I have encountered lots of strippers in clubs who are very pushy and aggressive in clubs and it honestly is the biggest turn off for me. I don't care how attractive she is, if she comes up to me and tries to order me around or be pushy in anyway I will never ever even remotely consider spending even a dollar on her. I do not like to take orders from anyone who is not my boss and people who do this I tend to quickly judge them as a threat and an enemy.
For example I was at club Atlantis in the Chicago area and this dancer comes up to me and starts pulling my arm and ordering me, "You are going to get a dance from me Now!" I said no. She blows up tugs my arm real harm, "Yes you are c'mon one dance!" I said no talk to me first and I will think about it. The she says, "your getting a dance now!" My body was filled with anger, I got red in the face, bore my teeth, gave her a stare and said coldy, "NO!". She walks away.
Then another dancer comes up to me with a much more gentle submissive type personality. She sits and talks to me for 20 minutes, rubs my back, sits in my lap, plays with my hair, and tells me I am really cute. I tell her "I suppose your expecting some money from me" and she says no I am just bored its dead in here I just wanted to talk to you and have some company. I tell her she is first dancer here who even bothered to sit down and talk to me that night, I smile at her and I really like how submissive she is. I tell her since she has been so nice to me I want 5 dances and afterwards I gave her a $100 tip for sitting and talking to me for 20 minutes. After I pay her she continues to sit with me and keep my company another 20 minutes I will say.
Meanwhile the other very pushy dancer is looking at me from across the room acting a little "jealous" of the other dancer. I will spend money on girls in the club, but I want be in charge(at least give me the illusion that I am). It's just so many dancers have tried the pushy tactic on me in clubs and they continue to lose out on dances and any money from me and instead my money goes to the more submissive easy going dancer.
Does the real pushy and aggressive tactic really work with other guys? Or is it just something that really clashes with my personality?



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Had she been more aggressive, it wouldn't have lasted. She was so sweet and laid back, and seemed content to just sit at the club with me for hours. It would finally be me, on multiple occasions, who would tease her about never even hitting me up about VIP. We would laugh about it, then head into VIP. 



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