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    Hello,

    I have never been to a strip club before and I am thinking about stopping after work alone (none of my deadbeat friends want to go haha). What is the proper strip club etiquette? More specifically,

    - Do I tip the bouncer at the door? How much should i tip?
    - How do I get a lap dance? Who do I pay for a lap dance? How much should i tip?
    - During a lap dance, does the dancer actually touch the man's body?

    What are some other important things I should know?

    Thank you very much!

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    Generally there will be a tip bucket at the door where you can tip the door person a few bucks or however much you choose. I would say a $5 tip to the door person is acceptable.

    Also while you're speaking to the door person you can ask him/her to explain what the contact policy is. Ask if touching the dancers is permitted or not at this club.

    If you spot a dancer you would like to have a private dance with, you can just go up to her and introduce yourself and just state that you are interested in going to the private room with her. She will be happy to take you back. Or you can sit and wait for dancers to approach you first. I prefer it when customers just come up and ask for a dance from me though.

    When you go back know how many dances you can afford to do. Ask how much dances are. Typically they are around $20/song. You can ask her to let you know when 1 song, 2 songs etc are up so you don't get too carried away. Some dancers will make you pay up front for the dances, some will have you pay at the end of the dances, it's usually up to the dancer. Most cases you will just pay the dancer directly for the dances. Now If you end up doing a champagne room you typically have to prepay the room host for your time before you go into the room. Generally in the champagne room lapdances are included in the room price so you won't have to worry about keeping track of songs. People will generally tip me $5- $10 per lapdance we did. Depending on the rules for that club the dancer might touch you. I work at a full contact club so there is two way contact. The customer can touch my boobs, butt, sides I do not touch the customers private area and they are not allowed to touch me between the legs.

    Other general things. Make sure you're tipping he dancers on stage. If you are interested in a particular dancer tip her a bigger bill $10, $20 etc and say you would like her to stop by when she gets done with her set. A nice tip will make you a priority customer in her mind. Be respectful, don't try to lick, slap, suck nipples, kiss etc. Don't ask personal questions like real name, age, their reason for being a stripper, if they have a bf, for their number etc.

    Just relax and have fun with the entertainment. Be polite, be generous and everyone will have a great time.

    Also get plenty of cash before you get there so you don't have to pay a high atm fee. The bartender will also be happy to break bigger bills so you can have 1s to tip with.

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    Thank you NakedNicole that was helpful! Anyone else have any tips?

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    Will the girls be completely naked during the lap dance or do they do that partially clothed? The club I might go to is supposed to be fully nude.

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    Depends on the club>

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    Well the club I'm going to is fully nude but I didn't know if that applied to lap dances as well

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    Naked Nicole pretty much covered it. If you have questions about the club you are going to, I'd call the club with your questions ahead of time. Different areas have different laws as far as lap dances go.

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