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    I feel like something I'm not very good at is flirting and making a guy feel special. Im more of a goofy type girl and it sometimes work but I feel like I have a lot of potential that Im missing out on. Any tips and tricks for being a better flirt and making the guy feel special. thanks ladies!

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    Default Re: How to make guy feel special

    Be a good listener, make good eye contact, turn your body towards him when chatting, smile, let your body lightly touch his, and when you are dancing for him, eye contact and pretend you are really enjoying it,

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    Default Re: How to make guy feel special

    Pay attention to what his positives, strengths and ambitions are and when you have a good idea of his pride try to compliment those areas.

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    Default Re: How to make guy feel special

    Hand him the remote, and give him lots of Blowjobs, all while diddling his bunghole.
    He'll love you forever.
    And possibly marry you.
    *Just speaking from experience. That's how I got both of my husbands.

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    Hi, I got here as have a similar question, I am working in an up scale club, which is super clean. Touch is very very very hidden...
    But clients are different.. I was used to work with people in finance, who spend very easily and are self made.
    Here is different, they come from wealthy families, they have money, but is difficult to make them spend. In my old club was about beauty, but very much also about fun personality and bit of extras. Here is about chic beauty, fine outfits, injections of Botox etc (which i don't yet, but I am working in my look as well, if needed) and intrigue. I like the fact that is more refined, but sucks a bit as well as I am no there yet..
    A coworker told the approach needs to be aggressive, but I am no sure, as more than once I kill the deal as 'it sounded transactional '. ...so ... How this guys works? Please do help!!
    I am trying so hard to understand how to open them up.. And make they stay many hours in VIP... Although for now can't even make them go in ... Ugh!!

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    Default Re: How to make guy feel special

    I think it's all about being a good listener. Ask him questions about himself, and elaborate on his answers. Talk about what he's wearing, his hair, how happy you are to finally talk to a nice/hot/smart guy, etc. Make him feel like he's the only guy in the room. And give him a light flirty touch while you're making conversation.

    Hold eye contact. Use flirty expressions/body language. About 1-2 songs into this, make the sale.

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    This is kinda my gift. My weakness is I'm too serious and sensitive! I'm a really good listener and I honestly really care about the guys- like I look at them like people instead of horny ATM machines. I watched behind the mask on Netflix. Behind the mask men want what women want-connection. They want to feel wanted more than anything and they sex to meet their emotional needs. At least the classy guys I know seem to be that way. Some guys just want to get their rocks off, but most decent guys just want to know they are ENOUGH- Good enough, tall enough, satisfying enough. Act like you like him and dancing for him.

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    Thanks seashell, will try to put in practice this week. You know I noticed, I just would like to get at the ££ rather than enjoying the process.. Or simply: Earn the money offering an entertainer service. Would be good if I'll try to put myself in this mood, rather than expecting to receiving mainly from them...

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