need substances to drive or act like maniacs. if you plan on drinking, make sure you have a reliable ride or can get a rideshare.. last resort call a cab.. but don't get in cars with random coworkers. sadly i just figured this out recently.





When I was a new dancer, I loaned another girl twenty dollars.
When I asked her to return it, she stalled, then finally refused to re-pay me.
I figured that I wised up for a relatively cheap amount and that lesson has stayed with me for my long career. Thereafter, when someone approached me with some kind of hard luck story, I would tell them to get out on the floor and work for it.



Wow lol ^

Don't let other girls borrow anything.. You most likely will never get it back. Don't ever take home a co worker who is too messed up to remember where she lives.. I spent over two hours trying to get this girl home.. always get your money up front! I did $150 in table dances when the guy gets up to use the restroom.. Leaves without giving me anything. Lessons learned![]()
it ended fine. could have been much worse but long story short it took 2.5 hours to get home when i live 20min from the club and the girl did a lot of crazy shit including crash her car into a barrel on the freeway which resulted in talking to the cops for a while
i learned this lesson too when i was brand new. i wanted to go home early because i had cramps so the DJ gave me something he said was ibuprofen but it definitely wasn't and i spent the entire shift on the floor in the bathroom puking and unable to walk

One time I was working with another girl to hustle these two guys. She was talking to one while I was talking to the other and after a minute she leaned over and said, "The guy I am talking to has a lot of money, but he likes you. We should switch..." So my dumbass switched guys with her when in reality she gave me the guy who had NO money and she took the guy I was hustling to VIP!!!
Lesson learned....
don't let a friend use your car to dance at another club, i got stranded a state away from home because she didn't come back for me
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