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    she starts to explain at 4:07




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    Default Re: the reason why there are whores

    I get where she's coming from, but I disagree with her overarching idea that there would be no "need" for women to be whores in a totally equal society. Her premise is that women only become "whores" as a reaction to patriarchal oppression. I can agree with this to an extent, but these aren't the only reasons. Setting aside the concept of professional sex workers (because I don't think that's who she's actually talking about), there are actually women in the world who act "like whores" purely because they like sex and don't become attached because of it - just like men.

    Now, if society was truly equal, there would be no need to label those women as whores, because the very label comes from the idea that it's not appropriate for women to act that way. So true equality would technically mean no more "whores" just because the judgmental label wouldn't need to exist, but I don't think it would stop a lot of women from behaving in certain ways. It just wouldn't be seen as something wrong or lower on the totem pole of behavior.
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    Default Re: the reason why there are whores

    Couldn't have said it any better Aurora! Personally the only time I feel it wrong a girl is in the escort game, is if it is not by her own free will or she is being exploited by someone else aka pimp. If a man or woman chooses to sell sex for money that isn't a crime, and they shouldn't be judged in a derogatory way or looked down upon by society.

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    She is fundamentally wrong about what it means. I should say, that society has changed the meaning to mean women who do anything immodest.

    Her explanation is interesting, but no.

    The entire concept exists because most men can't really "whore" effectively. I used to think it was women who were the biological "prize" in the dating and mating game. I've come to realize it is actually the other way around.

    So she is wrong. "whore", the sex industry, porn, etc. exist because a large majority of males can't just put it out there and get sex with women of their choosing, or even a very average woman. These men rely on other qualities like money, being funny, being popular etc. to develop something that over considerable time (relative) becomes sex with a woman that they are interested in. Men know immediately if they want to sleep with a woman just based on their appearance, health and disposition.

    In summary, it's biology but that doesn't make for a good quasi-feminist rant on youtube.

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    Actually in matriarchal societies women are more likely to have multiple partners without "penalty" but there is still evidence of resources traded for sexual acts. Further, there is some speculation that ancient hunter-gatherers, who worshipped the "Venus" forms, lived segregated by gender, and that women obtained meat by trading sexual contact for it. It isn't called the worlds oldest profession for no reason. This was before, so the theory goes, men even knew that they had a definitive hand in the genetics of children. Read Marija Gimbutas, an authority on the beginning of the indo-European patriarchy, for more.
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    Default Re: the reason why there are whores

    You are correct, Bahuba! In matriarchal cultures, women are less likely to be penalized but sex acts can be still be traded for profit. The sex industry affects every society In some ancient societies; the courtesans was treated with a lot of respect and kindness by their society


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    Actually in matriarchal societies women are more likely to have multiple partners without "penalty" but there is still evidence of resources traded for sexual acts. Further, there is some speculation that ancient hunter-gatherers, who worshipped the "Venus" forms, lived segregated by gender, and that women obtained meat by trading sexual contact for it. It isn't called the worlds oldest profession for no reason. This was before, so the theory goes, men even knew that they had a definitive hand in the genetics of children. Read Marija Gimbutas, an authority on the beginning of the indo-European patriarchy, for more.

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    The reason there are whores is because sex is a basic human need....not a hard concept.
    The reason ther are more female prostitues and sex workers is because the world is geared towards men and their pleasure. Which is why there are much more women/trans and other oppressed groups in sex work, it's got jack shit to do with "biology" there are plenty of females (even threads on here) about wanting paid male "companionship." If you don't think women care about the things men do (looks, youth, organs) then wow I've got a real newsflash for you

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    Quote Originally Posted by We had a rabbit like you View Post
    The reason there are whores is because sex is a basic human need....not a hard concept.
    The reason ther are more female prostitues and sex workers is because the world is geared towards men and their pleasure. Which is why there are much more women/trans and other oppressed groups in sex work, it's got jack shit to do with "biology" there are plenty of females (even threads on here) about wanting paid male "companionship." If you don't think women care about the things men do (looks, youth, organs) then wow I've got a real newsflash for you
    I love a mans aesthetic. youth, handsomeness, abs, sex etc. but the reason i and most women dont pay them is simple. we can get it for free. even a plain looking woman, with an average body can. its not hard to get an attractive guy into bed.
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    Actually, Destinyfulfilled, women pay for male companions for different reasons than men. Women pay in order to have either a freak sexual desire fulfilled, they didn't time to meet a guy, or there is a fantasy most men would not do. Sure, you can get sex from some hot guy. But can you get every sexual need fulfilled? Do you believe that business women have time to meet to random men for a fling? Also, what about the taboo fantasies like the sleeping beauty fetish? Most guys are very vanilla and might not want to cater to certain fetishes.Particularly the young and inexperience would kiss and tell about certain sexual things. Plus,not every woman who wants a guy can get the stud. But male companions are great for exploring certain things without hearing the male ego or having a stupid relationship to get laid.Personally, my friend and I paid for a male escort for her 19th birthday because we both had a certain non-sexual fetish that we wanted to do. Plus, the guys in my college was just so lame and vanilla. So, we found this hot German male escort who would do anything for 450. We went with a German guy because American male escorts were not used to such a request. Plus, he did not mind our requests and we stay with him all night for 450.


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    I love a mans aesthetic. youth, handsomeness, abs, sex etc. but the reason i and most women dont pay them is simple. we can get it for free. even a plain looking woman, with an average body can. its not hard to get an attractive guy into bed.

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    Then why do attractive, wealthy men pay for sex?? Because it's a commitment-free, all about them, professional experience.
    I believe society has way more to do with wanting women to withhold sex and men to beg for it than actual biology. Women get horny too. And w free sex, you get what you pay for and all the possible psychos and issues and bad sex attached
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    I think she's taking something simple and trying to turn it into something complex. Probably, the main reason why women become whores is because they can make a lot more money as whores than doing any other type of work that they're qualified for. Some women would prefer to make $100 - $200 an hour, or more, for having sex, than $10 an hour working at McDonalds or Walmart. Of course there are a lot of women who would prefer to work at a low wage job rather than sell sex for money, which is why women who are willing to sell sex for money can charge such a high price. Basically, it comes down to the law of supply and demand.

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    of course not all women who become whores are only qualified for low-wage jobs, but they still make more money as whores than in another profession, and some women might become whores to make money in addition to what they're making at their regular job. Some also might be doing it to pay their way through college.

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    I love the title. It gives me warm, fuzzies all over.

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    If you didn't tell me to start at 4:07 I would not have been able to watch this. She is bat shit crazy, so her theories are a bit crack-pot. She can't even remember where she is going in her rant half the time.
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    a mans weakness is sex
    only when men and women are equal, will the whore be extinct. #equalpay #freethenipple

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