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    Well I've been seeing this girl for a few months now. I am unhappily married and in my late 30's and she is in her mid 20's. We met through an agency but we hit it off so well right away so she gave me her personal number to reach her. We meet up several times a week now and she stopped asking for money a couple weeks ago. Actually, she told me I didn't have to pay her anymore because she liked seeing me but I still do sometimes just because she turns down clients to see me and i think it's making problems with her and her agency. We have spent the entire day and even overnight together on several occasions. We both have said that we have feelings for each other and chat on phone and text daily. Well as an escort she was by the book with me at first it was always covered BJ'S and covered sex and at first she was limited in what positions she would do. See I'm not a small guy but not exactly a porn star either but she is very petite and wouldn't ride me at first because she said I was too big after she tried it so it was always missionary and doggy which was great but I had told her I liked a girl on top. Well here recently after we confessed we were falling for each other she opened up a lot to me, she said she wanted what we had to be different then with her "clients". Sex now is different, far more passionate and she doesn't hold back. Well recently we were making out and when she went down on me she didn't go grabbing for a condom first which was a big surprise since she had always used one even for that. Then she asked if I would have sex with her without one. Now ok my mind was like "nooooo you can't do this" but of course my little head was wanting to. I told her I didn't think it was a good idea but she told me she really wanted to with me and it was something she had only done with her ex husband and an ex bf and she was on BC. Now I don't know how true all that was but seeing how careful she was up to that point and the feelings I have for her I couldn't resist. She even climbed on top of me and rode me really for the first time just because she knew I wanted that. Since then we are still having sex the same way, just as passionate and bare and we talk for hours about everything! She has told me if I ever leave my wife she would quit escorting and would be faithful to just me. I want to believe her and I want to be with her. She was an escort when I met her and I was a client so who am I to judge her, I don't.

    Is it possible though for a working girl to leave this life and settle down? I want to believe we can have a normal life together but I'm terrified one of us, probably me, is going to get hurt. The reason i saw an escort in the beginning was to avoid an emotional attachment that would come along with an affair but here we are now in that same situatiin i feared. Has anybody else here had this experience before? I've known guys who have met strippers and are now very happily married after the girls left that life behind but not an escort. Now I feel that I'm in love with this girl and want to be with her. Anyone have advise for me?

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    Go get yourself tested. If she's barebacking with you, she's probably barebacking with others. And are you certain she's on BC?

    As to leaving escorting and "settling down" - do you have enough disposable income that will make up for her loss of income if she stops being a prostitute?


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    The ' settling down' push worries me. She may not want that. Why do guys always want to turn the tiger into the house cat?

    Otherwise...you may. MAY have been the lucky lightning strike customer. Or maybe you're just a friend or customer plus.

    Time will tell

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    You've watched Pretty Woman one too many times. How the heck are you unhappily married? If you're that unhappy get divorced then explore options. Otherwise try to work it out with your wife. All this cheating is going to catch up to you. I just don't see this as a good idea cause you are not thinking clearly and blinded by current unhappiness at home.
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    Go get yourself tested. If she's barebacking with you, she's probably barebacking with others. And are you certain she's on BC?

    As to leaving escorting and "settling down" - do you have enough disposable income that will make up for her loss of income if she stops being a prostitute?
    Does your state have alimony? Do you have kids? Expect to pay 1/4 to 1/3 of your take-home pay for child support.
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    First, get tested.

    Second, I hope you're not sleeping with your wife still. Gees. Get divorced if you're that unhappy!

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    Many states do a percentage now where where they contribute a percentage of their income to child support up to a certain "capped" amount and both parents are expected to contribute to child support. And With the caps means that just because a dude makes multi millions does not mean a woman will get a 1/3 or 1/4 of that.

