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    Well, I just got the news today. all of my relatives, in laws, everybody is planning on moving here to my state/town within the next few months. HUbby and I want to be at peace and left alone.. for the most part. We already have problems with people inviting themselves over to our house whenever they feel like it. Well, ironically we had been talking about moving to a new state, where it snows (yay!) for a while. I guess Im asking how hard is it to move to another state being a full time cam girl? He doesnt work, just me. We make a comfortable living from my job. Nothing in savings however, I had to take a 2 months break due to an operation. I need help fast girls! I have got to get out of here before they all move RIGHT next door to me.. liteerally. This would be a nightmare. Has anyone ever pulled it off? What would I need? To get a new house (rent) im wondering how many weeks/months of paystubs (Direct deposit) the landlord would need to see, and moving expenses (plane tickets) Ughhh. Is it possible?? I cant imagine if we have to stay here.

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    $200-300 Rental truck to move your stuff if you have any
    $1000+ First months rent + deposit for 2, depends totally on where you go. Even towns 15 minutes apart can have wildly different price ranges.
    $200+ to get your internet turned on
    $300+ for your utility deposits (gas, garbage, electric)
    $200-300 for househunting, including meals and hotels for the trip.

    Make at least one "scouting trip" to collect rental applications and see which apartments and renters have immediate vacancies. Get a feel for what they need as far as proof of income. Around here they just need to see a check for your first month's rent. Elsewhere they want to see your tax returns from the prior year...it varies wildly.

    Housing also varies wildly. Recommend Iowa, Illinois, Wisconsin area very highly for cost of living, especially in a mid-size town (20,000 or so). Neighbors are snobby and tend to just ignore you, which is perfectly fine with me. In our town we got a house, in a nice neighborhood, with a backyard and all for about $600/month, utilities (including internet) were another $400 max. Being midwest, food is dirt cheap at the supermarkets, and every town has at least 1 walmart and 1 local supermarket chain, and usually an Aldi's for S+G...and a Farm King to cover your hardware, pet, and gun nut needs.

    Also make sure you have good cable internet, and true fiber optic is a plus (avoid the fiber to Wifi scams - "We have fiber optic internet!!!...umm, delivered to your house by wifi...")

    And a hubby that doesn't work? Put him to work affiliate traffic pushing and webmastering...make him earn his keep.

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    It sounds like you are in a bind and this is the worse time to move, during panic mode.
    It also sounds like your in laws and whatnot have already found a place to live and they announced their move or did they announce they are looking?
    With either happening one just calm down. No need to shit storm your life over them. Its a possibility you re making your life harder than needed by panicking but trust me I know the feeling
    Its sounds either way you will be moving so just save. Dont break any leases if you can avoid it. You dont want to pay more than necessary unless do have the money to bail like that but ya dont lol Im not being mean, Im just saying.

    It took me 5 grand to move on moving day ... unexpected expenses and I had to hire more people
    Dont do shit in a panic.\

    and it sounds like you want far away with plane tickets

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    Quote Originally Posted by Erika_Xstacy View Post
    Dont do shit in a panic.
    SO TRUE BUT ESP RIGHT NOW. Mercury is in Retrograde! Gather your plans piece by piece, but be very aware of pulling triggers because things are wonky in the universe.

    I've moved multiple times very suddenly and it DRAINED my bank account and got me in debt every time. I'm not saying don't move, but be calculated in the process. Like Katy said it's $100 here $300 there..and it ADDS UP SOOOO QUICK.

    Hubs doesn't work? Great. He can be doing the research while u stack money online. Start observing the area, rentals, getting in contact with property management companies/landlords and getting a clear idea of what is needed for this move.

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    Paystubs, letter of employment and a decent credit score will get you into a complex, no one wants an empty unit. Just have someone who can give you an employment reference, even if you have to say you're a personal assistant etc.

    I've moved from some of the worst places to the best places and never had to provide bank statements. Worst case have an extra months deposit/rent ready to hand over to make them comfortable.

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    Thank you all. I should of stated my current lease is up, right now I am actually paying an extra 100$ per month without the lease. But I do have to let the landlord know 30 days in advance before we move out. Yes, I definitely need to CALM down! Ugh. They all havent even looked for houses yet.. just stated that soon they will be looking for a place that happenes to be right by us.. within a few months. This will be a nightmare. I will have to pull off the impossible, some way some how! Or, stay here and live a miserable life. Ugh. Well, thanks girls I now know what I will be doing.. working my ass off and like erika stated save save save! The only thing that worries me is sweetie saying about her experience with landlords- the two years of tax returns and years of deposits. That definitely wont work.. I dont have years of proof and i am still new to the tax thing. Maybe I can bribe them by paying 3 months up front? Or like she stated, find a private landlord. I have one now and he has been great. Thank girls, *calms down* ...

