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    I've never done outcalls and while touring next month (in NYC and Jersey) I'm thinking about it.
    I've done incalls at both a hotel and massage location but never out of a house or taken an outcall..

    For some reason I feel like outcalls are less safe and would be a huge let down with time wasters. Like I'd hate to get a call and show up and the guy changes his mind or never picks up when I get there. Where as when this has happened on incalls, either the guy gets spooked or flakes for whatever reason I've never even left my room and there's someone else coming.

    I'm wondering how to stay safe on outcall especially from law enforcement and how to avoid getting stood up. Also what are some of the biggest pros and cons to both???

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    Default Re: Escorting: Incall vs Outcall

    I did outcalls when I started with an agency back in the day. Never again. I don't care how much I lose it's just not safe to me.

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    Default Re: Escorting: Incall vs Outcall

    I've honestly never felt much of a difference in safety for incall vs. outcall. There are things to worry about, but safety nets, in each, I guess. Incall can feel safer because you're "on your own turf" - but OTOH... now someone knows where you are at all times. I also feel like, if a guy was going to attack me or something like that, he'd be much more prone to doing it in some location where no one knows him and he can just slip out and disappear than in his own home where my car is parked outside and his neighbors might see/hear something, or in his own hotel in his name... ya know?

    In terms of LE, be as diligent as you always are with screening and feeling someone out, and the risk should be about the same. Don't forgo proper screening/references for "can you meet right now?" requests. Private residences are less likely to be LE than a hotel sting. Is the hotel known for being unfriendly to prostitution/being involved in setups? If you get a weird vibe when you get there, leave. In that sense, again, isn't it easier to just run out the door of an outcall if you get a bad feeling about someone than trying to force a man who's bigger than you to leave your space when you're worried he might get volatile?

    I find that most guys who do outcall don't stand you up. If they do cancel, they'll do it before you arrive and have wasted the time. I'm much more prone to being cancelled on when the guy is coming to me, because all he has to do is decide "Ugh, this might be a hassle to get over there now, send a text" vs. if they already went through the trouble of securing a hotel... they'll be less likely to just blow you off.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    Is the hotel known for being unfriendly to prostitution/being involved in setups? If you get a weird vibe when you get there, leave. In that sense, again, isn't it easier to just run out the door of an outcall if you get a bad feeling about someone than trying to force a man who's bigger than you to leave your space when you're worried he might get volatile?
    Agree 100% . Some hotels work with LE.
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    I prefer in calls. Safe...and convenient. Plus if you encounter a tw it's not as much of a pain in the ass as an out
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    My Mom has always told me to do incalls only.

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    Unfortunately I will have to do OC where Im at because a hotel for the night is 200-300. Every once in a blue you may luck up on one for 90 but thats rare
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    Default Re: Escorting: Incall vs Outcall

    Out calls only..for me anyways. No way do I want some potential Creep seeing where I spend a lot of my time, plus I always make them pay for our accommodations anyaways , I agree w aurora it makes them far less likely to bail or jerk me around

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    Amazing. Thank you. Also something idk I have this idea to maybe work from an Airbnb instead of a hotel. Have you heard of girls doing this or does this seem risky?

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    Quote Originally Posted by iiprincessu- View Post
    Amazing. Thank you. Also something idk I have this idea to maybe work from an Airbnb instead of a hotel. Have you heard of girls doing this or does this seem risky?
    Airbnb is NOT provider friendly. Yes, I've heard of ladies working from Airbnb rentals... and so has Airbnb and the owners of those properties!

    There have been several news stories in the past few years of guests using Airbnb rentals for prostitution, which has been quite embarrassing to Airbnb. Now, both Airbnb and landlords have their radar up for such activity and look closely at single female renters because of it. Most owners have neighbors or property managers who keep an eye out for suspicious activity. They are way more nosey than management at hotels are.

    There was even a porn star who was recently banned from Airbnb. She did not use the rental for porn, but they investigated her before she rented and found out she's a porn star. They closed her account.

    On a personal note, I don't think it's cool to use other people's homes for illegal activities. What if one of your clients shows up at the property after you leave, when the owners and their kids are at home?

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    Another good reason to use hotels versus Air B n B is people often have lazy attitudes about cleaning their homes these days & hotels have paid housekeeping. I've worked as a hotel cleaner & know they fire maids that don't leave the rooms spotless. So for what you pay for the hotel room... it's a bargain in regards to cleanliness & not having to wash towels & sheets.

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