I have been going to clubs with my husband for a while now. We have drinks, watch the performances, tip generously and are always respectful and on our best behavior. I have a lot of respect for the dancers and what they do not to mention what they have to deal with.
Recently, my husband and I decided to have our first private dance. We picked out a beautiful, friendly lady and proceeded. I have a history of bisexual relationships and was not uncomfortable but more that excited nervousness. Our dancer paid much more attention to me than my husband. A reality that both of us were happy about. Then the next day happened....
I can't get this girl out of my head! I know she makes her money by being nice and complimentary to her customers. To say she does her job well is an understatement. But now, I feel like I'm going through a break up or something.
So I want to know 3 things: Has this ever happened to any of the other female customers here? What do the dancers think after dancing for (and getting quite close to) a female customer? And, is it completely out of line to want to be this woman's friend (not sexually)?



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