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    First post and the first thing I'd like to say is that this site is fascinating and I'm loving it. I enjoy reading many of the comments.

    Quickly, I'm an older guy who's been around the block a few times, probably a few times too many as my libido ain't what it used to be. Boo hoo. Okay, BOO HOO! I remember the, uh, "good ol' days in New York when things were lots different, mostly good different but I won't get into that.

    It's been years since I've been to a strip club. But from reading the posts, it seems things haven't changed all that much. I was an occasional patron back then. What has changed since my early days is the advent of the Internet which seems to have upended the entire sex industry. I like it.

    OK, I'll stop pontificating. Nowadays, going to tried and true massage places (that generally offer full service) satisfies my needs. Or just a massage with happy ending is fine. I personally don't see the point of strip clubs for guys that just wanna get their rocks off. It costs considerably more than getting what I truly want by going to one of the many escort sites from backpage to TER or whatevuh or visiting men's discussion forums such as utopiaguide.com (good place to advertise if you're looking). And there's an inherent risk in strip clubs in dealing with, at times, unsavory people. And I don't drink, at least more than one drink.

    If I primarily want to see stripping, I'll go to a burlesque venue. I'm in NYC and there are plenty, seedy or completely legit with great shows.

    Part 2, though my goal is not to make this an opus. Cams. This is just a comment. I've gradually come to enjoy them and have settled on one that's little used by American wimmin, extasycams.com. I initially joined because it's dirt cheap and probably the cheapest cam site out there. I think it's 39 or 49 cents a minute. The model is a little different than Jasmine and the like in that the customer starts paying as soon as he enters a room. Then again, it generally only takes a few minutes for the girl to start performing. While the girls are not as polished as Jasmine, that is a plus to me. There are some real South American and Asian knockouts. The wimmin earn very little (like half of what the customer pays) which is undoubtedly the reason American women don't use the site. For the most part, men don't even tip, or that's what girls tell me. That is not a plus for me, I feel badly for the wimmin. Then again, I can't afford Jasmine prices. With such a low price at extasy, I'm happy to leave a decent tip.

    Anyway, I miss private lap dances! But it seems too much of a hassle and expense.

    Thank you for being here, my new source of entertainment.

    Obviously, there is still a market for strip clubs otherwise the industry would have died. However, it's not for me

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    Quote Originally Posted by anonymess View Post
    First post and the first thing I'd like to say is that this site is fascinating and I'm loving it. I enjoy reading many of the comments.

    Quickly, I'm an older guy who's been around the block a few times, probably a few times too many as my libido ain't what it used to be. Boo hoo. Okay, BOO HOO! I remember the, uh, "good ol' days in New York when things were lots different, mostly good different but I won't get into that.

    It's been years since I've been to a strip club. But from reading the posts, it seems things haven't changed all that much. I was an occasional patron back then. What has changed since my early days is the advent of the Internet which seems to have upended the entire sex industry. I like it.

    OK, I'll stop pontificating. Nowadays, going to tried and true massage places (that generally offer full service) satisfies my needs. Or just a massage with happy ending is fine. I personally don't see the point of strip clubs for guys that just wanna get their rocks off. It costs considerably more than getting what I truly want by going to one of the many escort sites from backpage to TER or whatevuh or visiting men's discussion forums such as utopiaguide.com (good place to advertise if you're looking). And there's an inherent risk in strip clubs in dealing with, at times, unsavory people. And I don't drink, at least more than one drink.

    If I primarily want to see stripping, I'll go to a burlesque venue. I'm in NYC and there are plenty, seedy or completely legit with great shows.

    Part 2, though my goal is not to make this an opus. Cams. This is just a comment. I've gradually come to enjoy them and have settled on one that's little used by American wimmin, extasycams.com. I initially joined because it's dirt cheap and probably the cheapest cam site out there. I think it's 39 or 49 cents a minute. The model is a little different than Jasmine and the like in that the customer starts paying as soon as he enters a room. Then again, it generally only takes a few minutes for the girl to start performing. While the girls are not as polished as Jasmine, that is a plus to me. There are some real South American and Asian knockouts. The wimmin earn very little (like half of what the customer pays) which is undoubtedly the reason American women don't use the site. For the most part, men don't even tip, or that's what girls tell me. That is not a plus for me, I feel badly for the wimmin. Then again, I can't afford Jasmine prices. With such a low price at extasy, I'm happy to leave a decent tip.

