
Originally Posted by
Candycups
Yup, it's a sexually charged environment with a solid reputation for very loose morals... which makes it a prime target for vice when they're having a slow day/week/need to get a win/whatever. Sex work or no, it's rude to kiss and tell. With civilian girls because it can hurt their reputation, and with sex workers because it can ruin their lives. It's a turn off largely because it implies you can't keep your experience to yourself, which means anything anyone does that's over the official legal line is apparently liable to be aired to the world by you. Guys airing dirty laundry like that is what draws the attention of vice. Sure, in this case, you only told another stripper, but she doesn't know that, and neither does anyone else. If you're so open to talking about it, who else have you told? Friends? Other customers who might be vice? Randos at a bar? Are there posts online now about this specific dancer at this specific club giving you extras? If other guys hear or see that, they might get the idea that it's okay to do that there, and they might start openly talking about all the little bonus sexy stuff they've recieved because hey, isn't this place so raunchy and great, you can just not even pretend to care? Again, maybe you only told her about it... but she has no way of knowing that, and just to repeat, neither does anyone else. At best, it tells her you're a high mileage customer who probably expects more now because some dancer was dirty for you. I'd walk away for that alone.
In any case, the end result of gossip like that above ^^ is vice seeing the club as low hanging fruit and potentially coming in and busting the girls. It's a traumatic experience for everyone, whether they've given extras or not. Even if vice *doesn't* come in (though if enough customers start doing what you did, you can just about bet on vice coming in sooner or later) if word gets around to management that Girl XYZ is giving extras, guess who's fired? Perhaps rightly so, but take a moment to think before you speak. It's just a night in the strip club for you. You can walk away and never come back. This is the day-to-day life of everyone else you meet who works there though. Your words hold more weight than you may think. Unless you go to VIP first, it's not just dirty talk.
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