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    Dizzy How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    I mistakenly landed on that pick up artist dudes forum and these guys were all saying that the only way they knew a woman was into them was if she moved mountains to sleep with them.

    Is this True?

    So no amount of spending time, listening, laughing at corny jokes, going on dates, etc means anything more than the eagerness to suck some dick or ride some cock?

    Is sex THE contributing factor in whether or not a woman is into you or are there other things a woman does that helps you judge her interest level?
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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    Are you just asking the men?


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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    It is true for men that don't have your best interest.
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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Are you just asking the men?
    Not necessarily, can be for anyone to respond.

    I was curious if these pickup artist forums are what men really think or just this is a subset of men who think like this.

    It was roosh v forum. I wish I could find that thread but you have to create an account to search by keyword - ugh! if I search manually and find it I will edit.
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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    Totally incorrect. The closest thing most of those guys has been to a woman is last year's Victoria's Secret catalog. A woman who is interested in you but you don't have sex, for whatever reason, is a great thing in life. They make your whole day.

    If you have a lot of women attracted to you you're a real bad-ass. If you start banging every one, you're an idiot and you'll have no money and no friends in 1 year.
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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    LOL! No, this isn't true at all. The only way to know if she into you is if she moves mountains to sleep with you? If that's the only way they know, the guys are either oblivious or ignorant.

    It's typically not difficult to tell if a woman is into you. Spending time with, laughing at your corny jokes that you know aren't all that funny anyway, the way she looks at you, physical contact when she talks to you - like sitting very close to you or touching your arm when she talks to you are all easily identifiable signs.

    If these guys can't pick up on those signs, it's hard for me to see how they're pick up artists.

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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    I noticed from conversations with younger men that they assume women have the same feelings as men in terms of how attraction forms. On the flip side women tend to assign feelings/intentions to sex whereas for men...Usury for sex isn't weird. I'm making general statements but you get the idea.

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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    I remember talking to an ex of mine about this, years ago and she said exactly the same thing. Women have feelings first and then becomes more sexual, whereas guys have sex first and if it's good, they start to develop feelings. I 100% agree that it's true.

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    Arrow Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    http://www.psych2go.net/15-most-popu...tes-and-blogs/Why are you even questioning what a lame PU site says?
    Anyway, check this out:http:/http://reluv.co// Look for "21 Body Language Signs that tell you he's interested" There's other interesting stuff too.

    Eta: here's some other psychological sites toohttp://www.psych2go.net/15-most-popu...tes-and-blogs/

    here's more
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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    For a socially healthy guy if the girl flirts back with him that's usually a good sign. Also eye contact, eye movement, her attention while he talks, the way she looks up at him (sorry short dudes), her laugh, they way she says "thank you' to him, the way she leans in towards him, touching his arm, holding his upper arm while you walk together, catching her sniff your jacket on the sly when you offer it to her when it's cold and you're walking back, etc. The usual dating social conventions in your OP are what I look for, miss.a.p1600.

    I would ignore that PUA bull. I don't see any of that applying to most decent men.

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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    http://www.psych2go.net/15-most-popu...tes-and-blogs/Why are you even questioning what a lame PU site says?
    Anyway, check this out:http:/http://reluv.co// Look for "21 Body Language Signs that tell you he's interested" There's other interesting stuff too.

    Eta: here's some other psychological sites toohttp://www.psych2go.net/15-most-popu...tes-and-blogs/

    here's more
    Hahaha lol! Good point. The thread about escorts being caught up by hotel security made me wonder how do guys spot an escort in a hotel and Google search landed me on that pick up artist website. https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-20599.html So then I guess I started thinking about how I want to avoid pick up artist tactics and I start reading other threads there, and then my mind was like do men really think like this - I suppose I got sucked in a rabbit hole is the only way to explain it.
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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    To add: normal guys like a bit of "chase," too. Kind of like a "come follow me" chase. I think the PUA crowd runs counter to that. Guys like to engage a little pursuit. We're dumb creatures like that. Think wednesday86.


    ETA: I've seen reference to "40 things about guys" or "40 things every woman should know" or something along those lines in link posted out here before. It was a thread linked back to LO so I couldn't read it. Maybe it would be useful to you. Apologies if you've seen it or if it contains nothing useful.

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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    You mean guys like women to chase them?
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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    No. Guys like to chase women. If only just a little bit (within reason). I don't think guys like things handed to them. That's boring. If you are too easily won over, it feels like we can do better or you are desperate. But with the right amount of chase ... *Italian kissing-hand*. Molto bene.

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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    Found the thread you're referring to https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ight=40+things
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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    That isn't easy for me. It takes a lot for me to tell that she may be interested, my being a bit slow to take hints. Also I try not to assume much about people, or even ask much that I think may be private. Still I think some women like my respectful personality, and a few of them have told me so. Those are ones with whom I possibly could develop some attachment.
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    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Default Re: How do you know a woman is interested in you?

    Like anything in life, there's good advice and bad advice. The above is obviously the latter.

    The simple answer is she's invested in me. Time, emotion, support, or any other number of resources which she could easily be diverting somewhere else. But personally, I don't care as much as to whether she is or isn't but to what degree.

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