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    Do any of you stick to one city? If so how is it for you? I've found that I have to tour to make a living doing this but traveling a lot burns me out hard & fast. Most of my business usually comes from out of town business men but not enough to make a good living. It's probably my city. I live in one of those places where eros ads are free.

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    Default Re: Escorts who don't tour

    1. Treat this as a business , not a hustle. Have set days when you write ads, take pics, refresh your marketing..etc
    Keep a good record of what's working or not. Listening to your clients - what do they like, not like, what compliments are you getting?
    2. Offer both companionship and bodyrubs (if you can handle it)
    Think of new services you can offer, new things you can add to your sessions. Don't let you offer become "stale".
    3. Post your schedule on your website and make the days you are available and days you're not this way your clients know when to contact you
    - Seriously I hate when they contact me when i'm not working. Then when I want to work, it's crickets ugh.

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    You said "it's probably my city". Yes, it IS your city. It IS my city. It is ALL our cities! These guys get used to us and it's on to the next. Go be fresh meat in a new city. If you have financial goals you are trying to meet, touring is the only option. It's the only way to make your money and FAST.

    I , too, get travel burnout.

    I think damn I just want to be home in bed and not have to worry about a potential psycho cutting my head off.

    I've found that touring every other week helps TREMENDOUSLY. When I get home, it's a treat. I can take clients or relax and do whatever the fuck I want and not have to worry about $. It feels amazing.

    Right now it's slow. It's been slow for me for the past week and it'll be slow until kids go back to school. Do not freak out. It's not you. This is prime vacation time. Kids will return to school in two weeks and the hooker gods will smile down on you again. Hang in there.
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    Default Re: Escorts who don't tour

    Quote Originally Posted by fbsmgirl View Post

    I think damn I just want to be home with in bed and not have to worry about a potential psycho cutting my head off.
    Lol this is so me.

    Every now and then I'll get a regular. They come and go though. A lot of the times they want more of a personal connection, extra (free) attention and it's just not something I've been able to get comfortable doing. I've never even bothered to send follow up texts or emails or to even just check in if it's been awhile. In my mind once their time is up that's it. I suck at creating "chemistry" too. Really need to learn how. I try to market myself as a fun girl to have a good time with now. Not a fantasy girlfriend/lover.

    I've never thought of offering other services. I know I've definitely become stale. Also, I don't offer incalls and I can't do anything last minute since I have a toddler at home. A lot of guys want incalls but I can't figure out how to make it work with my schedule. I hate doing stuff last minute. Too hectic trying to find a sitter like that.

    You're totally right about the tourling. That's why I've set lower financial goals. I love traveling for work but after doing a bunch of tours close together for the first time I was so emotionally exhausted. I really didn't see that coming. How could the most fun thing I've ever done leave me feeling this way? lol

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    Default Re: Escorts who don't tour

    I wouldn't worry much about sendi follow up texts, but creating chemistry is essential to hooking good, respectful, generous, and at least somewhat consistent clients. Not having an incall is kind of a bust... You should look into even using Airbnb's - just be very cautious bc they can ban you from the app if they find out what you're up to.

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    I guess I ran into a string of needy clients who thought I wasn't "interested" because I didn't reply back fast enough lol I have incalls when I'm touring. I'm just going to keep touring regularly & do a few outcalls here and there when I'm home.

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    Default Re: Escorts who don't tour

    Chemistry with clients is pretty much something that comes out naturally. Yea the job can become mechanical.

    I don't follow up with my clients and no I don't really care who decided to become a regular anymore. I use to obsess over it now its just about being available when I can and take in bookings when I can. I don't tour and now I am getting older I see escorting in a whole different way.

    I am not going to be flying glamour rich like I thought based on bull shit messages from the media. I now see escorting as something I do for fun or something that brings in just enough cash that I can use to build my affiliate marketing business that has way more long term potential then sex work does.

    Basically you need to figure out the type of escort you are going to be that is going to make you happy for yourself and the clients that do see you. if you want to be one of those jet setting escorts that tours all the time and has a list of regulars to keep up with its takes a different kind of business planning.

    If your in it for side hustle and extra income, then you need to think of what is that going to look like

    Both plans are very different and both have their emotional baggage.

    It helps when you don't compare yourself to other providers there and it also helps greatly if you limit your time on those review boards too. and focus on your goals and lifestyle.
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    Default Re: Escorts who don't tour

    ^^^^ All this and some. I would at least like to live glamorously (based on my definition) while I still got it, mainly cause I love to travel and know i have the look and skills to go big for the time being. But touring does take a lot out of you, and really is a combo of luck and being where the money is to snag those high profile clients who make it worth your while.

    Nothing wrong with this being a simple means to pay the bills without working a 40 hour work week but one should be realistic about their look, skills and personality. I have a friend with multiple tats, piercings and not so cute body that thinks she can work for those higher end courtesan type agencies when its clear most wont even look her way.. Be honest with one self! anyway..

    if you like to travel, see touring as just an aspect of that, not everything. buy cheap tickets (i usually do one way flights so there is no pressure to work on a deadline) and try to go to cities where I have friends/fam I can stay with when I dont have enough bookings to cover a room long term

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