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    Duh Getting back into the business- The Right Way

    Okay, so I've been outta the business for 5 years. However, due to circumstances- it looks like
    "Here I go again!"
    But this time- I am well aware of past mistakes and am trying to learn the best way to be a low volume/ high quality provider.
    I already have an unusual "gimmick" I'm gonna use to lure them in.
    I'm hoping for mostly wealthy/generous regulars. And I'm trying to stay out of cities with high LE stings etc.
    So my 1st question is- What cities and states are the best to travel/frequent to?
    Also, 2ndly-I stayed in one spot last time and I know that was a huge mistake when LE started sniffing. They never could catch me. But after a few attempts- I got a vanilla (too low paying) job instead. So any advice on how to advertise for/ bring in the "bigger fishes" and where- Would be much appreciated.

    Thirdly- Because of my experiences and preferences-
    Im very aware of myself and that I'm ten times more interested in being a Dominatrix than I am in ever being a full-time escort again!!
    (I would much rather [email protected]©# them than allow them to f#©� me. Hahahahaha!!)
    (Except possibly the highest paying clients.)

    So, Fourthly- I'm also wondering if there are any traveling dominatrixes?
    Or is that too risky/dangerous to do in a hotel?
    And fifthly-Do I have to have a dungeon for this?
    Thanks for input on my 5 questions- Ladies. ����
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    I wanted to caution you while you're ahead and answer you're query.

    Quote Originally Posted by LadyInWaiting View Post
    Okay, so I've been outta the business for 5 years. However, due to circumstances- it looks like
    "Here I go again!"
    But this time- I am well aware of past mistakes and am trying to learn the best way to be a low volume/ high quality provider. I already have an unusual "gimmick" I'm gonna use to lure them in.
    I'm sorry but it you're going into this thinking you're going to use a "gimmick" to get clients, you've already downgraded yourself to a low end provider. Guys that seek out high end providers aren't dumb. They can smell bs from a mile away. And you used the word "lure". Are you looking for clients or looking for men to prey on? Check your energy at the door. You won't have a fruitful / healthy stay in the industry if that's the frequency you're operating on.

    I'm hoping for mostly wealthy/generous regulars. And I'm trying to stay out of cities with high LE stings etc.
    Some of the most stingy/cheapest men are wealthy guys. And some of the most generous men are men that are only making 150k a year.
    To attract mostly wealthy/generous men, you have to be a good match for them. Can you hold a conversation, do you have a unique look, are you personable..etc. If you go into this with hustle mentality, you'll attract the wrong kinda attention -- and yeah that's how people get arrested.

    So my 1st question is- What cities and states are the best to travel/frequent to?
    Do your research. Post feeler ads. See how the city takes to you. If you go by what another provider is doing, you may be led off a cliff. The New england area is generally a gold mine but I'm not sure how it is this days. It's been awhile since I toured.

    Also, 2ndly-I stayed in one spot last time and I know that was a huge mistake when LE started sniffing. They never could catch me. But after a few attempts- I got a vanilla (too low paying) job instead. So any advice on how to advertise for/ bring in the "bigger fishes" and where- Would be much appreciated.
    Work on your marketing and presentation. Look at the high end girls and see what they're doing - what are they wearing, how are they presenting themselves. Use them for inspiration, don't copy. Yes, staying in an area too long is a bad idea. When I traveled, I changed hotels every day or two. Is that what you were referring to?

    Thirdly- Because of my experiences and preferences-
    Im very aware of myself and that I'm ten times more interested in being a Dominatrix than I am in ever being a full-time escort again!!
    (I would much rather [email protected]©# them than allow them to f#©� me. Hahahahaha!!)
    (Except possibly the highest paying clients.)
    Then do that. If I could give any of the new girls ANY advice it would be do to what YOU are comfortable with.
    It is not worth it at all to compromise your boundaries. For example, when I see clients today I always use condoms for bjs but I didn't always.
    I allowed the review boards to dictate what I allowed and that is a very dangerous road to go down. If you want to be a domme and only want to have sex with higher paying clients then do just that. Always listen to that still small voice.

