I've had 3 separate guys within the last week tell me they've met girls from the app in person, and I'm calling bull on all of them. I can't imagine a female jeopardizing a stream of income to meet up with one of these freaks.




I've had 3 separate guys within the last week tell me they've met girls from the app in person, and I'm calling bull on all of them. I can't imagine a female jeopardizing a stream of income to meet up with one of these freaks.
Dudes are definitely noticing. I took a day off yesterday, and was on page 100. Got starred by a bunch of dudes who's bios where all saying message me, or send gifts. LOL. If they're going back a hundred pages you know they're trying.
Edit/they do not have the same interface
Last edited by Lunanegra; 09-24-2018 at 12:31 AM.




I've noticed a massive increase in resentment from customers as well. It used to be rare that I'd get a "oh, you're only talking to me for the money" type, but it's actually common now. I had one guy accuse me of "milking him" and another who said, "oh, so it's all about the money for you, huh?" when I refused to "trade" nude pics. Phrendly is selling out with the bidding while simultaneously pushing stricter rules and trying to make the user base look more wholesome and clearly this new business model is not working.

My friend who's a guy is on phrendly and he sees nothing about promoting his profile. It's not under his profile, not on the settings, nowhere. The only place he does see information about it is in the help section. So they do have a different interface than us.
You're right. I checked. I was going off of previous comment I read.
All the rules are likely because Phrendly is attempting to placate whichever company processes credit card payments for them. They've done similar things on Niteflirt, cracking down on the words that can be used on profiles and on public nudity because the "dirtier" a site is, the more difficult and expensive it is to get a credit card payment processor. My guess is that, with Phrendly, they are attempting to tap into the sex market without paying for a "high risk" credit card processing account.
Spemily is probably right... But they're costing themselves and us money because this business model isn't working. Funny my profile was deactivated because of my bio & all I had were kiss emojis? Guess thats not acceptable either?
. . . !
~ a very badly behaved woman

I'm talking to someone who has the words "dominant" and "kinky" in his profile, but mine had "switch", "kinky", and "fetish", and was taken down. So I guess those rules only apply to us.



Last year, we had to clean up our acts so that we could be promoted on FB/IG/etc. I think this is like that, and I bet they don't even take guy accounts into consideration for marketing. I'm sorry, I know it's difficult but I do well with The World's Most Boring Tagline, if that's of any comfort. Probably not. :/
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I can't tell if these motherfuckers are getting cheaper or if my fuse is getting shorter. The quality of guys on here used to be pretty good, and now it's trash.
This app is pure garbage.




I wholeheartedly believe that one of the reasons this app is going to shit is because of CHEAP BITCHES. A year ago I used to think girls who sent pussy pics for a rose were bad, but clearly I was mistaken. I had a guy send me screenshots to prove that there are girls who are more than happy giving away free tit and pussy pics for $0.35 and that's sad. I'm a damn good hustler but it's hard to compete with free. It's like Burt Macklin FBI said, some men will choose to pay for the luxury experience of a Mercedes but if you're only looking for something to get you from Point A to Point B, free is free and it gets the job done.
Hey ladies!! I've been on phrendly for a long time but I just found this forum recently. You guys rock . I noticed while reading the comments that a lot of people are sick and tired of the inconsistency. Some days it's like dudes are throwing money at you while other days they won't give you a single fucking rose. I have this happening too but I've found a few things that helped dramatically raise my weekly earnings:
1. I stopped fucking around with broke dudes!!!!! Look I'm not rich myself and I understand people don't want to spend a week's pay to see my tits but I'm OVER the guys who expect something for nothing. I used to try to covert these guys into paying customers but all they do is give you their phone number/insta/fb again and again. If a dude refuses to pay you what youre worth, block and move on! That's my opinion at least.
2. I require a "down payment" before I cam nude with dudes now. It took me an embarassingly long time to realize i needed to do this. I had like 5 guys in a row get on cam for 3-4 minutes then quickly hang up. Dudes realize that it's cheaper to see me naked this way than to buy a picture. It's annoying AF because I've gotten dressed/hair/make up/sex toys out/etc for no reason sooooo many times. So now I explain that it costs chocolates for me to turn my camera button availability on. Then it's really easy to weed out the guys who only had $10 to spend anyway and focus on the dudes with cash!
3. I Keep my availability on and say I'm "online" all the time. I think guys scroll through their old chats looking for a green circle to show up because I get way more messages when it's turned on
4. I promote promote promote on weekends!!! You want to be in the top 25 spots to get the newbies signing up over the weekend. I don't think I'd have made good money doing this if I didn't do the promotion ***I'm also doing this around the first and the fifteenth of every month since that's payday for many workers and there's an increase in traffic during those times
5. I keep my prices high because I believe I'm worth top dollar (and you girls are worth it too!!). I used to negotiate with potential customers about price but fuuuuuck that. You guys are right that cheap bitches are kinda ruining things when they send original nudes for free. But honestly.... I think they guys kinda want a girl who's more "expensive." idk... Personally I'm not lowering my prices just because some girls are giving away free titties. I don't give away G rated pictures that much either. Dudes need to understand that the only way they're going to get my attention and KEEP it is to keep the cash flowing lol. I've found implying this doesn't work because so many dudes are dense AF so I just spell it out for them half the time
Anyway this is just what works for me *personally* ymmv but I hope it's helpful information in at least some way! Good luck everyone


