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    Default FSSWs in the strip club?

    i feel like it should go without saying that i am by no means against full-service sex workers. i feel like it's hard enough out there to be employed in sex work in general, and hate within the sex worker community just makes non-sex workers think it's okay to treat us all like shit (one of many life lessons to be learned by watching mean girls).
    but with that said, am i actively working against them just because i think FSSWs have no place working in minimal contact clubs?
    i still find myself being accused of "slut shaming" (mainly from camgirls on tumblr who have never even stepped foot in a club) left, right, and sideways when i express anger that girls in the club are doing extras, while the rest of us abide by the club's rules and have to deal with the collateral damage.
    my issue obviously has nothing to do with the morality of full-service sex workers; i clearly have no room to talk about morals. my issue isn't even just with the fact that candy sucking and fucking in the champagne room takes away from our earnings. my issue is mainly with the fact that girls advertising their non-regulation services makes these custies think that they're simply above the rules. and if they're above the rules, what's stopping these guys from treating other employees like they owe him handjobs and anal just because the one girl was ballsy enough to break the rules?
    i don't give a shit how you earn your money outside the club. do whatever the fuck you want to make a living, it's no one else's business. just don't bring your illegal nonsense into the club and put all of us at risk too.
    thoughts? am i a whorephobic bitch, or am i right to think this way?


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    Default Re: FSSWs in the strip club?

    Actually, SiennaGraceharlow, those people saying that you are slut-shaming FSSWs in the clubs are stupid. Personally, I think you are within your right to complain about girls openly advertising those things in the clubs. Many of those chicks on Tumblr often believe that sex work is this sexual playground where anything goes. So, if you speak up about issues such as FSSSWs in the club or turning all of customers into your friends than they want to play social justice warrior with you. How I see it that you are just trying to keep your club clean as possible This is an example of something that is becoming the norm and you have to push against.

    Quote Originally Posted by siennagraceharlow View Post
    i feel like it should go without saying that i am by no means against full-service sex workers. i feel like it's hard enough out there to be employed in sex work in general, and hate within the sex worker community just makes non-sex workers think it's okay to treat us all like shit (one of many life lessons to be learned by watching mean girls).
    but with that said, am i actively working against them just because i think FSSWs have no place working in minimal contact clubs?
    i still find myself being accused of "slut shaming" (mainly from camgirls on tumblr who have never even stepped foot in a club) left, right, and sideways when i express anger that girls in the club are doing extras, while the rest of us abide by the club's rules and have to deal with the collateral damage.
    my issue obviously has nothing to do with the morality of full-service sex workers; i clearly have no room to talk about morals. my issue isn't even just with the fact that candy sucking and fucking in the champagne room takes away from our earnings. my issue is mainly with the fact that girls advertising their non-regulation services makes these custies think that they're simply above the rules. and if they're above the rules, what's stopping these guys from treating other employees like they owe him handjobs and anal just because the one girl was ballsy enough to break the rules?
    i don't give a shit how you earn your money outside the club. do whatever the fuck you want to make a living, it's no one else's business. just don't bring your illegal nonsense into the club and put all of us at risk too.
    thoughts? am i a whorephobic bitch, or am i right to think this way?

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    Default Re: FSSWs in the strip club?

    I feel the same way about cam models and online adult performers openly advertising to get into outside relationships with their customers. Much like girls who openly advertises their extra service in the club....those performers put everyone at risk. It is not safe to openly advertise that your customers should meet the real you.Also, a lot of sex workers including cam models encouraging that extra mentality as well on tumblr. But if you object about getting too personal with your clients than sjw sex workers and their white knight customers attack you for it. Particularly, those customers spoiled by hard-up sex workers who use them as best friend and boyfriend material. They believe that you must be bitter or cold if you do not want to meet them, date them,best friend or fuck them offline.

    Look, if some sex workers and customers did that discreetly than...it is cool. But do not openly encourage every meeting with between customers and sex workers. Nor act like all of those meetings are some major love connection or best friends forever situation.Currently, there are many girls and guys in other forums openly encouraging customers to meet sex workers off the clock. They want to talk about the glories of falling in love with your customers and being their best friends.Yet they never talk about the dangers of meeting a customer off the clock is for both your career and life.

    Quote Originally Posted by siennagraceharlow View Post
    okay good, i'm glad someone agrees! i think people just don't want to look past the fact that it's not full service sex work that i have a problem with. i just don't think it's fair to advertise in a club, because it not only puts us all at a disadvantage, but it puts us at risk too! the club could get in serious legal trouble if it's discovered that we're tolerating extras. like you said, people on tumblr don't seem to understand that sex work can't always just be a free-for-all.

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    i completely agree and have seen that attitude a lot on tumblr- i feel like everyone on there is always looking for some way to be offended.
    it frustrates me a little me when girls advertise full service in the club, but as long as they do it outside and abide by the rules while at the club, i don't care. as long as everyone in the club is just dancing i can still make money regardless of who is doing FS outside. i have plenty of customers get dances and then leave to go see a massage girl or escort. everyone wins.

    i don't see how other girls advertising could get me any trouble since i make it clear to customers that i don't offer sexual services. the only girls this could screw over are the ones who are lying to customers and making promises they don't intend to keep, and in my opinion those girls would get what they deserve. i have worked with girls who tell customers they'll "do everything" or fuck them in VIP (knowing full well they aren't going to) and then refuse to deliver once they have the money. i don't do that and think it's wrong tbh.

    it's also annoying that there are newbies hanging out with customers off the clock but honestly- i know plenty who aren't even doing anything illegal. there are girls who will hang out with club regulars for hours off the clock just because they buy them dinner and drinks. obviously because of this those guys will scoff at the thought of actually paying by the hour for our company. what can you do though? technically it's not against the law or rules. it's annoying but so are a lot of things about this industry. i mind my business and try to ignore what other stupid girls are doing.

    i really only get pissed about extras in the club because that's when i really feel like it effects me directly. like, i shouldn't be losing money and getting assaulted with a surprise dick in VIP because the girl before me made him think it's totally chill to whip it out. fuck that. i obviously don't think there's anything wrong with showing your tits and pussy for money but i sure as hell didn't do that when i worked at hooters. i don't think there's anything wrong with having sex for money either but it doesn't belong in the strip club. not sure why that's confusing to anyone.

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