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    If the club rules say no touching private parts can I still touch boobs and ass during a lap dance? Just no crotch correct?

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    Default Re: Dance question

    no touch means keep your hands by your sides

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    I talked to the owner of the club and I asked him the "touching policy" He said no touching the private parts, but what are the "private parts"? Just the crotch?

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    Usually means anything the bottoms cover ... but it's always up to the dancers and it's best to follow her lead and if you're unsure ask before doing anything.

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    Hands by your sides.

    Just sayin, you'll get "better" dances if you behave like a gentleman. There is nothing more annoying than having a lap dance turn into an irritating wrestling match where I'm smacking your hands away constantly. Just sit and chill and let the dancer do her thing.

    Hate grabby guys. I'll dance a foot away from them if I have to. The GENTLEMEN ALWAYS get treated better by me.

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    You don't know what private parts are....? Oh come on, get those hamster wheels spinning. Think McFly.





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    Just don't touch at all. The dancers will appreciate it and give you better dances.

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    I always felt that it means touching arms and legs is ok. On an extreme note, I don't know of any dancer who would have an issue with a customer holding her hand during a dance. I certainly hope no clubs ban hugging a dancer.

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    Boobs, butt, crotch, mouth, etc. all private parts ... Any place you wouldn't want another man touching your wife. Any place you touch a civilian woman you'd get popped for sexual harassment.
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    Quote Originally Posted by wm1776 View Post
    If the club rules say no touching private parts can I still touch boobs and ass during a lap dance? Just no crotch correct?
    Yes most of the time they are just referring to the kitty when they say private parts, at least at the full nude clubs I go to in Chicago that is what dancers at those clubs have told me, it helps to ask the dancer to be sure because each dancer usually has different rules. A lot dancers I see in the Chicago clubs will say you can touch me anywhere except my kitty. It is important though to really clarify this with dancers though what they mean. Some dancers will also say they don't want be touched on boobs or butt as well. Some dancers will say for dances no touching on the boobs or butt, if you get VIP with them you can touch on boobs and butt only place for them can't touch in VIP is kitty. Some of the dancers who do let customers touch them on boobs and butt only will say they allow this in VIP and not dances, it is kind of an incentive they give to get men to buy VIPs instead of dances. Or some dancers will say their rules on touching depends on every guy and how comfortable they feel with him, they may say some guys they don't let touch them at all while other guys they let them touch almost anywhere because they feel more comfortable with that customer. Some dancers will ask guys to sit on hands and will not let a guy touch them at all during the dance. It also depends too what manager is working at club that night. Dancers will say if you want get VIP with them they recommend I only come to club on days certain managers are working because those particular managers are a lot more relaxed and will allow customers to touch the girls on the boobs and butt vs other managers who work at club won't. So asking each individual dancer besides just trying to follow a general "club rules" guideline is very important.
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