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    I am into astrology and stuff like that.. can you elaborate a little more on being aware of pulling triggers? Basically dont freak out? Lol. Sounds good, I will definitely have him start making calls, etc. Its just extra challenging because its another state, obviously we would have to fly there first to check out the area, stuff like that. I just dont want it to be a waste of time if I dont have the best credit score in the world, or years worth of deposits/tax stuff. Hopefully the money will make up for it though to some landlord out there

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    You'll get a better deal, and generally more lax requirements, from private landlords than you will from corporate-owned complexes. Both have their plusses and minuses though.

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    Thank you persian! There is hope! Can you recommend anyone I would get a "letter of employment" from? Not my studio owner, right?? Lol. Thank you.

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    I live in NYC ... the toughest city on earth to rent in as far as requirements - no one ever asked me for tax returns or bank statements ... don't panic over something that may never happen. I'm moving up to Mass and the boston building simply asked for 2 pay stubs, and a letter of employment, plus first month and 1 month deposit.

    If a building is badgering you for tax returns and bank statements from the beginning of time, you probably want to just pass on it.

    Worst case give an extra month as part of your deposit - just show up looking professional and pulled together and like someone they would want to rent to.

    It'll all be ok. And be sure to check out the buildings you like/neighborhoods you like during the day and evening, preferably weekend if you can - so you can see that it's what you're looking for.

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    How about setting boundaries so people don't just invite themselves over? It's helluva cheaper too. Raise the bar for the kind of behavior you're willing to accept from other people that includes your own family, in laws/out laws and everyone!
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    Well, I just got the news today. all of my relatives, in laws, everybody is planning on moving here to my state/town within the next few months. HUbby and I want to be at peace and left alone.. for the most part. We already have problems with people inviting themselves over to our house whenever they feel like it. Well, ironically we had been talking about moving to a new state, where it snows (yay!) for a while. I guess Im asking how hard is it to move to another state being a full time cam girl? He doesnt work, just me. We make a comfortable living from my job. Nothing in savings however, I had to take a 2 months break due to an operation. I need help fast girls! I have got to get out of here before they all move RIGHT next door to me.. liteerally. This would be a nightmare. Has anyone ever pulled it off? What would I need? To get a new house (rent) im wondering how many weeks/months of paystubs (Direct deposit) the landlord would need to see, and moving expenses (plane tickets) Ughhh. Is it possible?? I cant imagine if we have to stay here.
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    Sure you can PM me if you need paystubs and employment letters.

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    Quote Originally Posted by macgirlox View Post
    Thank you all. I should of stated my current lease is up, right now I am actually paying an extra 100$ per month without the lease. But I do have to let the landlord know 30 days in advance before we move out. Yes, I definitely need to CALM down! Ugh. They all havent even looked for houses yet.. just stated that soon they will be looking for a place that happenes to be right by us.. within a few months. This will be a nightmare. I will have to pull off the impossible, some way some how! Or, stay here and live a miserable life. Ugh. Well, thanks girls I now know what I will be doing.. working my ass off and like erika stated save save save! The only thing that worries me is sweetie saying about her experience with landlords- the two years of tax returns and years of deposits. That definitely wont work.. I dont have years of proof and i am still new to the tax thing. Maybe I can bribe them by paying 3 months up front? Or like she stated, find a private landlord. I have one now and he has been great. Thank girls, *calms down* ...
    its easier to deal with private landlords.
    Personally, I have never paid 3 months up front . Some people turned me away but honestly I couldn't rent from them. All my landlords know what I do, Its so much easier.
    There are good private land lords on craigslist that have little no name company logos just so they are professional. If you google their listings and it has 1-3 houses, usually its their investment property. You can find a lot of younger landlords this way as well. I enjoy landlords between the ages of 50 and 30, they have a life but are very responsive.

    Each landlord is different but you will know which ones are more lenient through their attitude

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    Sadly, we have tried that. Its more his family who doesnt respect our boundaries/wishes. We have told them over and over but they still do it anyways and use some excuse as to why they are still coming. (Hair appointment, gotta stop by the storage unit, gotta do this that) and they come anyways, and decide how long they are staying. Its mentally exhausting/draining.

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    Thank you! I will look for them and try this Yes i prefer those ages also! Its probably a coincidence.. i guess but all female landlords I have had in the past have been complete snobby bitches! I love most of my male landlords.. for some reason they are just less catty obviously and a little more understanding. Atleast thats just what I experienced.

