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    So I recently came across some information on something called a Fin Dom which is basically a dominatrix that controls someone else's money. Have any of you heard of this? Anyone done it? If so, what is your experience and how did you get into it?

    Here's some articles:

    http://www.dailydot.com/irl/findom-k...ion-blackmail/

    https://www.buzzfeed.com/katienotopo...mmd#.suVgNLnnP
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    I only get horny when I've tucked a few benjamins in my thong; it's a money fetish.."

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    I believe there was mention of, if not a whole thread dedicated to this topic exactly. From what I remember reading, it usually is nth if more than a fantasy. Nine-nine percent of men don't ACTUALLY want to hand over fully financial control to you, lose all of the money and savings, family, and home to someone.


    I personally also be wary of men claiming to have a fin-domme fetish. Call me paranoid, there would definitely be a demographic of predatory men out there claiming to have this desire, with the ulterior motive of attracting a woman and stringing her along as longneck as possible with out delivering. Just my two cents.

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    first of all fin dome is something very serious; if u cant take care of ur own financial life, u sure cant take care of anothers and second, with all the internet crimes being found lately, better not mess with that if u dont wanna get caught for fraud and robbery. it was nice 15 years ago when the laws werent as strict as they are now and when the slaves were real financial slaves. nowadays i didnt find any like that.
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    It isn't all gloom and doom, often they just want to be 'made' to pay more than other men for the session, or strongly encouraged to give gifts.

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    It's too saturated now. You can get into it if you want but you will waste your time with timewasters. If you're an established dom subs should come to you and offer you money before even engaging with you. Doesn't help that many girls are selling nudes and confusing being paid for it is "findom".


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    There are quicker ways to make money. These guys pretty much want you to beg them to pay you. If you think about it, that's what it is. You think you're getting over on them but they're really making you work for the money LOL. And most of the time you'll find that they're time wasters. In that time you could have been on cam or making money doing something else. For a lot of women that venture into this field, it's not worth it.

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    My experience of findom came 7-8 years ago before I became a domme who sees clients face to face. Back then I formed the option that financial domination is more a subs fetish, a financial sub or slave will give without being told or having it demanded of him, They have the desire to give and will do so without working it out of them. They'll find a domme that appeals to them and give - that's it. Of course it can and does (rarely) run deeper than that i.e him giving you an income and expenditure sheet of his monthly cash flow, giving you his cards in person so you are the one who stops his unnecessary spending and then instructs him to pay his bills on time while working the budget for what you can take from him etc. It does have depth to it, but as I say that's rare nowadays.

    Every internet cutie with a twitter feed and instagram account these days has hopped on the bandwagon thinking it's easy money, but all it's done is give the subs a million and one girls to choose from who don't necessarily understand D/s relationships and expect that calling themselves a findomme will mean money for nothing. Unfortunately because of this influx of girls, competition amongst them reared it's ugly head and now what findom has become is booty shaking on cam / titty pics for tributes. Which y'know, is fine and all, but it's not findom as I once knew it.

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    I have ran into guys with this fetish, it's real. My problem is for every guy that so willingly hands over his cash to me there are hundreds who jerk me around. It was a waste of my time when I was playing around with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ana_X View Post
    My experience of findom came 7-8 years ago before I became a domme who sees clients face to face. Back then I formed the option that financial domination is more a subs fetish, a financial sub or slave will give without being told or having it demanded of him, They have the desire to give and will do so without working it out of them. They'll find a domme that appeals to them and give - that's it. Of course it can and does (rarely) run deeper than that i.e him giving you an income and expenditure sheet of his monthly cash flow, giving you his cards in person so you are the one who stops his unnecessary spending and then instructs him to pay his bills on time while working the budget for what you can take from him etc. It does have depth to it, but as I say that's rare nowadays.

    Every internet cutie with a twitter feed and instagram account these days has hopped on the bandwagon thinking it's easy money, but all it's done is give the subs a million and one girls to choose from who don't necessarily understand D/s relationships and expect that calling themselves a findomme will mean money for nothing. Unfortunately because of this influx of girls, competition amongst them reared it's ugly head and now what findom has become is booty shaking on cam / titty pics for tributes. Which y'know, is fine and all, but it's not findom as I once knew it.

    Totally agree with this. Years ago I ventured into the whole domme thing in Europe and can honestly say I only had two guys who were consistent and they were naturally submissive. I didn't have to "force" them to hand over cash, I just told them what I wanted and they did it willingly. Chloe bags, amazon cards, cash, checks, etc ... vera wang (which was popular then), laptop etc. I mean it was great, but the whole market is saturated with "GIVE ME CASH" girls who think a wishlist and a website will have the cash flowing in, when really it does take a lot of talk time, and you will have to weed through a lot of crap ... but I guess that's like anything really.

    So many of the guys now seem to a) want a hooker or b) want to waste your time for kicks.

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