    But yeah. Dude don't go in raw. You're married for crying out loud. You're supposed to wear condoms if you step out on your wife. Last thing you need is to be contracting/spreading diseases around or be on the hook for those cs payments for 18 years or paying alimony, etc to a disgruntled ex wife.
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    This is a hustle. This is called the "trap a trick" who is ready to leave his wife and who looks like they will take care of me instead. Or somewhere to stay for 6 months until they move to the new guy. I've seen it many of times. I have an escort friend who has regularly done this with several clients. Make them think not using a rubber makes them special, disrupt their homelife and live with him for 6 months until he figures out she's been running a game on him. But she still escorts while she is with them. Behind their back usually.


    Also if you are in an unhappy marriage. Just get a divorce man. You are running around now on your wife. I don't know what she has done, but you are now putting her sexual health at risk not wearing a rubber. Even if you are not sexually active, you guys could have a spur of the moment. You both deserve to be happy, and if you are not happy with each other, be happy with someone else. Wouldn't you want that for her? I'm assuming you loved her at some point. If you have kids, how would they feel if they knew what their father did to their mother? With a sex worker too. Usually civilians don't take to kindly when they find out the other woman is a whore.





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    I don't recognize any working girls on this thread so I thought I'd chime in and shed some light....

    Quote Originally Posted by BamaDiver View Post
    Well I've been seeing this girl for a few months now. I am unhappily married and in my late 30's and she is in her mid 20's. We met through an agency but we hit it off so well right away so she gave me her personal number to reach her. We meet up several times a week now and she stopped asking for money a couple weeks ago. Actually, she told me I didn't have to pay her anymore because she liked seeing me but I still do sometimes just because she turns down clients to see me and i think it's making problems with her and her agency. We have spent the entire day and even overnight together on several occasions. We both have said that we have feelings for each other and chat on phone and text daily. Well as an escort she was by the book with me at first it was always covered BJ'S and covered sex and at first she was limited in what positions she would do. See I'm not a small guy but not exactly a porn star either but she is very petite and wouldn't ride me at first because she said I was too big after she tried it so it was always missionary and doggy which was great but I had told her I liked a girl on top. Well here recently after we confessed we were falling for each other she opened up a lot to me, she said she wanted what we had to be different then with her "clients". Sex now is different, far more passionate and she doesn't hold back. Well recently we were making out and when she went down on me she didn't go grabbing for a condom first which was a big surprise since she had always used one even for that. Then she asked if I would have sex with her without one. Now ok my mind was like "nooooo you can't do this" but of course my little head was wanting to. I told her I didn't think it was a good idea but she told me she really wanted to with me and it was something she had only done with her ex husband and an ex bf and she was on BC. Now I don't know how true all that was but seeing how careful she was up to that point and the feelings I have for her I couldn't resist. She even climbed on top of me and rode me really for the first time just because she knew I wanted that. Since then we are still having sex the same way, just as passionate and bare and we talk for hours about everything! She has told me if I ever leave my wife she would quit escorting and would be faithful to just me. I want to believe her and I want to be with her. She was an escort when I met her and I was a client so who am I to judge her, I don't.

    Is it possible though for a working girl to leave this life and settle down? I want to believe we can have a normal life together but I'm terrified one of us, probably me, is going to get hurt. The reason i saw an escort in the beginning was to avoid an emotional attachment that would come along with an affair but here we are now in that same situatiin i feared. Has anybody else here had this experience before? I've known guys who have met strippers and are now very happily married after the girls left that life behind but not an escort. Now I feel that I'm in love with this girl and want to be with her. Anyone have advise for me?
    I fell in love with a customer once...nah ... twice. He "cheated" on me with another provider and... I went batshit crazy on him.

    So do escorts fall in love with their clients? YES! Does it work out? 9 times out of ten, no.

    Your chances are VERY slim. Another poster asked the question.. Can you afford to take care of her if she were to stop selling herself?

    Look, if you are half as good looking as Richard Gere and have half of his money, by all means, go for it. Pay the wife and be free. Hell, you're still in your 30s and life is too short.