    So, Fourthly- I'm also wondering if there are any traveling dominatrixes?
    Or is that too risky/dangerous to do in a hotel?
    And fifthly-Do I have to have a dungeon for this?
    Yes. Ts Rachel.
    No.
    No.


    Good luck. Back to lurking for me.

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    Angry Not finding many sites to post on now.....

    Are there any sites left to post on for free that are still up and similar to backpage- besides skipthegames? It won't let any new girls post and I'm having a real hard time getting the funds together to get pics, a website and funds together in order to post on the higher end sites. So, what lower end sites can I still post and get traffic on? Lol ( Seriously though)

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    Default I can't find any sites similar to backpage- that are open and/or useful

    I'm getting very little traffic on mega personals and a few others.
    Skipthegames won't let any new girls even post. Why?
    Is LE snooping too much on there?
    WTF is going on?
    I need a free site to post on.
    Where do I go???
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    Default Re: I can't find any sites similar to backpage- that are open and/or useful

    If you're in California, Vegas, and I believe Arizona try Humaniplex. But you're dealing with a bunch of cheap men and it costs a 1 time fee of 50 bucks to sign up. When girls run out of HX points (for mail access) they typically go on the board and ask for help to give them free points. So essentially you're saving money compared to monthly ad's....but in the long term financially it is BLAH compared to taking the time elsewhere and paying for a monthly ad.

    Is this an escort-related ad question??

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    Default Re: I can't find any sites similar to backpage- that are open and/or useful

    Quote Originally Posted by indiegirl View Post
    If you're in California, Vegas, and I believe Arizona try Humaniplex. But you're dealing with a bunch of cheap men and it costs a 1 time fee of 50 bucks to sign up. When girls run out of HX points (for mail access) they typically go on the board and ask for help to give them free points. So essentially you're saving money compared to monthly ad's....but in the long term financially it is BLAH compared to taking the time elsewhere and paying for a monthly ad.

    Is this an escort-related ad question??
    Yes, but I'm in North Carolina. I put an ad out on list crawler and had 3 guys call. My phone used to ring repeatedly and off the hook for at least a couple hours on Backpage. This is RIDICULOUS!! I need to find out where to post. How do I advertise with a Twitter account? I thought is was mostly just short phrases etc.?
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    Default Re: I can't find any sites similar to backpage- that are open and/or useful

    Quote Originally Posted by LadyInWaiting View Post
    Yes, but I'm in North Carolina. I put an ad out on list crawler and had 3 guys call. My phone used to ring repeatedly and off the hook for at least a couple hours on Backpage. This is RIDICULOUS!! I need to find out where to post. How do I advertise with a Twitter account? I thought is was mostly just short phrases etc.?
    I think you're going to have to pay monthly in North Carolina using EROS or go through an assistant or booker/referral service for connections because it's not the greatest place for advertisements. I've only been flown out there once for 2500 and man it's different there. I was kinda ready to go home LOL. EROS is the best option IMO.

    Also if you're super running low on money for ad prices I've seen ladies post on Craigslist in one area in the past, use tinder on the side, etc.
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    Default Re: I can't find any sites similar to backpage- that are open and/or useful

    Quote Originally Posted by indiegirl View Post
    I think you're going to have to pay monthly in North Carolina using EROS or go through an assistant or booker/referral service for connections because it's not the greatest place for advertisements. I've only been flown out there once for 2500 and man it's different there. I was kinda ready to go home LOL. EROS is the best option IMO.

    Also if you're super running low on money for ad prices I've seen ladies post on Craigslist in one area in the past, use tinder on the side, etc.
    So in what part of the country/ states is escorting easier in then?
    And what are the free and/or cheaper sites I can post on?
    I'm open to traveling. THANKS
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    Default Accepting credit cards for your escorting business

    How do you set up your business so you can accept credit cards for your escorting business? It wouldnt be often and only
    for trusted clients. Thank you in advance
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    Default Re: Accepting credit cards for your escorting business

    Register your business as an LLC and make a DBA with your work name (or a different fake name). Open business account under DBA name

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    Thank you and what Service would you use for
    that service? Square?

