Hey all,
What are good conversation topics when a girl makes her way through the floor looking for lap dance customers? I mean, what are appropriate topics to talk about and what are not?
Hey all,
What are good conversation topics when a girl makes her way through the floor looking for lap dance customers? I mean, what are appropriate topics to talk about and what are not?
Don't ask too many personal questions. You'll come off as creepy. You can talk about pretty much anything, but hold off on where she lives, does she have a boyfriend, kids, etc.
You can ask questions about the club, does she like working there, what you do for a living. Or you can talk about movies, dogs, pop culture, normal stuff. If you start talking about sex and anything too personal, it will creep her out.


I am guessing your kind of like me by your question, a little quiet and conversation can be difficult for you sometimes. When I first started going to clubs I had same problems then a stripper told me she thought it would be easier for me if I went after dancers in the club who were talkaholics lol. Best advice ever got in a club. She was a very talkative girl and conversation came so easy with her. I would just say a few words and she could talk for 15 minutes straight without me needing to open my mouth once. I spent most the time listening to everything she had to say oh about her private life, growing up, all her boyfriends she has had, her current relationship, dancers she absolutely hated in the club, lol. You could tell her or ask her anything she didn't care. She would often speak before even thinking before she spoke, she would just blurt it out.
I go after the real talkaholics in the clubs and conversation is now extremely easy.
Stupid moron dj (which there seem to be alot of) plays the music soooo loud you can barely hear the person next to you so nobody really even bothers.
Girls complain cause it obviously hurtz business so the dj lowers it but then after awhile its just back to vol 11 again.
Usually within the first 10 seconds I can tell if the guy is a talker or not. If he seems shy, I try to put him at ease by telling him that I'm shy too, then I go into "funny" mode and try and make him laugh. The funny hustle works great with shy guys because when they laugh it relaxes them. I like shy guys and I try to make sure they're relaxed and having fun.
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