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    Hey. I've been camming since september of 2014. It started on MFC and moved to Chaturbate. The money was never good. The most money I made was 1.000$ in 2 weeks, by spending at least 6 hours everyday on cam. It totally drained me. I hate sitting there without people even talking. I hate being stared at without even getting a simple "hello", even when I almost beg for people to talk, when it is absolutely free.
    I've tried to make new accounts and identities but it never worked out so I still use my main account, which is still on chaturbate.
    I live in Europe, and it is really difficult to find a job here, specially when I'm a full time college student.
    I think I'm not making much money at all compared to what everyone else I see, specially most girls I see here.
    I'm sick of having to deal with freeloaders and people who don't even talk, so I really want to quit from CB, since it is a waste of time, no matter what I do, it is never enough.
    I also struggle with depression and self esteem issues, and it isn't helping.
    I'd love to work on PSO but most websites don't accept payoneer.
    I'm also very anxious of trying SM or another cam sites, since I'm afraid it will be CB all over again.
    I really need to move out since my parents do not treat me well.
    Any advice?

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    Default Re: Giving up for a new start

    Streamate is what pulled me out of a very difficult financial situation. I was just like you, MFC first, then CB when I couldn't make it work anymore. I was also anxious that it would just turn out the same on SM, but that was just my own insecurities holding me back. Now that I'm more stable, I can focus more on token sites again without feeling like I'm going to be on the streets, thanks to multiple sources of income (different camsites, videos, other services).
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    Try private based sites for a while, way less effort than token sites and also way less anxiety. Once you are established there, then maybe if you want to, make your way back to token sites. Try Streamate and Flirt4free as starter sites.

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    Quote Originally Posted by webcambabe View Post
    Hey. I've been camming since september of 2014. It started on MFC and moved to Chaturbate. The money was never good. The most money I made was 1.000$ in 2 weeks, by spending at least 6 hours everyday on cam. It totally drained me. I hate sitting there without people even talking. I hate being stared at without even getting a simple "hello", even when I almost beg for people to talk, when it is absolutely free.
    I've tried to make new accounts and identities but it never worked out so I still use my main account, which is still on chaturbate.
    I live in Europe, and it is really difficult to find a job here, specially when I'm a full time college student.
    I think I'm not making much money at all compared to what everyone else I see, specially most girls I see here.
    I'm sick of having to deal with freeloaders and people who don't even talk, so I really want to quit from CB, since it is a waste of time, no matter what I do, it is never enough.
    I also struggle with depression and self esteem issues, and it isn't helping.
    I'd love to work on PSO but most websites don't accept payoneer.
    I'm also very anxious of trying SM or another cam sites, since I'm afraid it will be CB all over again.
    I really need to move out since my parents do not treat me well.
    Any advice?

    Have you tried Adultwork?

    I make very good money on there through videos, pics, PSO, webcaming and SMS... You choose your rates, pay out is 65% -70% they also accept payoneer! Customers are mainly English and I have never had one single guy say anything extremely bad to me... Had a few rude guys on cam before when I told them what I wouldn't do, but was so minor I cannot ever remember what they said!!

    I have also struggled with anxiety, but camming and PSO on AW actually helped me to get out of that and I feel so much more confident and myself again now, just needed a boost and the guys on there deffo gave it to me... also you have the option not to do free chat if you don't want too! Seems like a win win for you! Hope things work out

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    I hate it when they don't talk and I'm not going to sit there smiling at them while they wank for free...I'm on Adultwork so I do a mix of free preview and paid only. When I do free, I use 2 laptops...one in front of me that I can do stuff on like post in here or play games, and one I cam from at a 45 degree angle...that way I engage with guys who will talk to me or look away from the ones who won't without having to keep a fake smile while they wank. There isn't much traffic on Adultwork, so having just a few guys in your room at once is normal, and they could all be not talking.

    You'll need a passport but being in Europe you probably have one. Some have to join an agency to work on Adultwork...I don't know as much about it as other girls here but I know that some European girls are stuck on low rates their agency sets for them. A lot of us find that we earn the most when guys regard us as still new.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Classy_Katy View Post
    You'll need a passport but being in Europe you probably have one. Some have to join an agency to work on Adultwork...I don't know as much about it as other girls here but I know that some European girls are stuck on low rates their agency sets for them. A lot of us find that we earn the most when guys regard us as still new.
    I can clarify that. As an european, when you register with AW you are automatically enrolled in a sort of agency (sweetckick) but they do not set our rates.
    The models charging really low rates are in physical studios and they do not have control over their profiles, only their managers do.

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    I'm also going to chime in for a combination of Streamate and Adultwork, and if you are going to be in a studio anyway, go with Boleyn Models. I've been with them for over a year. Their fees are miniscule, and the benefits of having all your sites paying out through one service more than make up for the expense, which you can just pass on to the customers as a slightly higher rate. Start with AW, because you don't actually need to hustle the guys there at all. I'm in free chat right now, ass to cam, reading a book - unthinkable on SM.

    I'm sorry your parents are not treating you well, that really sucks.


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    Thank you guys for the replies. I will definitely try SM and AW. From what people are saying I need to be in some kind of studio to work for AW?

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    Eastern European girls are required to be with Sweetkick, but if you aren't one of the areas AW forces into Sweetkick, I don't think you are required to to be in a group.

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    It took me a few mistake cam sites to find a good one.

    I opted for streamate, the one site I thought wouldnt do shit for my funds.
    8 years later ... Im here still

    It took me a lot of focus to figure out what needed to get out of my hole. Streamate and putting in the hours did it for me. I still have to put in hours but it pays off. My part time checks for sm use to be like 400 and that when I worked a day job and cammed at night.. When I went full throttle into camming is when I saw the good money but only on streamate.

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    It took me a few mistake cam sites to find a good one.

    I opted for streamate, the one site I thought wouldnt do shit for my funds.
    8 years later ... Im here still

    It took me a lot of focus to figure out what needed to get out of my hole. Streamate and putting in the hours did it for me. I still have to put in hours but it pays off. My part time checks for sm use to be like 400 and that when I worked a day job and cammed at night.. When I went full throttle into camming is when I saw the good money but only on streamate.

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