    BUT....

    If you cannot take care of this woman, back away slowly and let that girl be great (if you don't get that expression, in this context it means let her do what she needs to do to take care of herself).

    To the other posters saying "GET TESTED IF SHE'S BAREBACKING YOU SHE'S BAREBACKING SOMEONE ELSE": BBFS in the industry is dead wrong but you do realize that escorts are human beings too and a lot of them fuck their boyfriends / husbands without protection, right? There is a chance she is really in love and he's the only one she's BBFS'n. Is it the smartest thing? No BUT it happens in this industry ALL the time. Take into consideration that she's in her 20s, I'm 27. I consider myself pretty mature but a lot of us 20 year olds are .. impressionable.

    Now if i were you, I would bring the condoms back, try to date her - you know... like try getting to know her beyond just sex and late night chats and see where it goes.

    Sample conversation starter: Hey (insert her name here), I think we should slow down. I'm falling in love with you and I want to see if we can make this work. Can we date and get to know each other for awhile ? If she gets nervous , still insists on fucking bareback, makes a fuss over this then you are barking up the wrong tree. She's not in love, she's bat shit crazy. This industry attracts a lot of those types.

    I had a threesome once with a client and another escort and she started crying after having one too many drinks and started begging him to cum in her. Again, bat shit crazy is a trend in this thing of ours. I don't know what that girl was trying to do but I do know that a lot of girls THINK fucking a guy without a condom will "hook" him. LOL

    Personally? I wouldn't want to be with a man that would leave his wife to be with me. If that bond is easily broken then ours could be broken just as easily. It took me a long time to see things this way. Before I saw absolutely nothing wrong with a man leaving his wife to be with someone else. If your wife is horrible, I get it. I understand it. However, if you're simply chasing new skirts because your wife is old and wrinkly? You're better off keeping your temporary girlfriends ...temporary one hour at a time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    This is a hustle. This is called the "trap a trick" who is ready to leave his wife and who looks like they will take care of me instead. Or somewhere to stay for 6 months until they move to the new guy. I've seen it many of times. I have an escort friend who has regularly done this with several clients. Make them think not using a rubber makes them special, disrupt their homelife and live with him for 6 months until he figures out she's been running a game on him. But she still escorts while she is with them. Behind their back usually.


    Also if you are in an unhappy marriage. Just get a divorce man. You are running around now on your wife. I don't know what she has done, but you are now putting her sexual health at risk not wearing a rubber. Even if you are not sexually active, you guys could have a spur of the moment. You both deserve to be happy, and if you are not happy with each other, be happy with someone else. Wouldn't you want that for her? I'm assuming you loved her at some point. If you have kids, how would they feel if they knew what their father did to their mother? With a sex worker too. Usually civilians don't take to kindly when they find out the other woman is a whore.
    Trap trick... yep.

    I say test her and call her bluff.

    However, I understand not running and getting a divorce. It's cheaper to keep her.
    It sounds fucked up to say but .... I get it.

    The thing is though falling in love with an escort is the number 1 DON'T of trickin'.
    Wanna have your cake and eat it too? Sure, strap up and don't be stupid.

    The best escorts could give Julia Roberts a run for her money in the acting department. I would be careful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fbsmgirl View Post
    I don't recognize any working girls on this thread so I thought I'd chime in and shed some light....
    Apart from me, you mean?

