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    On several recent occasions I've had dancers who kissed me. Not a peck, but full on makeout style. One of them I've known for several years, so that's understandable. The other two just did it. Is this uncommon?

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    ugh, i usually get several guys a week who want to make out/kiss. i respond by telling them that if i said yes it would mean i say yes to everyone, and why do they even want to put their mouth on something that ten other guys just did? usually shocks them into realizing it's gross and they don't want to anymore. actually they usually don't even want any more dances after that, but at that point i don't care.

    so to answer your question yes it must be somewhat common or all these guys wouldn't be expecting it. i also see it happening sometimes but i'd say that the majority of girls don't do it. the ones who do are definitely kissing others and probably doing more than that as well.

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    For me it's uncommon.

    Guys will beg to kiss and I'm like yuk no! It's not easy to know who could have the flu, mono, or cold sores, or just finished sucking dick / eating pussy, so no point in risking ones health for a moment of kissing strange dudes in the club.

    Plus even if there were no diseases I still wouldn't do it because there are certain things to save for your partner that you can't get (or shouldn't be able to get) in the club like kissing, orgasms, penetrations, nipple and boob play, swapping dna, etc. because these things are highly intimate.

    It's one thing to dance and get mildly intimate maybe even moderate intimacy but highly intimate - nope.

    I know women that do and I've done it once but only when I was getting paid 500 and I examined the hell out of his mouth and face. If a dancer takes that risk she would be wise to only do it if she's get paid a lot cause in the off chance dude is sick or she catches a contagious disease she will be off work and possibly have to pay to get medical care.

    It's too risky and too intimate so for me 99% of the time it will be a no not for me. And if you peck a dude, 9 times out of 10, they're not going to be satisfied they will want tongue action so can't even give them and inch.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dcentric View Post
    On several recent occasions I've had dancers who kissed me. Not a peck, but full on makeout style. One of them I've known for several years, so that's understandable. The other two just did it. Is this uncommon?
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    Omg where do you find these gifs ... Lol!
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    Yes it's uncommon. I will not make out with customers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Omg where do you find these gifs ... Lol!
    another forum and also bing image search. For searching gifs bing is better than google
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    The human mouth is one of the filthiest things ever..I've known of people that have gotten horrible infections after being bitten by a person.
    So, a big Nope.
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    So gross. I don't even make out with my lovers usually.
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    Personally, I'd give out sex way before making out with a customer.
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    I've had way more drunk civvies kiss me out of the blue than any strippers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Why we keep getting these ?'s

    Seriously.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by XxAmber89xX View Post
    Personally, I'd give out sex way before making out with a customer.
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    This will be a critical look into these types of customer base threads:

    We keep getting these threads because all of these "customers" are captain-save-a hoes/white knights and they are looking for encouragement. Threads like this one are showing up all over the sex worker forums and some sex workers openly encourage this behavior. Some sex workers might think that some of these customers are romantics or decent people. However, tons of these type of threads offer a horrifying look into the psyche of white knights/captain-save-a-hoes. For example, does anyone think that it is normal for customers to bust their spit all over strippers' without payment? Nope but this thread exist to see what will become normal in the stripclubs. You see, it starts with threads like "Do you think this stripper likes me" and they we fall down the rabbit hole to threads like this. Now it is "Kissing the customers" and "falling in love with escorts" but soon it will be " I want to marry an escort that I slept with once." or "I want to get a stripper pregnant after seeing her in the club." These people care nothing for the sex workers and think that we should be their playthings off the clock as well. They want to waste our time, beauty, and bodies in order to make themselves feel better.They only want to normalized sex work to make themselves feel better about seeing a sex worker.

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    Quote Originally Posted by XxAmber89xX View Post
    Personally, I'd give out sex way before making out with a customer.
    I'd probably do the same. At least you can wear condoms during sex.
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    As a general rule of thumb, if you have to ask yourself "is this ok?" or "is this normal?" then you already know the answer.

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    I never kissed customers.
    Bad breath, bad tastes, plus, you never now who is sick.
    I'd rather give a discounted lap dance first....

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    OMG^!


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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    Omg! Seriously though.... For real though? [email protected] she went there...
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    lol well this why you don't kiss strangers.





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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    This will be a critical look into these types of customer base threads:

    We keep getting these threads because all of these "customers" are captain-save-a hoes/white knights and they are looking for encouragement. Threads like this one are showing up all over the sex worker forums and some sex workers openly encourage this behavior. Some sex workers might think that some of these customers are romantics or decent people. However, tons of these type of threads offer a horrifying look into the psyche of white knights/captain-save-a-hoes. For example, does anyone think that it is normal for customers to bust their spit all over strippers' without payment? Nope but this thread exist to see what will become normal in the stripclubs. You see, it starts with threads like "Do you think this stripper likes me" and they we fall down the rabbit hole to threads like this. Now it is "Kissing the customers" and "falling in love with escorts" but soon it will be " I want to marry an escort that I slept with once." or "I want to get a stripper pregnant after seeing her in the club." These people care nothing for the sex workers and think that we should be their playthings off the clock as well. They want to waste our time, beauty, and bodies in order to make themselves feel better.They only want to normalized sex work to make themselves feel better about seeing a sex worker.
    This isn't a new phenomenon, the "hooker with the heart of gold" has been around for hundreds of years. Look at the 1800s Opera "La Traviata" - exactly that. Hero comes on with " La La La I'll save youuuuu" and then the heroine, a "courtesan", goes with him and then he pulls some shit and then she dies alone of tuberculosis.
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    Yes, the Western World loves the "hooker with the heart of gold" because she or he caters to that weakness which a sex worker wants to get saved by some captain-save-a-hoe. Actually, this low-class trope has been around since Biblical times with Rahab. In which, a sex worker should repent for the sin of being a sex worker. However, I do not come from a Western cultural mindset and find "hookers with the hearts of gold" to be annoying at best. From my cultural viewpoint, they are nothing more than sex workers with either have a massive burnout or got too soft for the profession. Before facing massive burnout, they need to take time off and meet people outside of the field. Then they can enjoy having both a vanilla life and sex worker life. I have notice that hookers with hearts of gold never live great lives with their captain -save-a-hoes