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    We just moved across country and it was hard af. We did the budget move. Sold all our shit and just drove the two cars cross country. 3 days and 2 hotels. We did it in 5 hour increments b/c of the pets( and thank God b/c after 5 hours on the interstate with the crazy drivers I was DONE). We stayed with friends of my husband for 6 months and got lucky when we rented this place which we are now trying to buy.
    Fortunately we have good internet here.
    Everyone gave good advice. Just remember- when the power goes out- that snow isn't all it's cracked up to be. Busting your ass on snow that melts and refreezes as ice sucks balls too.
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    I've moved several times while camming part-full time and I've moved 4 times in the past few years. I paid way more than $500 for a moving company (the next state over cost me $900 for DISTANCE!) and the other times I've had the military move me.

    My advice is to hustle your cake wayyyy ahead of time and to OVERestimate your costs so you don't look silly. First and last month's rent PLUS a deposit just in case, moving costs, utilities, net, groceries for that month, etc. Because you can always pick up where you left off with camming, you want to be sure you're costs are covered because you really don't know how soon your net will be installed, what companies are best, high speeds, etc. A lot of areas are zoned only for certain ISP so don't get ahead of yourself because you could go from 100up to 20up depending on the state, and or zone. I went from being spoiled with comcast to having to deal with AT&T or a local ISP.

    Also, you don't know how clients are going to take your absence so always make sure you have money stashed in case you need things, emergencies, and maybe even a few months worth of rent (emergency fund) just in case you have a shitty month and rent is TIGHT. It can be done, just avoid stress by hustling hardcore BEFORE you up and move.




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    Thank you kortney! I am motivated now to hustle haaaard and stack my money like you said. Yes, it would be a complete shit fest trying to move with no money or barely to get by! I will definitely save up.. and over-estimate like you said. I have about 3-4 months girls. This is my dream/goal. It seems huge, but like you said it CAN be done. I just have to do it right, stay consistent and have the funds obviously. I am realllyyyyy hoping that if we do get to that point whoever our future landlord is doesnt ask for years plus of stubs because that definitely wont work. I havent been camming for over 2 years and up until recently its been pretty inconcistent. I know consistency is a very large key to being successful so hopefully with a bit of luck we can land on someone who doesnt need years of pay stubs/ tax returns to get the house! And work everyday ofcourse. Maybe I can bribe them with a few months up-front Lol. That would be nice. Hopefully all goes well.. I cant imagine having to stay here and put up with batshit crazy family drama! Thats the last thing I need in my life right now.. another distraction keeping us from our goal. Thank you ladies, for the advice. Fingers crossed

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    I love your signature/picture by the way kortney. Hahaha that is epic!

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    Quote Originally Posted by macgirlox View Post
    Sadly, we have tried that. Its more his family who doesnt respect our boundaries/wishes. We have told them over and over but they still do it anyways and use some excuse as to why they are still coming. (Hair appointment, gotta stop by the storage unit, gotta do this that) and they come anyways, and decide how long they are staying. Its mentally exhausting/draining.
    Its simple DONT OPEN THE DOOR tell them ur working at home and they need to respect ur time and boundires and fuck off if they dont plan for visits.
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    Thank you, I will use this

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    You know your in laws better than I do but I am always appalled when people just come over uninvited, unannounced. How do people enjoy themselves when they are not respecting you?!
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    Sadly, we have tried that. Its more his family who doesnt respect our boundaries/wishes. We have told them over and over but they still do it anyways and use some excuse as to why they are still coming. (Hair appointment, gotta stop by the storage unit, gotta do this that) and they come anyways, and decide how long they are staying. Its mentally exhausting/draining.
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    EXACTLY! I ALWAYS thought that also. Like, doesnt it make you feel icky and just downright "dirty" to invite yourself over to someones house and even when they tell you its not a good time come anyway??? And choose the days you will stay? Ugh. I could puke.

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    Disable the doorbell. Put a sign on the door that says "do not disturb". I bought one on amazon for my door. Don't answer the door. When/if they finally move near you, tell them not to come over under any circumstances without calling first and being invited over. It isn't right for family or friends to ignore your requests. It isn't right for them to run you off from your home. And it sure isn't right for them to overstay their welcome when you do invite them over. You can always just move a town away or even to another house in your area and not give them the address. Moving a state away would be cool. I just did that. It cost me about $3000 to move 6 hours away.


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    I agree with the ladies above. I always hear these stories about in-laws just dropping by unannounced (reminds me of Marie and Frank on 'Everybody Loves Raymond', and it drove Deborah crazy that Ray would never speak up about it), and I've always told myself that I will not be giving my parents (or in-laws, if I ever get married) any spare keys to MY home, and that I will make it clear that you need to call/text me first to ASK if you can come over (not TELL me you're coming over...ASK me).

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