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    Quote Originally Posted by fbsmgirl View Post

    Another poster asked the question "Can you afford to take care of her if she were to stop selling herself?"
    Actually, I said "do you have enough disposable income that will make up for her loss of income if she stops being a prostitute?" I chose that word deliberately because 1) it's the plain hard truth, and 2) she doesn;t "sell herself", she sells and provides a service. Semantics, I know

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    Quote Originally Posted by fbsmgirl View Post

    To the other posters saying "GET TESTED IF SHE'S BAREBACKING YOU SHE'S BAREBACKING SOMEONE ELSE": BBFS in the industry is dead wrong but you do realize that escorts are human beings too and a lot of them fuck their boyfriends / husbands without protection.
    Yes. That's exactly what I said. If she's barebacking him, she's probably barebacking someone else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CatBBW View Post
    Actually, I said "do you have enough disposable income that will make up for her loss of income if she stops being a prostitute?" I chose that word deliberately because 1) it's the plain hard truth, and 2) she doesn;t "sell herself", she sells and provides a service. Semantics, I know
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    Nope... I meant "selling herself". Used for dramatic effect. Was typing too fast and didn't mean to use quotes in that line (in fact I'll go remove the quotes now).

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    I'm just saying, OP is just in for a world of hurt when his wife goes to get her yearly and finds out she has HPV. It's that common now.

    "About 14 million people become newly infected each year. HPV is so common that most sexually-active men and women will get at least one type of HPV at some point in their lives. Health problems related to HPV include genital warts and cervical cancer"
    http://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/stdfact-hpv.htm


    She is only human. That's why OP should get tested. I would suggest anyone to get tested if they are having sex with someone who isn't their partner with or without a condom. If you are sexually active, you should get tested every 6 months. Even if you are wearing a rubber. It's no offense to his escort/maybe-ladyfriend.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BamaDiver View Post
    Well I've been seeing this girl for a few months now. I am unhappily married and in my late 30's and she is in her mid 20's. We met through an agency but we hit it off so well right away so she gave me her personal number to reach her. We meet up several times a week now and she stopped asking for money a couple weeks ago. Actually, she told me I didn't have to pay her anymore because she liked seeing me but I still do sometimes just because she turns down clients to see me and i think it's making problems with her and her agency. We have spent the entire day and even overnight together on several occasions. We both have said that we have feelings for each other and chat on phone and text daily. Well as an escort she was by the book with me at first it was always covered BJ'S and covered sex and at first she was limited in what positions she would do. See I'm not a small guy but not exactly a porn star either but she is very petite and wouldn't ride me at first because she said I was too big after she tried it so it was always missionary and doggy which was great but I had told her I liked a girl on top. Well here recently after we confessed we were falling for each other she opened up a lot to me, she said she wanted what we had to be different then with her "clients". Sex now is different, far more passionate and she doesn't hold back. Well recently we were making out and when she went down on me she didn't go grabbing for a condom first which was a big surprise since she had always used one even for that. Then she asked if I would have sex with her without one. Now ok my mind was like "nooooo you can't do this" but of course my little head was wanting to. I told her I didn't think it was a good idea but she told me she really wanted to with me and it was something she had only done with her ex husband and an ex bf and she was on BC. Now I don't know how true all that was but seeing how careful she was up to that point and the feelings I have for her I couldn't resist. She even climbed on top of me and rode me really for the first time just because she knew I wanted that. Since then we are still having sex the same way, just as passionate and bare and we talk for hours about everything! She has told me if I ever leave my wife she would quit escorting and would be faithful to just me. I want to believe her and I want to be with her. She was an escort when I met her and I was a client so who am I to judge her, I don't.

    Is it possible though for a working girl to leave this life and settle down? I want to believe we can have a normal life together but I'm terrified one of us, probably me, is going to get hurt. The reason i saw an escort in the beginning was to avoid an emotional attachment that would come along with an affair but here we are now in that same situatiin i feared. Has anybody else here had this experience before? I've known guys who have met strippers and are now very happily married after the girls left that life behind but not an escort. Now I feel that I'm in love with this girl and want to be with her. Anyone have advise for me?

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    Thanks fbsmgirl and everyone else.