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    This isn't a new phenomenon, the "hooker with the heart of gold" has been around for hundreds of years. Look at the 1800s Opera "La Traviata" - exactly that. Hero comes on with " La La La I'll save youuuuu" and then the heroine, a "courtesan", goes with him and then he pulls some shit and then she dies alone of tuberculosis.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bahuba View Post
    This isn't a new phenomenon, the "hooker with the heart of gold" has been around for hundreds of years. Look at the 1800s Opera "La Traviata" - exactly that. Hero comes on with " La La La I'll save youuuuu" and then the heroine, a "courtesan", goes with him and then he pulls some shit and then she dies alone of tuberculosis.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    You see, it starts with threads like "Do you think this stripper likes me" and they we fall down the rabbit hole to threads like this. Now it is "Kissing the customers" and "falling in love with escorts" but soon it will be " I want to marry an escort that I slept with once." or "I want to get a stripper pregnant after seeing her in the club." These people care nothing for the sex workers and think that we should be their playthings off the clock as well. They want to waste our time, beauty, and bodies in order to make themselves feel better.They only want to normalized sex work to make themselves feel better about seeing a sex worker.
    That is exactly what I look for. Paid hookups, not hookers. Typical strippers will never look you in the eyes. They keep their eyes closed, or stare at the wall behind them above my head, or rest their face in my neck. That does nothing for my dick or my brain if it is plain obvious they only like me for money in the moment and can't convince me they like me for me. If the SC fantasy I get isn't 2 people who like each other hooking up like in a movie, I am not interested, I'll go watch porn for free instead if I want an orgasm with zero emotions.

    I'll give a comparison between 2 SCs.

    The first targets an upscale clientele, but its existence is a secret. Its advertising is minimal. No VIP rooms, only semi-private dances with a bouncer patrolling with a flashlight looking for hands on pussy or free willys. It has no name on the street or the hallway, just a suite number. Nobody knows that there is a club in there. It is a plain door in a 2nd floor hallway shared with a salon and real estate office on 1 side, and the SC on the other side. Almost no groups here, I've never seen more than 2 guys talking or in a group. You must text or call for a free reservation to be let in the door. You pay cover when you enter if you are on the guest list. No walk ups. Google says only solo women customers are denied the "VIP list" (a male customer must escort you). At this SC, 2 out of 3 will make out with me, but FS is impossible. In 1 night, 4 out of 6 GF-style made out with me. The 2 out of 3 ratio has been that way for every visit. Of the 1 out of the 3 that dont make out, the most memorable "I dont make out" girl told me kissing transmits HIV, I just knodded and end it at one song.

    The make out encouraged aspect of this SC is one corner of the lapdance area has bean bag chairs instead of banquettes but the 4 bean bags chairs always have customers and strippers pairs poking in and walking through the area like vultures for the coveted 4 bean bags. The bean bags allow a lie flat make out (no grinding) experience just like in civie world. Occasionally I've lost balance being bottom and I've seen other customers roll off the bean bags and the make out sessions/LDs are on the carpet for a while. The bean bag/carpet dances are a hazard for a yelp coming from one of the pair on the floor getting their leg stepped on by another drunk pair navigating the LD area.

    At another more mainstream, Vegas style SC, more make it rain ass shaking, more stage focused, more bachelor and huge herd of custies coming out of the Party Sprinter. There are private rooms but extras IME are rare. 1 out of 15 will make out with me in VIP room. 1 out of 10 offer HJ/BJ/FS but no kissing (I decline). Go figure. As miss.a.p1600 said, make out sessions are usually more rare than anything else in a SC.

    IME, most SCs there is no making out, or if it is available, it isn't at a price that I can afford (>$500) so it doesn't happen for me and I dont know about it. At a 3rd SC I once in a while goto, not as much as the above 2, I did once see a 42 year old stripper greet a 70 something customer with a cane and came with a rose with slow lip to lip kiss and arms wrapped his neck. I never since saw before or after making out on anywhere public or for me, in private, at this 3rd club.

    Regarding oral STDs, it is no different than a civie danceclub where 2 people are making out on a bench along of the wall of the dancefloor after a few hours. You dont ask a civie girl in the middle of eye flirting and hand/leg/chest hugging/holding/touching "who else did you kiss today? u a ho?" before you lean in, why would you ask a stripper?

    If you cant stand the thought that your partner made out with someone else that day before you, you should find your partners at the church picnic and get her fathers permission to marry first before kissing.

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