So here's my situation, I have a very small circle of friends. I love them but we are all at very different places in our lives making it hard to hang out with each other regularly. My lifestyle is very different from most girls my age, I'm a stripper/sugar baby and I don't have kids/a boyfriend, or anything holding me back. So I have lots of freedom and free time. The problem is, my friends dont. Most of my friends are civilian women with full time jobs and other commitments (family, kids, etc). They cant just get up and go to travel with me or go clubbing. I have some casual girl friends who I do that with but we aren't all that close (location wise either). I generally try not to get too close to the girls I work with or other dancers in general because a lot of them are hot messes (unfortunately). I only have 2 other dancer friends and they are kind of on the border of being hot messes.
My question is, what are the best ways/the best places to go about meeting good girl friends? Girls who are fun but not crazy hot messes and don't have things holding them back? I want and need girl friends who's lives are more compatible with mine and are able to do stuff and have fun with me. I already have tons of guy friends who I have fun with, its time for me to have more girl friends! Is there anyone else who can relate to this, not having a lot of girlfriends and the few that you have don't have lifestyles that are compatible with yours?



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