[email protected] TBH they *USUALLY* are quick to respond.
I raised HOLY HELL bc about a year ago this dude BIPOLAR MANIC AF talked I shit you not for 4.5 hours straight. ONLY bc I was like dude, I gotta IDK, breathe and you are exhausting me..did the call end. Phrendly did NOT credit me. and I max the fuck outta my rates on this shit. Jamma was all up in this forum then, trying to make sure we were happy and I got my money pretty straight away. I mean I heard all about how he lived in Heber Springs Ar, HS is like Hispanic. Hispanics be taking his job. His doctor wants him to take meds. HS Also, sounds like Hillary. BTW did you know she has a pizza parlor. Like straight up tin foil hat shit. 4.5 hours and I DID NOT get my money. OMFG. I wanted to cry.
I hope you get your money pretty quick girly. I took screenshots like a mother after that shit. And I always check to make sure I get credited bc I sometimes I don't. They are usually quick to respond with in a day or two.
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I max out my rates. I ALWAYS only take calls on my phone. I act like Oh, just a girl living alone. and take my time *oh just a shy girl* to show my tits. and point the phone at my tits. I drag that bitch out so fast. And I get dudes wanting to call (at least they USED TO before all the changes) bc i will dirty text them a little, and act all "oh wanna do a call, I've been wanna try it out"
ALWAYS on my phone. Love that we can do that. HAHA. makes it so much harder to IDK show pussy and shit.


I think it may also because they are an APP. and Google and Apple cracked way the FUCK down on apps. I lot of apps I use have ads (bc I am too cheap to pay for them) and a LOT are showing "phrendly, talk to cuties now"
Also they are advertising on FB/IG bc they think it will bring more traffic? IDK. but I was promoted several times on their FB. saw more "starts" but not much more traffic. and all dudes wanting to meet IRL. UGH. they are all like super weird creepers. someone up above me quoted me about this app dying and they are riding it out until it hits the skids.
man. I really did star the fuck out of these freaks while I was on the toilet. multitasking and all. now even starring dudes while I take a shit is not a good ROI.
And girls are giving away nudes for 35 cetns WHAT THE HEZELLL? NO bitches. No. charge for that shit. IF IF IF IF they have spent a lot on me, done calls, etc... I will send a nice "oh look I just went to the gym and my tits are so huge and sweaty in this bra" pic. but nothing more. CHARGE FOR EVERYTHING.
MAn, I am seriously working on learning how to create phone apps. And I sure as fuck am not going to have cheap ass 35 cents.
Edit: It took 3 days to hit a $10 payout. I just deleted this app. Noped out. Let me know if it gets good again.
Last edited by KLttyKat; 09-28-2018 at 03:02 AM. Reason: Deleted this stupid app





I thought that I was the only one who did that! Omg too funny!
It got so dead for me, that the one and ONLY guy to want a webcam chat, messaged me JUST as I was going into a one on one on my cam site.
Normally I would ask the guy to wait.
But, I figured, screw it.
Ironically, the 2 guys looked very similar. Both rough and tumble Hispanic dudes.
"Oh, yeah, baby. Fuck me with that uncut dick!"
Ha ha!
I've grown to hate this site with a passion!
I think I'm going to delete the app from my phone too.
The video chat guys on here are a joke. If you're not naked right away, they either leave right away or jack for 2 minutes and disappear. For this reason I like to hurry up and increase my prices as high as they can go right before a guy video chats me. It's so pointless though, spending all that time putting makeup and a sexy bikini, making sure the lighting is right, just for a measly 2 minutes. Waste of time anymore.





^ I def agree with the video chat fuckery but I'm riding this one out until it's death bc with all it's faults , this app still keeps me afloat & since I can't cam right now, it's been good to me![]()
"Alot of people are afraid to say what they want, that's why they don't get what they want"~ Madonna
"Respect is a dying art"
"Philosophy is the talk on a cereal box"
I'm like two texts away from payout. I haven't used the app in forever.
May the sex work Gods shine down upon me this week, I want a back massage and I don't want to pay for it.





Why does my profile now say "pending?" I didn't say anything inappropriate in it and I didn't get any emails from Phrendly about doing anything wrong, so not sure what's going on.
They never emailed me to change my stuff either, just put it back into private. Something probably needs to be changed in your 4 words, bio or pic.





^ I had to change up my entire tagline wording in order for it to become "phrendly" again LOL They also unapproved my gif which had been on there since I started in 2017 & slapped the other one on which I'm not too crazy about.
I needed to update my gif anyways though so I look at it as a fire under my ass![]()
"Alot of people are afraid to say what they want, that's why they don't get what they want"~ Madonna
"Respect is a dying art"
"Philosophy is the talk on a cereal box"
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