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    Hi,
    I had two bad weeks.
    I am working in a high end club since April and I am working toward my look. In here girls are beautiful and classy. But twice in two days in a row been asked to leave the vip from a costumer friend. I was making good money till a while ago. But this last two weeks are different. I feel humiliated and am wondering is my look? My energy? A bad luck? I said something wrong? I had lots of changes recently in my private life, even tho i usually good in keeping emotional things away from work, this situation doesn't help. I don't want even to speak with co-workers, even the nicest ones, as I prefer to don't bring such a energy when I am at the club.
    Any one have a good advice?

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    Default Re: when you feel 'what's wrong with me'

    Well, can you be a lil' more specific? Do you know why (did you ask) you were asked to leave VIP?
    It sounds like you're trying not to let it show, but maybe whatever's going in in your personal life's bother you?
    Maybe ask (if you trust) one of the girls to give you some feed back?


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    I am no sure why. Yesterday this guy wanted a Latina or middle eastern which we don't have. When I was trying to explain this the friend said 'hope she is no mad' that was very rude.

    I broke definitely up with a guy last June after a year and feel still rejected and confused as happened suddenly. Was a distance relationship and we could see much hope for a daily life.
    I am still struggling with finding peace. As a woman felt let down, as a dancer I am vulnerable when I ask for dances as getting a maybe later or no is no good to hear this days. Probably customers feel my mood.

    Thanks tho, Maybe I 'll try with someone I trust at club.

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    Btw, I speak with the girls in inside that vip and she said my costumer liked her... So she went to find a girl for hers guy and took mine. Ugh.. We could just swop guys!! .. The customer where youngish 23 y.
    Feel better... Sometimes this job is intense.. One day I feel like a goddess.. Another like something wrong... I am really try to keep the balance no matter how the night went.. How do you do it?

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    Don't let it get to you. Sounds like you might be going though some things. And guys prefer different types of women.
    Ask yourself.... are still feeling the same before a couple weeks ago?
    Low on energy?
    Yes this job is very intense. You need to brush it off next day like nothing happen. Get in good vibes and mood before u walk in
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