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    Duh What I'm I doing wrong ?

    Lately unless I'm a little drunk typsy or w.e custys don't want to fuck with me... Its like I got bitch written on my face or maybe I'm not as tempting or seductive as I used to be and its starting to ruin my self esteem. I don't know if its me or the patrons that are just not into me. I'm loosing it girls

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    Default Re: What I'm I doing wrong ?

    Aw. Maybe you've got stuff on your mind, & it's showing/f'ing w/your game? Maybe try to relax/get in a good mood (w/out drinking) watch a funny vid before you start?


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    Default Re: What I'm I doing wrong ?

    You have to stay positive plus smile alot! I know easy said then done but good vibes is what helps and smile is always good.
    Try doing something that get into the mood. Music, tv, kids, ect.
    Or vacation
    Last edited by gummygirl; 08-06-2016 at 10:55 PM.

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    Default Re: What I'm I doing wrong ?

    You're stuck in a spiral. People don't pay attention, so you feel bad, which makes people pay less attention, which makes you feel worse, etc.

    I get stuck in that kind of spiral All. The. Time.

    Take time off if you can. Try new outfits. Try new hustles. Try a new club, a new shift. Try new anything. All you need is one small success to get caught in the opposite kind of spiral--you do well, so you feel better, so you do better, etc. The important thing is to break the cycle any way you can.

    Try to stay positive. Know that you're just as hot as you've always been, just as awesome. We all have bad days, weeks, whatever. It's not you...it's them.

    Easier said than done, I know. God, I know. Good luck. It will pass.

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    Its probably the customers. We all know there are times when it could be packed with dudes who wouldn't spend a dime if a Victoria's Secret model walked up to them.

    Times like that I am like f*ck being nice and I have to get aggressive with dudes and say [email protected] near anything and literally pull their ass up out their chair lol to get them spending money.
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    I personally think summer's harder, I mean yea some places that are hopping for wht/ev reason, but mostly there's so much going on. So that doesn't help either.


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    I know other girls already suggested this but take a little time off if you can. Sounds to me like you may be experiencing burn out.
    XoXo Gia
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