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    Default Re: Accepting credit cards for your escorting business

    Quote Originally Posted by KALIN View Post
    Register your business as an LLC and make a DBA with your work name (or a different fake name). Open business account under DBA name
    Terrible advice. Why would you want your hooker name to appear on a background check? BAD BAD advice.
    Better to say somethingsomething consulting or somethingsomething care. I know a lot of providers that setup their business to look like they offer home health care services.

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    Quote Originally Posted by techqueen View Post
    Terrible advice. Why would you want your hooker name to appear on a background check? BAD BAD advice.
    Better to say somethingsomething consulting or somethingsomething care. I know a lot of providers that setup their business to look like they offer home health care services.
    You misunderstood her. She literally just said make a DBA, open a business account under said DBA and or make it with your work name or different fake name not use your work name as a DBA. Same advice everyone is giving including yourself.




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    Default Re: I can't find any sites similar to backpage- that are open and/or useful

    Quote Originally Posted by LadyInWaiting View Post
    So in what part of the country/ states is escorting easier in then?
    And what are the free and/or cheaper sites I can post on?
    I'm open to traveling. THANKS
    Sorry just saw this. Major cities. Washington DC, New York is a big one (well for me either Midtown West/East), LA for very short visits if you are new but you need to command the rate high and advertise heavily with the ad sites that are dominant in the area (You also have to pick a very particular part for LA due to traffic. I used to get so much shit for renting in Downtown LA or denied because of location). It's better to advertise very early in advance beforehand, post video, and pre-schedule. You can't just show up nowadays expecting money. You have to schedule your tour like a month in advance and keep posting to accumulate more customers over the month that you will see.

    Also Vegas is a no go. It's oversaturated and it bugs me when anyone suggests it. I used to pay EROS 500 a month for my main ad and got like one guy LOL it was a total joke.

    I think it's more lucrative to not post on the cheap sites because some of these same men frequent the high quality sites. I've met men who were repeatedly paying me 1600 in the past and when I went cheap on a different site, they never wanted to pay the same.

    Sometimes it is better to splurge on an ad and make more money.
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    Search Wanting to get into escorting, Needing advice/tips!

    Good evening anybody reading this post, I have dabbled with escorting only once when I was in college, and oh how I miss it and sadly I only had one client in my whole lifetime. A couple years later, I'm sitting here with available time to use, and i have done alot of research where I live. (Idaho area.)
    I even applied to sites like tryst.link and even skipthegames, haven't heard anything from either sites, and even applied to PD. I probably caught them off guard since it is the thanksgiving week. I also have tried my hand at other sites but some of these like backpage, and others like sure seem like fake as all hell. I don't think there is even any agencies where I live.

    So please! any tips and advice is welcomed. Also i'm new to the site as well, so if i messed up on anything. sorry!

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    Default Re: Getting back into the business- The Right Way

    IMO Twitter is the easiest way to post ads and share info. Other than that find out what regional boards exist for your market.

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    Sadly to say I had a bad time when I used twitter for escorting. Somehow, or someway someone blackmailed me and sent my escorting stuff to my parents when i was in college. And the weirdest part who sent that stuff to was my bio-dad...

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    Default Escort or body rub website

