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    Question Establishing Regulars

    I have been dancing only a week so far and I want to get regulars so I gave my number to two customers and now, they are both asking (through text messages) when will I meet them OTC. One even came back to the club two days in a row to see me.


    Right now I think it's way too early to meet anybody OTC, I just started dancing last week. What should I say to each of these men? One is married and one is separated. I want to keep them coming to club giving me money for dances but I don't want to meet them OTC.

    Some advice would be great.

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    Default Re: Establishing Regulars

    They're looking for either naive pretty women who will spend time with them for free or for strippers moonlighting as escorts.

    Don't do anything unsafe.

    Tell them come back to the club, keep getting vip/spending money, if they want to keep seeing you
    “Cook for him like a housewife, fuck him good like a nympho….pay the rent and the car note, he invests in me like crypto”

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    Default Re: Establishing Regulars

    You probably made a big mistake giving them your #. If anything create a google voice # and use that.

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    Default Re: Establishing Regulars

    Definitely use a google voice number, for safety reasons. You also don't need to respond to all of their texts. I used to text mine only on the days I would be working, and any other time, I'd respond to them once a day or once a week with a brief reply. Guys love having to chase you, don't give your attention away for free!

    If you stick to a schedule, you should naturally establish regulars. Many guys go to strip clubs around the same day/time on a regular basis. You can also let guys know your schedule, so that they know when to come in and see you (have them ask a waitress or bouncer to find you). This way, you don't have to give out a number at all.

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    Don't give out your number! You just started dancing. You don't know who these people are!! Plus, if you give out your number freely, they will automatically assume you want to do otc with them, as you can see.

    Getting regulars takes time.Take your time getting to know people, and like others said, create a Google voice account. Don't give out personal info so freely. In time you'll see who to deal with and who to avoid. There are customers who are weird and they will stalk you. For now, don't give out your number.

    To the ones who already have your number, tell them they can only see you itc.

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