    Yes I was unhappily married when all this started but going through divorce now, but wife doesn't know about her. Also, once this fling started I stopped having sex with the wife. Also, she was the one who first started talking about settling down and quiting I'm not trying to talk her into it but if we were to be together she knows I would want that. It may be a trap or trick maybe she is sincere only time will tell. I'm still being cautious. I have enough disposable income to pay my child support and take care of her so that's not an issue. I wasn't going into this thinking about Pretty Woman, in fact the only reason I sought out an escort was for a no strings attached fling. I've only seen the one girl and now we are going out on normal dates and seeing each other more often. She doesn't ask for money but just ask to see me. I could be in for major heart break but she seems very sincere, maybe she is just really good at the hustle.

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    I'm just busting your chops for your own good. You're still not really thinking. Child support is no joke and you seem to be taking the issue too lightly.

    You have no idea what is in store for you 10, 15, or 20 years down the line. So you have money today, great, but a job loss, a health problem, or some other situation could come up in your future and then now you're strapped for cash but to the Court it won't matter because you will still be required to pay at the level you were locked into.

    If you can't pay not only do you go to jail but the Court can suspend your drivers license, passport and any other type of license that you might have.

    Regardless if you're rich or poor, taking care of your child support obligations through the Court system is not something you want to take lightly! They actually have more reach and power then the IRS.





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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    This is a hustle. This is called the "trap a trick" who is ready to leave his wife and who looks like they will take care of me instead. Or somewhere to stay for 6 months until they move to the new guy. I've seen it many of times. I have an escort friend who has regularly done this with several clients. Make them think not using a rubber makes them special, disrupt their homelife and live with him for 6 months until he figures out she's been running a game on him. But she still escorts while she is with them. Behind their back usually.
    I'm an escort, I create chemistry. Do really think it's about you? I do things I know will make you love me. It's what you want me to do. When we are together I'm in control of you and of everything that happens. That's why men fall in love with me.

    The problem is, you're in a bad place in your life. My smile, my face hides a predator and I went looking for someone like you. You're an easy mark. You're so easy manipulate. You're my puppet, my pet. You turn over your free will to me and I make you mine and you love it. You pledge your love, your life and your money, your will to me and worship me and adore me and that's why you come back for more of me and I created it from nothing. You have no idea who or what you're dealing with.

    You wanted a break from your real life, but you forgot why you went looking for someone in the first place. IT'S A FANTASY and you're confusing it with real life. She's going to ruin your home life and move on when she gets bored. You may not come to your senses until you fuck up your life and the lives of your family. Reclaim your free will and get out while you can, before it's too late. Don't go back to see her. Continue seeing escorts if it helps you cope with your life or get a divorce and find a real girlfriend that really loves you, but don't fall into the fantasy.

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    - All your clients think you have great chemistry together. What they don't know is that you could create chemistry with a blank wall.

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    Yeah, and I don't know about you guys, but it creates problems IRL because everyone you meet thinks you are destined to be together, and it's because they don't know that you create chemistry professionally..
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    I'm just busting your chops for your own good. You're still not really thinking. Child support is no joke and you seem to be taking the issue too lightly.

    You have no idea what is in store for you 10, 15, or 20 years down the line. So you have money today, great, but a job loss, a health problem, or some other situation could come up in your future and then now you're strapped for cash but to the Court it won't matter because you will still be required to pay at the level you were locked into.

    If you can't pay not only do you go to jail but the Court can suspend your drivers license, passport and any other type of license that you might have.

    Regardless if you're rich or poor, taking care of your child support obligations through the Court system is not something you want to take lightly! They actually have more reach and power then the IRS.
    Some of this is not true.

    If you get hurt and can't work. You should have disability insurance so you still have income.

    If you lose your job or have to take a pay cut you go to the court/lawyer as soon as this happens and ask for a reduction in child support payments that match what you can now afford. It's the dumba$$es who dont do this that struggle, keep paying, and end up in jail cause they'd rather be dumb than pay a lawyer to get a modification in child support payments.