    Hi everyone! I’ve been an indy, strictly body rub girl for the past four years in Florida and New York. I’ve advertised mostly on bedpage, private delights and tryst but I’m ready to expand with my own website and escorting services. I’ve screened with whitepages, mr. number and LinkedIn mostly but I’m sure there are far more efficient ways to go about it. Can anyone point me in the direction to someone that has experience with creating escort or body rub websites? What screening methods work the best for you? I don’t currently have a Twitter, does twitter work well for my body rub and escort ladies? Any help would be appreciated!! I’m looking to have a website up and running asap .. PM’s also welcome
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nywilde View Post
    Hi everyone! I’ve been an indy, strictly body rub girl for the past four years in Florida and New York. I’ve advertised mostly on bedpage, private delights and tryst but I’m ready to expand with my own website and escorting services. I’ve screened with whitepages, mr. number and LinkedIn mostly but I’m sure there are far more efficient ways to go about it. Can anyone point me in the direction to someone that has experience with creating escort or body rub websites? What screening methods work the best for you? I don’t currently have a Twitter, does twitter work well for my body rub and escort ladies? Any help would be appreciated!! I’m looking to have a website up and running asap .. PM’s also welcome
    It's truly a miracle you got on Tryst. They couldn't answer a request to sign up with all their requirements if their life depended on it. I tried twice with verification. Someone else on here had the same issue.

    One who does a good job at advertising ladies with the whole set up and possibly referrals to connections with those who do pro escort websites is LE VIP in los angeles. I kinda laugh at the fact one lady is charging like 400 on one cheap site and 800 on LE VIP. ...These men have no idea.
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    I agree, tryst was the most annoying site to get approved on for me - my pictures were “pending” for a month straight with no answers but eventually it went through this past January .. wish I could get on p411, I even bought a freakin newspaper for their verification only to find out on the next page I needed a bunch of references lol. They make it so damn difficult

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nywilde View Post
    I agree, tryst was the most annoying site to get approved on for me - my pictures were “pending” for a month straight with no answers but eventually it went through this past January .. wish I could get on p411, I even bought a freakin newspaper for their verification only to find out on the next page I needed a bunch of references lol. They make it so damn difficult
    I literally just laughed out loud at the newspaper part. I used to have a lot of okays on p411, closed out my account, regretted it... but I'm not buying a newspaper to prove shit unless things go south financially. That's like having to buy a pager to contact them to verify yourself LOL. Nobody has these things anymore! I was talking about the very same thing with someone on here about the review reference. I'm not sure how it is now for P411, but I'm curious if they require the reviews to be from TER only or other review sites are eligible to be accepted. They are so strict!

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    Quote Originally Posted by indiegirl View Post
    It's truly a miracle you got on Tryst. They couldn't answer a request to sign up with all their requirements if their life depended on it. I tried twice with verification. Someone else on here had the same issue.

    One who does a good job at advertising ladies with the whole set up and possibly referrals to connections with those who do pro escort websites is LE VIP in los angeles. I kinda laugh at the fact one lady is charging like 400 on one cheap site and 800 on LE VIP. ...These men have no idea.
    Awesome, thank you for that! I’ll look into it Nice! what these men don’t know won’t hurt them haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by indiegirl View Post
    I literally just laughed out loud at the newspaper part. I used to have a lot of okays on p411, closed out my account, regretted it... but I'm not buying a newspaper to prove shit unless things go south financially. That's like having to buy a pager to contact them to verify yourself LOL. Nobody has these things anymore! I was talking about the very same thing with someone on here about the review reference. I'm not sure how it is now for P411, but I'm curious if they require the reviews to be from TER only or other review sites are eligible to be accepted. They are so strict!
    Exactly! I heard good things about p411 which made me want to try but not sure who’s bright idea that was to have us searching for a newspaper, I legit had to ask my grandpa where he buys his LOL .. I’m also curious if they want crazy specific reviews .. either way, there’s other sites out there that don’t require jumping through hoops for posting a simple ad

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nywilde View Post
    Exactly! I heard good things about p411 which made me want to try but not sure who’s bright idea that was to have us searching for a newspaper, I legit had to ask my grandpa where he buys his LOL .. I’m also curious if they want crazy specific reviews .. either way, there’s other sites out there that don’t require jumping through hoops for posting a simple ad
    It is 100 percent worth it depending on where you live or tour. They also have an ad section when you travel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by indiegirl View Post
    It is 100 percent worth it depending on where you live or tour. They also have an ad section when you travel.
    Gotcha, that would be super helpful.. I go back and forth between Long Island, ny and central Florida which are usually busy for me but the more sites the better I just contacted LE vip thanks again! Their website looks promising

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