    Anyway, I miss private lap dances! But it seems too much of a hassle and expense.

    Thank you for being here, my new source of entertainment.

    Obviously, there is still a market for strip clubs otherwise the industry would have died. However, it's not for me
    Ok, then don't go to strip clubs. Simple.

    While I'm doling out such wise advice (lol), let me also save you the trouble of further trying to educate folks here on the various adult entertainment options. We know. The ladies on this site are well aware of the various work options in adult entertainment and a number of them have explored multiple avenues. Same holds true for the handful of us hounds who are tolerated around these parts, many of whom have explored everything from escorts, massage parlors, cam sites, etc. The reasons that dancers choose to work in clubs, and guys still choose to make that worthwhile, are varied, but IMHO they have little to do with anyone being confused about their options.

    Speaking for myself, I visit clubs because I am looking for a lot more than just a quick nut. I find dialing for pussy to be boring and cam sites even more so. Massage parlors also lost their allure for me a long time ago. I enjoy the social element of clubs, including the variety and interpersonal interactions. And if I just so happen to find a good OTC partner who I seem to click with in some fashion (feigned or otherwise on her part) then even better.

    Anyway, to each his own and have fun if you are finding what you are looking for.
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    Rereading my post, I see I need to apologize. It wasn't my intention to lecture but I guess it came off that way. I was trying to understand why men go to strip clubs and possibly be convinced to try it again. One of the things that holds me back is that I am not a drinker and I don't think clubs would appreciate that.

    Thanks for your thoughts and apologies again.

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    There's something for everyone, and I don't think any one facet of the Sex industry is so universally superior as to "upend" every other kind of work. Men who like to call escorts are not the same customers as the ones who like stripclubs, or even the ones who try and find sex in the clubs. Totally different demographic. As Rick said, stripclubs are about experience, they aren't for men who want to get off as quickly and cheaply as possible.

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    Depending on the club, you might be able to purchase non-alcoholic drinks as an alternative.

    That said, the venue you go to depends entirely on what you're looking for. Burlesque and Stripping are similar, in that they both involve music and the shedding of clothes, but I think you'll agree that they're two very different forms of entertainment. Obviously if what you want is someone else's physical aid in getting you off, cam sites, strip clubs, and burlesque venues are off the menu. If you want to enjoy some erotic company and maybe be seduced a little, though, then those are all back on. From there, it just depends on what kind of flavor you want. Do you want to see her, where she can't see you? Thet safe anonymity and comfort of your home? The two-way flirtation of the strip club, without the face-to-face two-way contact? Camming it is. Want to see an outrageous performance on stage, where layer after layer of covering is removed, and the dancer seduces more from afar? Burlesque it is. Do you want to be seduced up close, with relatively mild two-way contact, where you can flirt and be flirted with, flatter and be flattered, toy and tease and be toyed with and teased back? Want that so-close-but-not-quite feeling? Want to chat, or be danced for and on, or both? Strip club it is. And again, all of that can hold true for camming, too. The main difference is in the strip club, the woman is right in front of/on you. With camming, she's in your computer screen. Plenty of guys enjoy both, and plenty of guys prefer one over the other.

    If you prefer full service and cam site to strip clubs, that's totally your call. You sound like you know what you like. If you're thinking you might want to explore it again, though, why not go in and check it out? Strip clubs provide a fantasy in a specific setting. That's their big appeal. If you want to go to an oasis of women who're waiting to flirt with and seduce you, who're waiting to tease and tantalize and "do everything but" and "you can look but you can't touch" (to an extent, anyway) then strip clubs might have the experience you're looking for. Essentially, strip clubs are an interactive theater of the erotic variety. If that sounds fun to you, go give it another go. If the idea of assisted arousal without an assisted orgasm to follow sounds pointless, then yeah, you are definitely missing the point. But that's okay because it just means the strip club experience is not for you, which doesn't sound like it's any different from where you are right now.

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