    Now some guys will purposely try to skirt the law so they won't have to pay a dime. So for example a dude has an engineering degree and capable of working as an engineer but he doesn't want to pay Becky a dime in child support because he thinks she's crazy and hates her guts so he works at Pizza Hut delivery. Now a judge will make him pay at the engineer level because that's what he's capable of and people can't play mind games and short change their own kids on purpose.

    If you're rich you have a trust fund for your kids and set up a lump sum (instead of monthly payments) into an account and none of this is an issue.
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    as an ex escort, i can tell ya that yes, she can stop because she loves u. i did for my hubby which was my client and we are happily married. we had bad years after i stopped as he lost his job and i quit escorting, its been 2 years of ugly times, but i never came back and never would. we now have a baby and my main income is camming and he is working and making decent money. we are not rich though, we work hard both of us, but we have each other and thats what matters.
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    This reads more like a letter to Penthouse Forums, with a few wooden comments about his feelings mixed in with a lengthy, graphic and somewhat self congratulatory discussion about sex. But I am going to pretend for a moment that I believe this post and respond to the broader concepts...

    Over the 20 or so years I have been enjoying clubs and other adult entertainment, I have seen this type of thing more than a few times. A guy who is unhappy at home compares his wife to an attractive and sweet young girl, one who seems to really want him and is totally focused on pleasing him, and it makes him yearn for what he doesn't have. But what these (generally) emotional weak men just don't process is that it is all a facade and these girls have their own issues, agendas, etc. When reality finally hits, in one way or another, these guys usually end up broke and more devastated than they were before they went down the rabbit hole.

    I won't even get into the part about the fact that he is breaking up a home with at least one child in the process. Sadly, I've seen that a few times too, where dudes lost their damned minds, left their families and went to some very dark places with their new stripper/escort GFs. The allure to live a different lifestyle can be strong for some guys. The few I saw try to run like that ended up imploding. One, a good friend of mine, lost a beautiful family, permanently damaged a promising career, had to declare bankruptcy and now has a criminal record.

    Anyway, just my

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post

    Now some guys will purposely try to skirt the law so they won't have to pay a dime. So for example a dude has an engineering degree and capable of working as an engineer but he doesn't want to pay Becky a dime in child support because he thinks she's crazy and hates her guts so he works at Pizza Hut delivery. Now a judge will make him pay at the engineer level because that's what he's capable of and people can't play mind games and short change their own kids on purpose.


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    Oh shit! Not to thread Jack but I had no idea about this......I've heard of men turning down promotions/asking for demotions for this very reason but I didn't know they caught onto this already. Ha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by absolutelyadorable View Post
    Oh shit! Not to thread Jack but I had no idea about this......I've heard of men turning down promotions/asking for demotions for this very reason but I didn't know they caught onto this already. Ha.
    Oh yeah, my cousin has quit and turned down really good paying jobs, because he is an asshole and wants to torture his exwife who has full custody of their 4 kids. Not understanding child support and alimony are two different things entirely. Either take care of your kids, or give up your parental rights if you are not gonna take care of them /rant





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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    This reads more like a letter to Penthouse Forums, with a few wooden comments about his feelings mixed in with a lengthy, graphic and somewhat self congratulatory discussion about sex. But I am going to pretend for a moment that I believe this post and respond to the broader concepts...
    Likewise. Bamadiver, something you said about her may be the main theme here: "...Now I don't know how true all that was..." There are several major red flags here. 1. Why is she divorced? Plus, what was her life like before she got married, and all the years since then. 2. Why is she now an escort, and how long has she been one? If she is new at it, maybe that explains some of her behavior--maybe she is trying to get out and you two may have an actual relationship developing. However, if she's been doing this for a few years, then you're probably being played. Either way, since you have the means, I'd do a thorough background check before going too far with her. Hire a pro to investigate her, and or at least figure out a way to test her with certain questions about her past. Good luck. I hope there is a happy ending for you. Well, you know what I mean...

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